aftershock
Master Don Juan
Why hello everyone, this is my first post here on this forum (but you knew that, because you haven't seen me before...).
Anyway, onto whatever crap I want to get out today. The subject of: hugging.
For the last few months, whenever I have been in this situation:
1) With a female friend, who I am NOT going out with, but she does have an interest in me, though not necessarily a high one,
2) introduces me to a friend of hers (female, of course), I will hug her BEFORE saying hi, hello, how are you, etc.
A hug is a hug, I don't bother analysing the length or "type" of a hug - there really isn't much point, at least to me. It is the action that matters more than the execution here.
Also, keep the conversation as short as possible. You will meet the friend again more than likely. Don't tell her too much. Keep it SHORT - she will think about you then.
I do this because:
1) It shows CONFIDENCE. I am saying, effectively, "I am physically attractive to you, and you will want to hug me".
2) Confidence is a GOOD THING!
3) Keeping the conversation short also brings MYSTERY into it.
4) Mystery is a good thing!
The last time I did this was with a friend of a girl I met on the bus. My friend has to get two buses to work to get into town then to a business park. Her friend had to get the same second bus.
Needless to say, when I went past that bus stop and saw her friend, I hugged her. I kept the conversation down to "...and your name is", introduced myself, then left. I had other opportunities on other days to attempt a number close, and so didn't. Also, it keeps up the mystery.
On the bus home that evening her friend said "She really likes you by the way".
Result.
Any thoughts on this method? It has never failed me yet. It also shows the importance of "birds of a feather, flock together" - so even if she has a bloke already (of course I do feel guilty denying myself to her, but it can' be helped), she will have FRIENDS.
Anyway, onto whatever crap I want to get out today. The subject of: hugging.
For the last few months, whenever I have been in this situation:
1) With a female friend, who I am NOT going out with, but she does have an interest in me, though not necessarily a high one,
2) introduces me to a friend of hers (female, of course), I will hug her BEFORE saying hi, hello, how are you, etc.
A hug is a hug, I don't bother analysing the length or "type" of a hug - there really isn't much point, at least to me. It is the action that matters more than the execution here.
Also, keep the conversation as short as possible. You will meet the friend again more than likely. Don't tell her too much. Keep it SHORT - she will think about you then.
I do this because:
1) It shows CONFIDENCE. I am saying, effectively, "I am physically attractive to you, and you will want to hug me".
2) Confidence is a GOOD THING!
3) Keeping the conversation short also brings MYSTERY into it.
4) Mystery is a good thing!
The last time I did this was with a friend of a girl I met on the bus. My friend has to get two buses to work to get into town then to a business park. Her friend had to get the same second bus.
Needless to say, when I went past that bus stop and saw her friend, I hugged her. I kept the conversation down to "...and your name is", introduced myself, then left. I had other opportunities on other days to attempt a number close, and so didn't. Also, it keeps up the mystery.
On the bus home that evening her friend said "She really likes you by the way".
Result.
Any thoughts on this method? It has never failed me yet. It also shows the importance of "birds of a feather, flock together" - so even if she has a bloke already (of course I do feel guilty denying myself to her, but it can' be helped), she will have FRIENDS.
