I almost killed a grown man, indirectly and over p$ssy

[CBear]

Friend of mine found out I was sleeping around with a girl he was really interested in. He had confessed his obsession to me several times but I knew the girl didn’t reciprocate. I don’t feel I did anything wrong. There are no rules in the game.

Anyways, when he found out, he took a bunch of Oxys to help rid his pain of betrayal and almost died of OD. I know it sounds sad but I get a laugh out of this. I am disgusted at his mental weakness.

Men, don’t be like my ex friend. You should never care that much, especially over a girl that isn’t giving you any physical intimacy.

Sure hes a weak and naive guy but next time you go through a truly dark time in your life, don't get upset when other people are laughing and overjoyed at your expense. Karma hits back harder.

 

[RickTheToad]

I respectfully disagree. If we are close , go to the mall and you see an exclusive jacket you really like and be like " I gonna get this with my next paycheck next week" and next thing you know, I am walking in that jacket then I am a bytch.

If we are brothers, imma protect your interests.

OP might have weak friends but you know what they say...show me your friends and I'll tell you who you are. "

Prison and the graveyard is full of men because of women . Let's not underestimate this fact.

Nah , only 1 % of dudes is the true Alpha (LEADER) ,and capable of rejecting wet cat in order to maintain a bond between brothers. Said hoe exposed OP more then her self basically.

OP must know how much greater it would feel if he would reject the hoe, and stand above the situation.


Funny thing, we call it trivial " but any animal will murder you over females. Apparently a kangaroo for example, will be stupid enough to think you as a human are competition and you are after his harem if you just enter his area and disembowel you in a second.

Whatever you say dude. Just remember, karma is real..

 

[Bokanovsky]

It takes an insecure and small-minded person to delight in the anguish of others.

 

[BadBoy89]

Men say that all the time but few men actually live up to it. The thirst is real.

Would say it depends on the woman’s age.

33 and fertile -> thirst.
43 and menopausal -> rather go out with the boogeyman.

 

[Cerwin Vega]

Weird flex but ok

 

[SW15]

Would say it depends on the woman’s age.

33 and fertile -> thirst.
43 and menopausal -> rather go out with the boogeyman.

A 33 year old woman, if childless, is heavily pursued in most cases. She may field fewer in-person approaches than when she was 23, but that lack of in-person volume is made up for if she uses a swipe app, which she likely does. If she doesn't, she likely uses some combination of Twitter, LinkedIn, or Instagram regularly, and she's receiving DMs for dates on those platforms.

A 43 year old is more likely to have children already, but that's changing to an extent.

There is current a wave of 1980s born Millennials who are about to turn 40 and are childless. While childlessness at 40 was unusual in the Boomer generation and semi-unusual for the Gen X'ers, the wave of Millennials turning 40 now and for the next 5 years are seeing far more cases of childlessness. A lot of these 1980s born Millennials were finishing school when the economy went to shiit in the late 2000s and they weren't in the mood to have kids then or in the years that followed. Some are having "Last Call" babies now if they managed to find a longer term mate. In my social circle as a 39 year old, I know many women who are around 35 right now and having "Last Call" babies. These are usually in dual income households with both members of the household having BA/BS degrees or higher.

Even a 43 year old, late Gen X'er woman today will have no problem finding men interested in her, childless or as a single mom. The typical single male in his 40s is a vagina beggar for women close to his own age. These men are happy to settle for whatever woman is willing to touch their penis on a regular basis.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

No offense OP, but this would be something I'd be ashamed of as a man not bragging about.

 

[Barrister]

OP,

You are really on a roll lately with your "friends" -- first the "friend" (and groom no less) at the wedding whose sister-in-law you clumsily tried to hook up with and now causing another "friend" to almost OD and taking joy in it. Yeah - you sound like a guy I would love to have in the bunker with me when the going gets tough....

 

[Gamisch]

Character? There is not much character in the game we play.
Its nature. On the flip side the same egoic mind pats himself on the back when he "does the right thing" and denies his own desires in the game. Its quite funny watching the mind twist its perspective.

When 1 guy says in passing that He likes the girl and she is hot? Now suddenly she is off limits in his circle?
At 26? Quite a different thing if it was a committed thing.
Not here. At this stage the game is as brutal as mating lions.

"Lies takes sprints while truth runs marathons" is a golden line .

But what you see in thread is most guys (including myself) tend to have a "tribe over everything " type mentality( what explains why so many men struggle nowedays). You are supposed to be your brothers keeper, right?

Pulling suicide cards for a girl who just passed by seems unlikely. Seems like friend was intensely in love already, and if his friend was a member here he would've post something like " hanging with this girl but didn't escalate what to do " .

I agree tho, that op seems to have the dark traits needed to be more edgy than his friend, and that there is a lesson hidden within this thread for all men.

But the way I was raised, is the real Alpha would straight up tell you your girl tried to get at him, rejected her and warns you about it.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

What happened to your earlier take about his friend being weak? I actually liked your earlier take but I think this one is wrong. Shame? A man being shamed for what?
Competing in the SMP and winning? The guy with oneitus almost killed himself. Lol
Your girl will bring another dude to your funeral. Maybe even blow him in the parking lot.
Some of you guys are not taking good enough notes

He claimed the guy was his "friend". If that's the way you treat someone who is your friend than that's on you. Not how I roll.

 

[Knight of Roses]

I think most of you are missing the point entirely. This post is not meant to shed light on my character nor is it meant to evaluate the integrity of “male friendships”. It’s to shed light on the fact that emotional attachment to a woman can be weak, dangerous, and may cost you your life.

 

[corrector]

I think most of you are missing the point entirely. This post is not meant to shed light on my character nor is it meant to evaluate the integrity of “male friendships”. It’s to shed light on the fact that emotional attachment to a woman can be weak, dangerous, and may cost you your life.

Tell yourself that if it helps you sleep better at night.

 

[Gamisch]

I think most of you are missing the point entirely. This post is not meant to shed light on my character nor is it meant to evaluate the integrity of “male friendships”. It’s to shed light on the fact that emotional attachment to a woman can be weak, dangerous, and may cost you your life.

Well every post, every word we type sheds light on our characters. I think every man here knows how dangerous women can be to his mental state.

You seem to miss the fact that it simply nothing to be proud of. Your tonality suggest you find it kinda funny(!?!?!?) your homie went suicidal .

I wrote before that in order to have an affair there needs to be fuel. Your friend was the fuel in this case, and indeed got burned. If you happened to swipe right on the same girl as he did,I would kinda understand. But I wouldn't be surprised if you met her via him, kept it a secret for a while (affair like thing) and later told him about it. So you "snaked " your way around him.

Look , you had your fun both ways . Homie got burned and you got p00n. Yet my option stands, a TRUE Alpha can reject p00n of its tainted. I rather lose a woman than a good,good friend. But you do you by all means .

Just remember. Now the anger went inwards . Next time a dude will show the anger outwards and take itouton you. Then suicidal becomes homicidal. You wouldn't be the first man to get stabbed or shot over something "trivial" as a woman...

 

[corrector]

Just remember. Now the anger went inwards . Next time a dude will show the anger outwards and take itouton you. Then suicidal becomes homicidal. You wouldn't be the first man to get stabbed or shot over something "trivial" as a woman...

His friend might still be thinking of doing that to him.

 

[CBear]

I think most of you are missing the point entirely. This post is not meant to shed light on my character nor is it meant to evaluate the integrity of “male friendships”. It’s to shed light on the fact that emotional attachment to a woman can be weak, dangerous, and may cost you your life.

Also a good way for you to avoid accountability. You're trying to make an example out of the guy but an even better example can be made out of you.

 

[kavi]

I think most of you are missing the point entirely. This post is not meant to shed light on my character nor is it meant to evaluate the integrity of “male friendships”. It’s to shed light on the fact that emotional attachment to a woman can be weak, dangerous, and may cost you your life.

So is emotional attachment to p$ssy. This whole scenario seems like a ****-show.

I dont advise men to be bragging about casual sex. Its disgusting, both the act and the bragging. And men need to stop lying that they dont want relationships.

Women mostly do the casual thing with loser guys. I know this from multiple different 'sources'.

Most men do want two things. Casual sex and relationships. Higher quality men mostly want relationships, it doesnt need to be monogamous.

Guys who 'supply' women with casual sex are mostly the low-quality guys who are messing it up for all other guys. If women didnt have access to casual sex and men not being able to say no to that, they would be forced to behave better in relationships. For men, it really is about understanding that casual sex is really for younger inexperienced men, losers, and it creates problem across the board.

Its disgusting that OP is humble bragging about how he "almost killed a grown man" lol this whole thing is a ****-show much like the current dating market and the secrets and mysteries of all the low end loser guys women have ****ed that they will never admit to.

 

[member160761]

Also a good way for you to avoid accountability. You're trying to make an example out of the guy but an even better example can be made out of you.

lol he's just bull****ting and cannot admit he just wanted sex and pretends he has the moral highground. He's a dispicable male for even trying to talk his way out of it and searching for agreement here. Even worse than his pu$$y friend. There is a special place in hell for traitors.

 

[member160761]

So is emotional attachment to p$ssy. This whole scenario seems like a ****-show.

I dont advise men to be bragging about casual sex. Its disgusting, both the act and the bragging. And men need to stop lying that they dont want relationships.

Women mostly do the casual thing with loser guys. I know this from multiple different 'sources'.

Most men do want two things. Casual sex and relationships. Higher quality men mostly want relationships, it doesnt need to be monogamous.

Guys who 'supply' women with casual sex are mostly the low-quality guys who are messing it up for all other guys. If women didnt have access to casual sex and men not being able to say no to that, they would be forced to behave better in relationships. For men, it really is about understanding that casual sex is really for younger inexperienced men, losers, and it creates problem across the board.

Its disgusting that OP is humble bragging about how he "almost killed a grown man" lol this whole thing is a ****-show much like the current dating market and the secrets and mysteries of all the low end loser guys women have ****ed that they will never admit to.

Basado poster.

 

[Barrister]

The really ironic part is the dude won't have trouble attracting women.
If your game is lacking a sprinkling of this kind of ruthlessness its probably why a guy will struggle.
The guy is being genuine while the rest creep around either in the nice guy realm or the tradcon realm of finding the christian girl which both will usually end in disaster. Its pretend.

Lies run sprints while truth runs marathons

Sure. Women are often attracted to dark triad behavior out of men. No question and I agree with that - ruthlessness could certainly turn a woman on.

What I do take issue with is that the ruthlessness here wasn't done to get a woman in bed but instead OP seems to be taking joy in the fact that him bagging a woman that his "friend" liked subsequently caused the friend to OD. That doesn't sound like a "friend" to me. If OP was my friend and I found out he took ANY enjoyment out of my struggles, women-related or anything else, I can guarantee you he and I would be history as far as a friendship goes. I am not sugar-coating this when I say I find OP's mindset to be pretty pathetic.

 

[kavi]

The really ironic part is the dude won't have trouble attracting women.
If your game is lacking a sprinkling of this kind of ruthlessness its probably why a guy will struggle.
The guy is being genuine while the rest creep around either in the nice guy realm or the tradcon realm of finding the christian girl which both will usually end in disaster. Its pretend.

Lies run sprints while truth runs marathons

Well, I disagree completely on this.

If you are trying to get a women into bed with you, you will fail with women long term, it is just a simping strategy.

A guys responsibility is to be the best guy and the womens responsibility is to sleep with the best guy.

Are men spending time on the correct path to excellence that will ATTRACT a woman or are you spending time trying to get better at getting a woman into bed? Its like spend time building a good product or learn to try and sell a crap product to the unsuspecting market?

In the long term the former strategy will win and the latter will yield little to no fruit.

Also, its 2022, there are no 'nice guys' out there like in the 2000s. Almost every guy is red-pilled to some extent. Few guys are being friendzoned etc.

THERE IS NO VALUE IN GETTING A WOMAN INTO BED WITH YOU. SHE HAS TO COME INTO YOUR BED BECAUSE YOU ARE THE BEST GUY OUTSIDE OF THE BEDROOM. NO GETTING HER TO YOUR PLACE WITH EXCUSES. NO KINO. NO SLEAZY SEX TALK.

All the above is simping and WOMEN KNOW IT.

OP is not ruthless he is a SIMP. He is not even dominating this girl emotionally or psychologically, she isnt contributing to his goals or system, she is not adding value or respect to his life in any way so wtf did he get nothing but a ****-show of a story.