hey guys,
SO...ive got this situation at school n its kinda messed up. About a month ago which i was still an AFC, i had a one-itis, and the stupid thing was i was so into this girl that some how she had found out. So i kinda looked desperate and she basically had the higher value.
But after a while which i discovered this site and the whole pickup community, i started to become more of an alpha male(got most traits but not all) and ive improved my game.
So something happens on FB(i think i send her a message and she doesnt reply - theres more to it(this was before becoming alpha)) and i get pissed at her so i remove her from my friends(after becoming alpha lol). And in class i used to make eye contact but now i dnt even giv a F**K. After a while, like a few weeks of me ignoring her, i can see her going crazy n she keeps trying to make eye contact in class(i saw this with the corner of my eye but my heads in another direct.) and at one point she came beside me talking about jiberish just to touch me(it was like she was kinoing me).
So i continue the ignorance...untill one day her best friend comes to me and asks me if there is a feud between me and her on FB n shyt... So i tell her this convo's gonna get awkward and i dnt really care what she says and coincidentally i had to really take a leak at that moment, so i say that to her(not in an offensive way though) and i go to piss. But when i come out while i can see her walkin past me, she tells me i broke the girls heart.
So im like WTF? n when i join my friends my bro tells me he told her that i met someone. Which i actually did (i picked up this girl in a hookah bar, but there was nothing serious goin; just lots of phone game) anyways after that day...its like her personality changes...i think she fckin hates me haha. But the thing is, now that she hates me, shes gonna proabbly shyt talk bout me which means negative social proof? so this is where im stuck, i dnt know wat to do and the neg social proof can really bring me down social wise...i just dnt know what my next move shud be n i kinda feel bad for her cuz i felt that she expected something gud n she got the opposite, even though the alpha male way says dnt giv a F**k.
So if u can tell me what my next move shud be id really appreciate it.
pce
SO...ive got this situation at school n its kinda messed up. About a month ago which i was still an AFC, i had a one-itis, and the stupid thing was i was so into this girl that some how she had found out. So i kinda looked desperate and she basically had the higher value.
But after a while which i discovered this site and the whole pickup community, i started to become more of an alpha male(got most traits but not all) and ive improved my game.
So something happens on FB(i think i send her a message and she doesnt reply - theres more to it(this was before becoming alpha)) and i get pissed at her so i remove her from my friends(after becoming alpha lol). And in class i used to make eye contact but now i dnt even giv a F**K. After a while, like a few weeks of me ignoring her, i can see her going crazy n she keeps trying to make eye contact in class(i saw this with the corner of my eye but my heads in another direct.) and at one point she came beside me talking about jiberish just to touch me(it was like she was kinoing me).
So i continue the ignorance...untill one day her best friend comes to me and asks me if there is a feud between me and her on FB n shyt... So i tell her this convo's gonna get awkward and i dnt really care what she says and coincidentally i had to really take a leak at that moment, so i say that to her(not in an offensive way though) and i go to piss. But when i come out while i can see her walkin past me, she tells me i broke the girls heart.
So im like WTF? n when i join my friends my bro tells me he told her that i met someone. Which i actually did (i picked up this girl in a hookah bar, but there was nothing serious goin; just lots of phone game) anyways after that day...its like her personality changes...i think she fckin hates me haha. But the thing is, now that she hates me, shes gonna proabbly shyt talk bout me which means negative social proof? so this is where im stuck, i dnt know wat to do and the neg social proof can really bring me down social wise...i just dnt know what my next move shud be n i kinda feel bad for her cuz i felt that she expected something gud n she got the opposite, even though the alpha male way says dnt giv a F**k.
So if u can tell me what my next move shud be id really appreciate it.
pce
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