SoSuave666 said:
1.) Guarantee she has told people.
2.) Your 600 character text messages are detrimental to this relationship for a couple of reasons. First, you give punishable merit to the accident. You are making it a HUGE deal. Your beta ways provide her with the ammunition to use against YOU. Second, you are giving her walls of text explaining how soooorrrrrrry you are--nailing it into her head that she is of higher value because you continually apologize. She has written proof of how much of a pvssy you are.
3.) The situation would have been much more salvageable had you not made this into a huge deal.
4.) The only way to even have a remote chance down the road is to just stop talking to her for minimum 1 month. Just don't say anything to her...like she's not even there. You'll see if she ever had any feelings for you after that.
5.) Yes, you have oneitis.
6.) Yes, you have a problem moving on.
yeah, thats what ive been thinking to myself these past few days. i went so beta that night with the texts. repped. however, i doubt a girl would tell other ppl who she has given a bj to, i doubt even more that she would brag about how a guy peed in her mouth. it was stupid with the texts, and i have learned from my mistake. this will probably never happen to me in the future, but should it do, i will not make a big deal out of it because it is no big deal. i can get any girl, not just her. she is not special in any way. what i had for her, i can have with other girls.
the next time i see her, tuesday in class, i will completely ignore her. i will not blame her. i will not make up a story of how i puked on a girl and that imaginary girl forgave me. i will not apologize further. i will simply ignore her. correct?
last time i gave her the cold shoulder she wanted me more. but last time i messed up, i didnt actually mess up. i popped her cherry and she was upset over it. and i gave her the cold shoulder, and she came over for the second time.
i will ignore her again. if she wants to talk to me, i will stare straight ahead the the french lesson being taught. should there be spare time, i will start doing homework from my other classes, i will not interact with her at all. correct?
i will do my best to do this, and i will update this thread more as things progress.
however, it is hard though, because she likes holding my hand during class since we sit in the back row and nobody can see us. if she attempts to hold my hand, what do i do? should i resist? we also used to play hangman during class using sexual phrases and ****. i should stop that too right? assuming that she wants to the next time i see her. i doubt she will do any of these though, she will probably ignore me back.
right? complete isolation is what i should do here DJ's? no contact at all. if she wants me then she will initiate, and i will refuse, to redemonstrate myself as higher value. correct?
