Huked on DJB wurked fur me! [naked pictures]

[seabreeze]

Hi Diablo,

Actually I don't think that there is anything wrong with you posting nude pictures of some skeeze that you don't care about. But, I feel bad for this girl and you because I thought you really liked her...I was actually happy for you that you met someone you really liked until now. How can a guy really appreciate, respect, or like a girl when he posts nude pictures of her on a MB? Did she agree to you doing this? Aren't you also trying to meet a respectable girl?
SB

 

[diablo]

Originally posted by rgeere
The problem here is that you are assuming that because you are here to engage in premarital sex means that this is a site dedicated solely to the purpose. Not all men who visit here are interested in premarital sex, and to assume so on the basis of the status of a moderator has no bearing whatsoever.

Of course not; it is for this reason that I included the "(for the most part)" into my sentence - there are those on the forum who have no desire to fornicate (such a dirty word... ) with women, and as such I didn't want to lump them into the same category as the vast majority of us who don't have any problems with engaging in sexual activity outside of marriage. My status as a moderator shouldn't even be a factor - taking a 'title' doesn't mean that I'm not going to speak out regarding matters of interest to me - however, it does denote a certain amount of maturity by which I would handle myself in respects to the things I'd say. If you feel in some way as though I've disrespected either you or sosuave as a whole by my earlier comments, feel free to make a thread about it in S&F.

From my understanding the bible as a resource appears to have something in mind for all men, whether that be for marriage or one night stands. I don't see any particular bias in any one direction or the other nor on this website or in the forum except for occasional personal opinion that often conflict.

Personal opinions are going to vary from individual to individual. You and I might both read the same article, and depending on our goals might come out of it with two completely different and opposing points of view. As I see it, there are two key aspects of the DJB - self-improvement and seduction, the first being necessary to facilitate the second. To say that the DJB is solely about "bettering yourself" isn't true; this isn't a self-help forum. To say it's got nothing to do with anything other than seduction isn't true either; what you've been doing obviously hasn't worked, so you need to change that to reach the level you want to be at.

As for what you said about my knowledge of minute detail or aspects, I already stated that my thought on 'self-respect' was an observation and I was attacking no one, except that I was basing it on what was told to us, which doesn't serve to change my mind any.

I could say that by passing judgement on to others (namely the girl in question), you weren't simply observing and were in fact attacking (or insulting, depending on how you look at it). Of course, a counterpoint I'd have to contend would be my posting the pictures on the forum in the first place, but that's resolved by the fact that the face was colored out along with several other details.

I wasn't chastising anyone, I was making a point to the men who felt impressed by this that it isn't that big of a deal. Personally, I wasn't really all that impressed. But then, I am also satisfied and feel fulfilled in my life in general; others may not be.

For some, it might not be a big deal, for others, it might be. Consider this thread in context - many other (threads) on the forum are still asking "When a girl touches her hair does she like me?". Without boasting, I can say that this is a far cry from those. Sometimes a little success story (or picture/s, as the case may be) is just what is needed instead of thread after thread about "she dumped me", "how do i get over oneitis?", and "plzz help tell me how to get the girl". If I had to guess, that's why I'd say it was a "big deal" to some - not because it was just of a naked girl. If that's all it was, there would be no responses to this thread at all, since anyone could easily find better (and not colored out) pictures by typing "porn" into google.

As far as finding Jesus goes I do have a Christian background, I have studied, Greek, Hebrew, speak German, and have a dual degree in Religion and Psychology....

Congratulations, but listing your credits and degrees all have no purpose - we aren't debating who has read more, who's been to more countries, or who killed JFK. The term "finding jesus" wasn't meant in a literal context. It's called "an expression".

Religion is not an issue here.

Correct; like I said, the expression used was just that - an expression, for Christ's sake.
As for the whole monologue on psychosexuality (some aspects of which I agree with) I still don't see the relevance it has to this thread, at all...


SB - her face is colored out, as are any identifying characteristics; not to mention that just as the 'lesbian sex' pictures were taken down after a week or so, so will these. However, I feel that it's fair to give back to the site that helped me get into her (and more than a handful of others) panties. Sure, I like her. However I'm not going to make the same mistake I did before finding SoSuave of being so wrapped up in her that I can't see myself living without her.

 

[rgeere]

Originally posted by seabreeze
Hi Diablo,

Actually I don't think that there is anything wrong with you posting nude pictures of some skeeze that you don't care about. But, I feel bad for this girl and you because I thought you really liked her...I was actually happy for you that you met someone you really liked until now. How can a guy really appreciate, respect, or like a girl when he posts nude pictures of her on a MB? Did she agree to you doing this? Aren't you also trying to meet a respectable girl?
SB

I'm glad I'm not alone ... those were some of my questions.

 

[thefonz]

Diablo you son of a *****.....

I think he's posting the pics cus he's proud of the girl he's got.....he did blur out her face after all. trust me, 1-50 years from now when i get a hot POA like that i'm gonna be posting pics of her in every new thread that pops up. Unedited, raw, crotch shots and all........maybe not, but i'll do something

 

[rgeere]

Personal opinions are going to vary from individual to individual. You and I might both read the same article, and depending on our goals might come out of it with two completely different and opposing points of view. As I see it, there are two key aspects of the DJB - self-improvement and seduction, the first being necessary to facilitate the second. To say that the DJB is solely about "bettering yourself" isn't true; this isn't a self-help forum.

I agree with this, but I am unclear by what you mean by "self-help" in the context of this website.

To say it's got nothing to do with anything other than seduction isn't true either; what you've been doing obviously hasn't worked, so you need to change that to reach the level you want to be at.

Actually, the reason I came to this website was because I had girls hitting on me sexually and couldn't find any decent ones. My first post in this forum was concerning a girl who was engaged to another guy and constantly giving me sexual hints like "Oppps, come over her and look under my skirt, I have goosebumps on the inside of my legs." Actually, pretty much all of the girls I have been involved with prior to this website were like this, girls who were bold enough to express their sexuality to me and even offer in some cases.

Now, you would think this was a good thing, but considering I was sort of a jerk I had no clue how to form a relationship with a girl. I'm still struggling with that in fact.

As for the whole monologue on psychosexuality (some aspects of which I agree with) I still don't see the relevance it has to this thread, at all...

That was inspired by your remarked about Mystery,Gunwitch, and Ross Jefferies, and also about the premarital sex issue. I was showing from psychological viewpoint the reasons that people would seek out the advice and methods of these people. I have done a detailed study on the Gunwitch method and discovered some flaws with it that would actually keep people from developing healthy LTRs. That's besides the point, though.

I have looked into mystery some, but havn't read enough to form an opinion. Ross Jefferies I steere clear of for the most part, especially when it comes to the jedi trick mind-manipulation crap that gets to sounding really pathetic after awhile.

 

[Ever onward]

Bring back the lesbian pics! Can't you cover the faces like you did on this one??

 

[penkitten]

im so glad gio doesnt post my pics!!

 

[Giovanni Casanova]

Originally posted by penkitten
im so glad gio doesnt post my pics!!

I'm greedy and don't like to share.

 

[seabreeze]

Wow, diablo...that's sort of sad...I still wonder if she knows that you posted them...

Oh well, have fun with them (I guess).
SB

 

[Pure Drive +]

this is good material for wankers.


But I don't really see a point in posting the pic. Are you trying to prove yourself? It's not like we don't believe you man....I smell insecurity...the need for validation....on an online forum....lalala

EDIT: btw, if I had my gf get naked and take pics, I would not post them anywhere. I'd just keep it between us to share and stuff. It turns me off to think that pervs are beating off to her .... ::shudders::

 

[Vincent]

What happened to showing me the pics before hand diablo, we not friends anymore

Originally posted by seabreeze
Wow, diablo...that's sort of sad...I still wonder if she knows that you posted them...

Oh well, have fun with them (I guess).
SB

I wonder if all the chicks these guys flirt with know they're getting help from an internet website. Who freiking cares. That's why it's the internet.

Plus it's not like you have any freiking idea who that is. I could photoshop a random face in there in 10 minutes and no one would be the wiser.

OMG SKIN

 

[Fatality]

Originally posted by penkitten
im so glad gio doesnt post my pics!!

he sent us your pics through PM:woo:

 

[Climax]

I wanna see her face!:cuss: lol... otherwise.. nice pics... :woo:


Laterz....

 

[seabreeze]

Well, I'd certainly be very hurt if a guy that I thought really liked me posted my naked, doggy-style ass on a message board for horny men to jack off to, face covered or not. I'd feel exploited and disrespected unless he asked me first and I said yes. But, maybe I'm just sensitive.
SB

 

[Climax]

Yip!

Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
Do not underestimate DJ's. They can get girls to do almost anything.

The things I've gotten girls to do :crackup: :woo:

 

[seabreeze]

Yes, but aren't you guys assuming that this girl KNOWS her ass is hanging out on the Internet? Diablo hasn't verified this yet!
SB

 

[penkitten]

Originally posted by Fatality
he sent us your pics through PM:woo:

i dont think so

 

[seabreeze]

But SuperGig, why/ Why would a guy show off a nude picture that he has of a girl he likes????? A woman would NEVER show off a picture of her man's ass or enormous pecker. Now, we'd talk about it, but show no pics. Can you explain please? I'm curious because I've taken some pics for a before...Oh damn!
SB

 

[flyinshark]

Originally posted by seabreeze
But SuperGig, why/ Why would a guy show off a nude picture that he has of a girl he likes????? A woman would NEVER show off a picture of her man's ass or enormous pecker. Now, we'd talk about it, but show no pics. Can you explain please? I'm curious because I've taken some pics for a before...Oh damn!
SB

I feel tempted to answer that question. I think men like to brag about what they have: woman, car, money, success, and so on...

We know that showing pics of our girl without her knowing is lacking respect for her, but there's this invisible power that makes us do it anyway. It's just stronger than morals sometimes. We wanna brag because it boosts our egos and makes us feel superior to other men. Women are attracted to superior men. And we all know that superior men are the ones who get the better chicks.

 

[penkitten]

Originally posted by seabreeze
But SuperGig, why/ Why would a guy show off a nude picture that he has of a girl he likes????? A woman would NEVER show off a picture of her man's ass or enormous pecker. Now, we'd talk about it, but show no pics. Can you explain please? I'm curious because I've taken some pics for a before...Oh damn!
SB

because they preach "be the prize" but really "we" are the prize hahaha