I’m 5’8 and intimidated of hot girls taller than me,Still..

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I have a hard time with taller girls because I’ve never got one , and I guess I still have little man syndrome even though I’ve been fully approaching for 6months

I just can’t pull the trigger,go for hangout/num close because I feel inferior ..(I don’t with shorter girls)

seems about 40% of hot girls are taller than me..

ive ordered soles to make me about inch taller

do any of you have experience being with taller girls and being short?

obviously I’m still trying to fake it till I make it,and something in my core needs corrected
 

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I have a hard time with taller girls because I’ve never got one , and I guess I still have little man syndrome even though I’ve been fully approaching for 6months

I just can’t pull the trigger,go for hangout/num close because I feel inferior ..(I don’t with shorter girls)

seems about 40% of hot girls are taller than me..

ive ordered soles to make me about inch taller

do any of you have experience being with taller girls and being short?

obviously I’m still trying to fake it till I make it,and something in my core needs corrected
Get 2 inch uppers and work on your self frame. Or, wear boots with a 2 inch frame. Dog the bounty hunter is 5'6. His boots boost him up to around 5'9
 

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Lol dont waste time on them you are fighting a losing battle numbers wise imo women are nazis about height
Online hell yea they are! Shallow af online. Even the short ones demanding 6’ and up. I do get some flirting from women taller than me in person though. Sometimes.
 

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You heightmog me by 3". :mad: I still give it a shot, but I only stick with it if I detect an IOI. Of course, that IOI is very rare. :mad: And in those very rare times when I was able to get digits, I wasn't able to get a 1st date; I suspect that the chick remembered, "oh, it's that short guy; why did I even give him number?" :mad::mad::mad:
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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Get 2 inch uppers and work on your self frame. Or, wear boots with a 2 inch frame. Dog the bounty hunter is 5'6. His boots boost him up to around 5'9
I do this. I'm 5'8-5'9.

I'm not really attracted to tall chicks. Not my preference. And I'm not insecure at all about my height. Can't change it.

But I do like like the elevation shoes. And they now make them in trendy and dress styles.
 

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What does he do when it's time for sex and the boots come off, or do the boots stay on during sex?
Women have a shorter trunk relative to a man of the same height, so when lying down, the man seems taller because his trunk is longer.
 

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Just lay down I guess. No standing sex for dudes under 5'10!
I once did a taller gal (yes, it was not an amateur) and started off while we both standing. Because my groin was lower than hers (both because she was taller, and because women have taller legs), it was easy for me to insert, and I was able to achieve relative motion by going on my tippie toes.
 

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I’m 5’9 so I feel your pain.
But there’s girls who date men shorter than them .
The key is dressing very good, and being very cool, sexy and confident. Just act like you don’t care bro . Look right up to her with a straight face , lmao.
 

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Having tight game will make more difference than soles to make you taller. You need to work on this inferiority complex, soles won't fix this, and women can smell it on you.
 

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As long as the female gets a sense of your masculine power. It makes your presence larger. Her tallest lover was 6'4 and in her words "a bittch". He was not masculine/dominant.
On my best days i can hit about 5 10/11 but i charge around like i am 6 2

Some women will not date anybody below 6ft same as i wouldn't date a woman under a 7 its horses for courses

besides I don't like tall chicks anyway they always seem to be a bit insecure themselves and never seem to be that sexy
 

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Im 6 foot 2, dont think for one second women fall at our feet, infact my last 7 leads have been a total waste of time.

its not like they pay for their own uber to mine.
 

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My fwb is 2 inches taller than me. I've fvcked her standing a few times. It hasn't been a problem for me. She mentioned that I am one of most masculine guys that she's been with. Her supposed notch count is higher than 20. I am dominant with how I interact with her. I think this is key. As long as the female gets a sense of your masculine power. It makes your presence larger. Her tallest lover was 6'4 and in her words "a bittch". He was not masculine/dominant.
Told you guys this is more than possible man
It’s all in how you carry yourself.
just like most other things in life
 

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Online hell yea they are! Shallow af online. Even the short ones demanding 6’ and up. I do get some flirting from women taller than me in person though. Sometimes.
I agree that there is a difference between online and offline. If you're primarily using online to interact with me, more women online will hide behind the 6'0"+ preference. And since any woman with a swipe app presence has more options than if she didn't use swipe apps, she'll usually have enough options that she can get away with this. Of course, a lot of the 6'0"+ guys end up pumping and dumping a large percentage of these women, but that's a different story.

If you want to have a chance with taller women, you'll need to be exceptional in some other way to compensate for it. Often wealth, but charisma/game can be the path forward. Meeting them through some real world activity is the best way to do it.

I have a hard time with taller girls because I’ve never got one
Seducing a woman taller than you are is a great challenge. Even women who are the same height as you, 1 inch shorter, or 2 inches shorter can be tough because of heels. Women are particular about being able to wear heels or platform shoes and be shorter than a man.

At 5'10", I'm best served looking for women 5'7" and under. That's playing the percentages for me. Now I do find tall-ish (5'7"-5'9") and tall (5'10"-6'2") women attractive. II also tend to have great commonality with taller women because of my athletic lifestyle. Tall-ish and tall women enjoy playing sports more. I have had sex with one woman taller than I am, but I have gotten women just slightly shorter than I am. 5'3"-5'6" is easier for me, which is the range of most women in the United States.
 

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I have a hard time with taller girls because I’ve never got one , and I guess I still have little man syndrome even though I’ve been fully approaching for 6months
You have a mindset problem. You have to be okay with what you are and it can not bother you. You are short, you have to own it. If it bothers you, chicks will sniff out this insecurity like a dead skunk in the middle of the road.

I just can’t pull the trigger,go for hangout/num close because I feel inferior ..(I don’t with shorter girls)
Getting her number is nothing. It's just a step. Just because you get her number doesn't mean it's a real number, or that she will respond, or she will actually agree to a date, or finally actually show up. Getting her number is actually the easy part, so don't get hung up on that just ask her for her phone number... if she isn't interested she'll let you know... then you can move onto the next one.

seems about 40% of hot girls are taller than me..
This only means 60% are shorter... I don't see the problem. The simple truth is that your height is the NUMBER ONE screening criteria for MOST women. They will not be attracted to a guy that is not taller than they are. There is nothing you can do about it. If you are into tall women... well... you just have to keep trying until you find some that don't care, there are woman that don't care about your height, but the only way to find out is to try.

ive ordered soles to make me about inch taller
I'm going to surprise some people here by saying... yeah... go ahead and do this, but understand there is a VERY good chance she knows you are doing this. Chicks will notice everything about you, especially your shoes.

obviously I’m still trying to fake it till I make it,and something in my core needs corrected
Fake it till you make it, does work. But it takes time, the key is that you have to keep trying because when you start doing this you are going to have epic crashes.
 

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Much easier to bag taller women through social circle game then it is through OLD or cold approach.

Current girlfriend is 5’11 and I’m 5’9.5. She’s athletic & beautiful.

She has said what made me stand out above other guys is my confidence, and that I took initiative & led her. She also mentioned guys taller than her have been intimidated by her because of her height/looks.

That being said, I met her through social circle where I had some “status” I guess you could say, and I am not that much shorter than her. I don’t think confidence and taking initiative alone would have worked with her if I was 2-3+ inches shorter than her.

Truth is that some girls are just gonna disqualify you based on height and there’s not much you can do about that, so there’s no sense in becoming preoccupied with what you cannot change…

An insecurity or pessimistic mindset will cost you more opportunities with women than your height.
 
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