I Aint Your Girl!!

[slickaz]

yeh..so one (1/4) of the girls ive been seeing for about 6 months..

i introduced her to some of my friends, they saw me and her on a street heading for dinner and i was courteous and intro'd her.

anyway 6 months forward, we have not had the exclusivity talk, i dont intend on having it and we're seeing other people etc just having fun.

we were at a club and one of the friends that i intro'd her too..is throwing a bday party.."yo Slick! my crib next friday..party bout to get jumpin!...be there and bring your girl".

he didnt mean my gf, but in urban slang he meant it as your chic..or her..

i said "aight son..u already kno!.."

10 minutes later..out of the blue.. I AINT YOUR GIRL!!!! AND YOU 6 MONTHS DOWN AND YOU STILL DUNNO WHATS GOING ON! Im flying away next week for work overseas, so you better make this weekend good after calling me your girl!!!"

me: excuse you? did you just raise ur voice at me?
her: yeh i did! i aint ur girl..
me: you need to stop actin high n mighty woman, please dont assume ur place on my list is higher than what it really is based on some sh!t somebody else said..slow your role and play your part..dont ever raise ur voice at me infront of my friends..

...and i walked away from her..

she called me and said "ok maybe i was a little harsh.."
and i was still mad..so "if thats your apology..i think ull have to try alot harder..ill see you when i do..bye" click...

advice?

 

[DJDamage]

advice?

Sounds to me like you got everything under control. You did everything right.

My hunch is telling me that this chick is going to try and make it up to you, if not then adios.

 

[russian2]

do you always talk like an uneducated ****? not trying to be rude but that topic was almost impossible to comprehend because of your sentence structure

 

[CarbonFX]

Pure pimp. That's how it should be done! Props.

 

[J Roc]

all you had to do is simply tell her that your boy didn't mean girl as girlfriend but as your homegirl. she was looking to start an argument and you took the bait. you cats need to learn how to avoid arguments and keep yourself mackish.

 

[surfdog]

You're the man!

 

[goodfoot]

I don't see that as an arguement. He said what he had to say, and left. I would call and say something like, "You should fix me dinner tonight to make it up to me." I'm glad you put her in her place.

 

[DonGorgon]

Sounds like a hood rat only good for F'ing... I would not make her my girlfriend.. ever

 

[Hooligan Harry]

Advice?

Learn to speak english properly. It will help you get a decent job. With a decent job comes money. With decent money comes "All da pimp clothes and honeys, aight"

 

[DonGorgon]

Advice?

Learn to speak english properly. It will help you get a decent job. With a decent job comes money. With decent money comes "All da pimp clothes and honeys, aight"

LOL...funny

but remember that not all people speak english the same way .. I am from england and let me tell you there are 15 different english accents and 20 different sets of slangs..

 

[slickaz]

Advice?

Learn to speak english properly. It will help you get a decent job. With a decent job comes money. With decent money comes "All da pimp clothes and honeys, aight"

hehehe thanks dude appreciate your advice..
i do tend to bring my black side when im out hangin with my friends..i have not had the immensely advantageous opportunity to learn to dialogue in perfect vocabulary. something you clearly have attained and are rightfully proud of.

Im only 25 years old..ive been in the workforce since i was 17. 17 to 23 i did my 2 conjoint degrees and masters in law of contracts..

as for my urban inclined speech and written skills..i work as a senior legal consultant for a company you may have heard of....Accenture? theyre only the worlds largest, most decorated and well respected business and accounting consulting firm...so as for the job..i think my consistent 6 figure salary would confirm, they did not hire me solely on my skills to connect to the average joe in an urban setting.
as for 'nice' things, i own a brand new house by a lake and one 2007 Merc E class obsidian black custom paint with 22' black rims.
in case i forget, i also have a walk in wardrobe connected to the same room in which i am currently in. it contains many names you may readily recognize..such as gucci, burberry men, armani, ralph, versace, sean john, evisu, red monkey, orisue, creative recreation and many more..oh and not to mention the 32 pairs of jordans and 6 pairs of different shaded vuitton business shoes....oh oh oh ! one more thing, im addicted to prada sunglasses...so addicted! that i own 4 pairs, silver, gold, black and white..all prada italia.

4 words my brother..dont judge without knowing.

i dont mean to show off..but its just to show people out there, never underestimate the people you deal with.. they may be much better of than you.

and if you have made it better than me..then congratulations! im happy for you...

just because i speak the way i do with my friends....does not necessarily mean im a dumb dude with no life, education, money or 'nice' things..as you have tried to portray... ..


oh ps: i grew up in Miami, but was requested by my firm to work at the offices around the world..hence i fly, fully paid for ofcourse, business class only, to countries such as Japan, Singapore, Australia, New Zealand, Italy, England and Dubai....clients in those countries...home base is Australia...just putting it out there...about the 'job'

 

[Warrior74]

hehehe thanks dude appreciate your advice..
i do tend to bring my black side when im out hangin with my friends..i have not had the immensely advantageous opportunity to learn to dialogue in perfect vocabulary. something you clearly have attained and are rightfully proud of.

Im only 25 years old..ive been in the workforce since i was 17. 17 to 23 i did my 2 conjoint degrees and masters in law of contracts..

as for my urban inclined speech and written skills..i work as a senior legal consultant for a company you may have heard of....Accenture? theyre only the worlds largest, most decorated and well respected business and accounting consulting firm...so as for the job..i think my consistent 6 figure salary would confirm, they did not hire me solely on my skills to connect to the average joe in an urban setting.
as for 'nice' things, i own a brand new house by a lake and one 2007 Merc E class obsidian black custom paint with 22' black rims.
in case i forget, i also have a walk in wardrobe connected to the same room in which i am currently in. it contains many names you may readily recognize..such as gucci, burberry men, armani, ralph, versace, sean john, evisu, red monkey, orisue, creative recreation and many more..oh and not to mention the 32 pairs of jordans and 6 pairs of different shaded vuitton business shoes....oh oh oh ! one more thing, im addicted to prada sunglasses...so addicted! that i own 4 pairs, silver, gold, black and white..all prada italia.

4 words my brother..dont judge without knowing.

i dont mean to show off..but its just to show people out there, never underestimate the people you deal with.. they may be much better of than you.

and if you have made it better than me..then congratulations! im happy for you...

just because i speak the way i do with my friends....does not necessarily mean im a dumb dude with no life, education, money or 'nice' things..as you have tried to portray... ..


oh ps: i grew up in Miami, but was requested by my firm to work at the offices around the world..hence i fly, fully paid for ofcourse, business class only, to countries such as Japan, Singapore, Australia, New Zealand, Italy, England and Dubai....clients in those countries...home base is Australia...just putting it out there...about the 'job'

never qualify yourself to racist asshats. if they read your post then they know the difference between hanging out slang and the rest of your post. They just don't want to hear anything "urban" hence the fact that they are racist asshats. The only parts of your post in urban were the actual conversation which shows you obviously know how to express yourself in the queens english. So fock those guys.

NOW IF YO WHOLE POSTS N SHYT WAS WRITTIEN IN EBONICS WIF BAD SPELLINZ THEN DAT MITE BE DIFFRENT N SHYT HOMIE.

Shake those haters off. BTW. You handled it right. If you try to 'explain' to girls like that you come off as weak. You have to put that type in her place harshly. That's all they understand. Make her cook your dinner, suck your dyck and move forward. But since she's getting out of pocket in public...don't take her anywhere for a while. Blockbuster and backbreaking for her from now on. She just lost all her arm candy privilages for a while. Spin plates.

 

[jmchavz]

do you always talk like an uneducated ****? not trying to be rude but that topic was almost impossible to comprehend because of your sentence structure

AFC ALERT!!! AFC ALERT!!! AFC ALERT!!! AFC ALERT!!! AFC ALERT!!!

I UNDERSTOOD EVERY LAST WORD, SLIKAZ!!!! :kick:

 

[jmchavz]

Advice?

Learn to speak english properly. It will help you get a decent job. With a decent job comes money. With decent money comes "All da pimp clothes and honeys, aight"

ANOTHER AFC ALERT!!!! ANOTHER AFC ALERT!!!! ANOTHER AFC ALERT!!!! ANOTHER AFC ALERT!!!! ANOTHER AFC ALERT!!!! ANOTHER AFC ALERT!!!! ANOTHER AFC ALERT!!!! ANOTHER AFC ALERT!!!! ANOTHER AFC ALERT!!!! ANOTHER AFC ALERT!!!! ANOTHER AFC ALERT!!!! ANOTHER AFC ALERT!!!!

Dis guy thinks money is EVERYTHING!!!! Gua Ha Ha!!! :trouble:

 

[brian123]

I understand every word, but even though you make make a bazillion dollars a year, somewhat proper English is still appreciated. Sentences still start with capital letters and writing just as you talk is still considered improper.

NO where is my 2nd period English teacher?

 

[slickaz]

Thanks guys, appreciate your advice.

She called me back twice yesterday, and said she was very mad hence the blow up. Also mentioned, she thinks she may have her periods hence the b!tchyness.

I told her, i dont care if she had a light pole stuck up her a55, she shouldnt be talking down to anyone like that. Especially a dude she's been seeing for 6 months.

((I love how women can immediately blame their "time of the week" thing as a reason to get mad, when they are trying to make up))

she said sorry again, and that she wants to come saturday afternoon to hang out. Saturday night is the party and i think she is trying to make up for it by actually coming along to the party with me.

Like the boy Warrior74 said, i shouldnt be taking her to this and I dont intend on taking her. so i might have to just use her for saturday afternoon, and then tell her its over. i dont know.

shes gets no ride in the E class, nomore going to fancy places, and certainly no more gifts on special occasions. inside though i feel like im ready to drop this and move..

Warrior74: Thank you young sir, i shouldve let it go, but i dont appreciate being told speaking the way one does makes him (or any other person) look uneducated poor and stupid and;
WTF does 'Decent Money' mean? like if you speak a slang you're money is not decent?...
i come here through the day to vent, learn and help dudes like me, working 5 days 40 hours all i do is write professional legal documents and have corporate and executive meetings with my clients. so when im here or when i play its downtime. but all good.

 

[DonGorgon]

I understand every word, but even though you make make a bazillion dollars a year, somewhat proper English is still appreciated. Sentences still start with capital letters and writing just as you talk is still considered improper.

NO where is my 2nd period English teacher?

I think you are to sensitive.:yes: :yes: :yes: and should focus on his message and not implications you take from his writing style.

 

[DonGorgon]

i feel like im ready to drop this and move...

Like Jayz said - "..soon as she fuss i'm breezin'"..

 

[macallik]

This whole thread made me think of you as backbreaker reincarnated...

Anyhow, read up on "plate theory" in the archives to maintain your girls better.

 

[slickaz]

what is a backbreaker? because where i come from, if you were called that...its a good thing....lol..thanks for the advice ill look it up asap