I’ve never given a facial

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I know the question was for someone else, but I’ll state this:

Every woman wants to find a man that makes her WANT TO SUBMIT. I’ve experienced this many times as I tend to date fairly intelligent, strident women.

They’re in positions that grant them authority over others at work and want a man to take charge. Not any man, but a man who she deems is worthy of it.

Every one of them has reacted well to being manhandled, ass slaps, hand on neck, hair pulling and super submissive positions - most have said something along the lines of (holy shyte! I never thought I’d like that - but damn keep doing it). Or my personal fave “I always thought that was porn bull shyte!”.

It is not so much about what you do, it’s about the frame of mind you put her in. This takes practice, I really don’t think it can be taught - it’s trial and error - and specific to each man’s strengths.

May I ask you how you 'force' their submission? I'm intrigued by that, since I can't read dom women (I don't get them).
 
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Yeah I usually sext before meeting them so I know what they’ll do. If they won’t swallow I avoid bjs as a finisher and just either not cvm at all or finish in her pvssy



Can confirm. I still remember one time I had come home from my fwb (later that year she became my gf) and was on a dating app and matched with a dtf girl. She came over and we did the deed. Cumming inside her after having sex with the fwb a few hours prior put me on another level emotionally. I felt really good. Nature rewarding me I assume
I also smashed two girls bareback in the same day, good feeling but I caught chlamydia, not sure off which one though I suspect the last girl.

I had a gf at the time (2016/17) and I made her take a pill and said I had a UTI, she went to Ibiza the next day. Not sure she ever really believed me the relationship went south from that point. I was a shameless cheater back then. Not good times at all, very chaotic.
 

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I also smashed two girls bareback in the same day, good feeling but I caught chlamydia, not sure off which one though I suspect the last girl.

I had a gf at the time (2016/17) and I made her take a pill and said I had a UTI, she went to Ibiza the next day. Not sure she ever really believed me the relationship went south from that point. I was a shameless cheater back then. Not good times at all, very chaotic.
Luckily I’ve never contracted an std despite taking girls word for being clean. It’s something I gotta tighten up since I don’t want to ever get one.

as for cheating, are you able to have multiple women while being honest? I’ve noticed that women are hella jealous. I’m always honest but I’m sure I’ve lost more than double the amount of girls I’ve gotten simply because they didn’t want to share me.

Even in 2019 when I was living with a polyamorous couple and banging the wife, she got so jealous when I would get laid elsewhere. Hypocrisy at its finest but it’s how women are ime. Any advice in that regard would be awesome
 

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C'mon man, don't get bashful now. You're using examples from your own experience that's relevant to the point you're making. Of course I can just google positions. I want to know from your experience.
 

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The hottest thing I've done with an ex was banged her in a public bathroom, came on her big tits and she rubbed the *** all over them, put her clothes back on and we continued our day. Just knowing she was walking around with my *** still on her was a huge turn on.
 

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The point I’m making is that most women enjoy a man that is dominant mentally and it is then followed by their willingness to do submit mentally and physically to whatever you want.

What each of us want is subjective.

What positions or situations I put my aforementioned partners in is not relevant to this line of discussion.


C'mon man, don't get bashful now. You're using examples from your own experience that's relevant to the point you're making. Of course I can just google positions. I want to know from your experience.
 

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Luckily I’ve never contracted an std despite taking girls word for being clean. It’s something I gotta tighten up since I don’t want to ever get one.

as for cheating, are you able to have multiple women while being honest? I’ve noticed that women are hella jealous. I’m always honest but I’m sure I’ve lost more than double the amount of girls I’ve gotten simply because they didn’t want to share me.

Even in 2019 when I was living with a polyamorous couple and banging the wife, she got so jealous when I would get laid elsewhere. Hypocrisy at its finest but it’s how women are ime. Any advice in that regard would be awesome
I’ve never tried having a girlfriend and being honest while banging other women. I’ve spun plates and been honest I’m seeing other women, not the same thing though.
 

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I’ve never tried having a girlfriend and being honest while banging other women. I’ve spun plates and been honest I’m seeing other women, not the same thing though.
Yeah even my plates don’t want me to see other women
 

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I know the question was for someone else, but I’ll state this:

Every woman wants to find a man that makes her WANT TO SUBMIT. I’ve experienced this many times as I tend to date fairly intelligent, strident women.

They’re in positions that grant them authority over others at work and want a man to take charge. Not any man, but a man who she deems is worthy of it.

Every one of them has reacted well to being manhandled, ass slaps, hand on neck, hair pulling and super submissive positions - most have said something along the lines of (holy shyte! I never thought I’d like that - but damn keep doing it). Or my personal fave “I always thought that was porn bull shyte!”.

It is not so much about what you do, it’s about the frame of mind you put her in. This takes practice, I really don’t think it can be taught - it’s trial and error - and specific to each man’s strengths.

Even with Dom women that 'want' to take control? Should one just force it and wrestle till she submits or what?
 

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Even with Dom women that 'want' to take control? Should one just force it and wrestle till she submits or what?
I currently have a plate that has always been in dominant positions. She loves to make fun of the things that she has done to guys and how freaky it can be.

What she said about me was that it was the first time in memory that she has even considered being subordinate, but that somehow my personality brings it out in her. She has never resisted or put up any resistance to anything I wanted to do to her she claims to love it.

To be honest, one of the things that I love is when a woman rides me. The one time she tried to restrain my wrists with hers? I broke out of it instantly and slapped her ass so hard. I left a mark. She also had an orgasm almost instantly.

It was a power-play, and she lost. The sex is outstanding.

All the above said, only believe 50% of what a woman tells you. Watch her actions, do not listen to her words. Half of the time they don’t know what the fnck they want, it’s up to you to determine what it is and provide it.

unfortunately, it’s Art not science.
 

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Swallowing is the height of interest imo.

When she walks to the bathroom to spit out, her interest is declining.

I have never given a facial. Finished everywhere else though. I prefer finishing inside.
 

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OK so this Ukranian I'm seeing will be the first girl I give a facial, I'm seeing her Friday, she's coming to my place after work. I have no ejaculated all week and drinking plenty of water.

I want to record it, but on our second date (like last week at my place) she specifically asked if I had recorded my ex and I having sex and if I had video of it on my laptop (which one of you told her?). I admitted I did record girls, but not really secretly (I lied, sometimes in secret), and that all the vids were on my phone and I wouldn't put anything on the internet (true).

I can only think she's asked this question as someone has recorded her previously and she wouldn't be up for it, how do you go about getting permission to record a facial? It's not something you can really start doing spur of the moment, you're literally wipping a phone out and wanting her to look in the camera as you nut on their face.

I really want to do it, it's like a fetish maybe that I have, the last thing I haven't done sexually that I want to try.
 

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I’ve slept with over 55 women and never bust on their face, even with gfs. I just enjoy sex, don’t really come from head 2 timesEver) and find it difficult to pull out from sex to come on a face.

The idea turns me on I just never got round to doing it. It’s not a serious issue but wondering if others have the same problem?

Is coming on a girls face really as common as porn makes out?
Depends on the woman. I've dated women that loved swallowing my loads and would even tell me to make sure to let them know when I was about to cvm so they could suck it out of me...I found it super hot when I was fvcking them doggystyle, I'd ask them if they were ready for some cvm and they say "give it to me" and then turn around, I'd grab their hair in a bunch and pull her face down and hold it there while they basically clamped their mouth on my c0ck and sucked it until I exploded...

Even had one that I had sitting sideways as I was half on/half off the bed and fvcking her ass hard and fast in that position that turned around and just clamped down on it right out of her ass with no hesitation. It was kinda hot to see her that into it but kinda nasty at the same time...

Apparently my cvm tastes really good(sweet?), and I have heard that from several women so I guess there must be something to it.

I've dated women that hated it and thought it was disgusting.

Sometimes I like pulling out and seeing if I can blast a load from where I am at(if missionary) to their face or over their head...

So I guess it all depends on the woman and how much she likes it. Probably 50/50 with the women I have dated.
 
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Even had one that I had sitting sideways as I was half on/half off the bed and fvcking her ass hard and fast in that position
Never done that either. I've tried anal once and got it in a bit, and a few playful pokes, just never understood to attraction to anal. not for me. Maybe I should try it with all the girls, if someone is banging their anus why not be me?
 

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The only women I came on their face were the ones that pissed me off, wasted my time despite being attracted or simply misbehaving.

Never felt the need to do it with girls I liked or that behaved good.
 
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