I always read into everything too much (long)

jaybeezi

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Most of this is just somewhat interesting story/backround the actuall,.... umm, question is in the last 2 paragraphs, so read whatever you feel like reading. But you already knew you could do that didnt you.

I always think that every little thing that happens means some huge thing, but so far I havent been that off. As you might have seen in past posts, "Dancing with other guys"& Do I want her to let me go" she ended up lying to me about moving to a different city, saying she was already there, yet I later found out through a co-worker that she was here for 2 weeks, after she had supposedly "left". Whatever i'm over it.

Anyway, here is the situation with the next girl, actually woman, she's 28 and i'm 22, she's from thailand, and has been here for a year and a half. She had a younger bf for a year, and that ended 2 months ago (he's 26).

I met her at a club, her friends told me that she wanted to dance with me. Then she invited me to a party the next night, gave me her #, and went to carrows afterwards. So I call her the next day, and then picked her and her friends up later that night.

We go to this "asian party" (i'm white btw), we had a good time, she seemed to have a very high IL, I asked her to dance many times and she said yes and was very happy each time, she even said thank you after each dance, and she also asked me a couple of times.

Then this dude who was there for awhile motions her over towards him, and she gets up and goes over to him he says something to her, she walks away and goes outside. Me and her friends go outside and they start talking about something, and pointing at me, (I have no clue what they are saying) later I ask her what happened, and she told me it was her ex-bf, he was pissed that she had brought me there to make him jelous or whatever. which was not the case. (at least I hope not)

She apologized repeatedly for what happened, I just told her not to worry about it. We talk for a while, and she tells me that she has to go to S.F. the next day to see her friend in the hosp.
(2hr drive) but doesnt know how to get there, and asks if I would like to go with her, I say maybe, and then sure. So we were supposed to go at 2 today, but she calls me at 1:30 and tells me "I already went early this morning, sorry, o.k bye." and hangs up.

??? what's up with that?

Also, when we were talking her ex-bf called and she told him that he was drunk, and should call her tomorrow. She re-assured me that she does not want to get back together with him at all, because he talks hella shyt about her, saying she is a wh*re from thailand etc.. and she went to get some of her things from his apt. and found a used condom. on the floor.
 

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Sounds to me like she was using you to make her ex jealous.. Maybe that wasn't her original idea when she first danced with you but she brought you to a asian party just after meeting you.. SO theres a good chance she knew he was going to be there and even if not if she truly didn't want anything to do with him why would she continue talking to him ? It may simply be a case of her being a submissive woman.. some girls will love a guy even if they abuse her.. the fact she found a used condom on the floor and then brought you to the asian party to me anyways sudgests you were being used... Woman do that suprisingly often I always am getting told by female friends about how they made out with some guy at a club to make someone jealous and even last night a couger who I had forgotten to call brought a stranger to a little house party I was at and spent the whole evening trying to point out they were togather going so far as making little comments about how I'd be seeing him more often...

Be careful dawg..
 

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thanks man, I will. She swore that she had no idea he was going to be there (he is also white), and that hey had not talked in months. She also said that she had to be nice to him because she did not like people going around talking shyt about her.

I dont know, I think I'm just going to wait and see if she calls me.
 

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hahah..thailand wh*re... anyways...next her...and spread rumors that she sucks di ck
 
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