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How young is TOO young?

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Not too long ago and still in many countries men and women were getting married when teenagers! It is not sex that is bad rather it is the teenage girl having sex for pleasure and not in marriage!!
 

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im not going to lie...i seen this one blond haired girl..she must have been like 15 or something but ill admit she was HOT! i was like man....shes going to be really beautiful when she grows up...i usually dont use the word beautiful for girls much...but she really was...
 

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lordson said:
i dont want to have sex with her or anything, but she is objective very attractive. It just pleases me to look at her. You know what i mean?

And work is boring and i'd be lying if i said i hadn't toyed with the idea of dating her, but i'm just daydreaming and i know it would be wrong and weird

i think 18 would be my absolute limit. at least finished high school


So what do you guys think? how young is too young?
lordson said:
i dont want to have sex with her or anything
you're an absolute liar.

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it's so weird for me to be interested in a girl thats more than a year younger than me. but i have my bar set pretty high, and i don't mind that.

i just don't understand people who go for girls who are 5-6 years younger... but of course, i'm 18 so that would mean me wanting to get with a 12 year old... so i guess i have to be 21 to know what's appealing about a girl thats 15.

either way, i find it wrong.
 
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Michele said:
i just don't understand people who go for girls who are 5-6 years younger... but of course, i'm 18 so that would mean me wanting to get with a 12 year old...
As you get older you WILL understand The Natural Order Of Things!! You are 18 - enough said!
 

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For those frustrated with the age of consent laws: turn your frustrations towards being successful with women your own age. Your frustrations may disappear once you have access to women your own age.

Look it all those guys on to catch a predator. All those guys are bad with women. Why do they go for young women? I have a feeling it is because they get to compete with younger and less masculine men, so they believe those women are more likely to 'appreciate' them. These guys who have a desperation for women, they are desperate for as many options as possible.

People say being not being attracted to young girls goes against biological urges, and thats this is only a social construction. Well, being potty trained is also a social construction. Going at only certain times of the day are a particular place is a social construction. Many social constructions benefit society, and not being attracted to young girls arose from the evolution of our human discipline.
 

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If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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I find it odd that I'm constantly arguing about this, since I find women to be at their most attractive from about 23 to 29, but I sometimes take up the fight anyway. *shrug*

Grandpa decided to marry grandma when she was 12. Seems to have worked for them.
 

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Heres the rule that I go by;

Half your age + 7. This is the minimum age of a girl you can pursue.
For example. I'm 18, so half that is 9, plus 7, = 16. So, 16 is the youngest aged girls I can pursue.

However, you'll also notice with this formula that as you get older the age gap increases.
For example. Right now I can only pursue girls 2 years younger than I. But when im 22, I can go as low as 18. A gap of 4 years now. Point being that if you are willing to wait long enough it will eventually be ok to date/whatever them.


Probably put to much thought into all of this....
 

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sam3083 said:
Heres the rule that I go by;

Half your age + 7. This is the minimum age of a girl you can pursue.
For example. I'm 18, so half that is 9, plus 7, = 16. So, 16 is the youngest aged girls I can pursue.

However, you'll also notice with this formula that as you get older the age gap increases.
For example. Right now I can only pursue girls 2 years younger than I. But when im 22, I can go as low as 18. A gap of 4 years now. Point being that if you are willing to wait long enough it will eventually be ok to date/whatever them.


Probably put to much thought into all of this....
lol, I think most guys go by that rule on some kinda subconscious level, I never thought about it in terms of a mathematical model.
 

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sam3083 said:
Heres the rule that I go by;

Half your age + 7. This is the minimum age of a girl you can pursue.
For example. I'm 18, so half that is 9, plus 7, = 16. So, 16 is the youngest aged girls I can pursue.

However, you'll also notice with this formula that as you get older the age gap increases.
For example. Right now I can only pursue girls 2 years younger than I. But when im 22, I can go as low as 18. A gap of 4 years now. Point being that if you are willing to wait long enough it will eventually be ok to date/whatever them.


Probably put to much thought into all of this....
so in america you need a calculator in order to figure out who you can date? can you also bring a scale with you so that you can see how much the fatties weigh in at? sounds fun fun fun :rolleyes:

i am thisclose to starting my own romance tour agency. when you have to put pen to paper in order to figure out what to go out with i think it is time you admit to living in a screwed up society.
 

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It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Firstly, I live in the messed-up, very americanised, but not American, nation of Australia.

Secondly,
I think most guys go by that rule on some kinda subconscious level
This formula should then be used by the guys who dont get it, or are unsure whether to pursue or not.

Thirdly, society was screwed up long before my formula, lol. I just like to apply science to this. Alot of this stuff should/can be explained using science (e.g. psychology).
 

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sam3083 said:
Firstly, I live in the messed-up, very americanised, but not American, nation of Australia.

Secondly,
This formula should then be used by the guys who dont get it, or are unsure whether to pursue or not.

Thirdly, society was screwed up long before my formula, lol. I just like to apply science to this. Alot of this stuff should/can be explained using science (e.g. psychology).
That formula has been around forever, btw. But I do use it as well.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships
 

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sam3083 said:
Firstly, I live in the messed-up, very americanised, but not American, nation of Australia.

Secondly,
This formula should then be used by the guys who dont get it, or are unsure whether to pursue or not.

Thirdly, society was screwed up long before my formula, lol. I just like to apply science to this. Alot of this stuff should/can be explained using science (e.g. psychology).
uk, canada, australia, usa, new zealand...pretty much anglophile worlds. i really think many of you would be stunned at how attitudes change in some parts of this world.

btw, australia is not as messed-up as the usa. at least the economy has a better long term future. a little tip - get your savings out of american dollars.
 

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UK is 16 for straight sex and homosexual sex
 

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statutory rape google it
google this..."f.uck it"

I would hit it if she's hot enough. Then again...I'm a bad person, so take whatever I say with a grain of salt!
 

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bambam said:
u might be an "azzhole" but at least i believe you.

Hey, I'm just saying...the likelihood that you'll get caught is slim to none. That and the fact that this whole, Genarlow Wilson case has re-written statuatory rape laws and generated a lot of public sympathy towards offenders of said laws.
 

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the chinese are with it.
http://www.chinadaily.com.cn/china/2007-09/25/content_6133691.htm
85 year old dude laughs at you.

the blacks know how to roll...
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/africa/4283932.stm
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/africa/4215761.stm
Just two months after imposing the ban, the king fined himself a cow for breaking it by taking a 17-year-old girl as his ninth wife....She is reported to have caught the king's eye during the main annual Reed Dance in late August, when tens of thousands of bare-breasted girls took part in a traditional rite of Spring.... Last year, the king spent $500,000 on a luxury Maybach car which has a television, DVD player, 21-speaker surround-sound system, fridge and sterling silver champagne flutes. why am i not surprised that he has that sound system in his car?

white people find it to be swell as well...
http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_qn4155/is_20000806/ai_n13865547
He was 50, she was 17-five years younger than her new stepdaughter
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stephanie_Seymour
At the age of 15 she began dating John Casablancas, the head of Elite Model Management, who was married, and by 17 was living with him. At 19, she broke off the relationship.

get in on the action!
http://www.ukrainesingles.com/women/info89662.htm
My future husband should be religious, since when two people believe in God they can understand each other better. A husband is a head of a family for me. A wife should be loyal. She should respect her husband and help him in all his affairs. Country of living is not so important for me. Up to 50 years of age.

hate all you want, but there are lands with beautiful girls who don't b.s. and want a real man. if you don't believe me you can visit. less time watching crap like "entourage" and more time living life!

as always - keep it between the ditches and avoid the hors!
 

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Well, I think that formula is pretty spot on.
Any ideas where it came from? (possibly sosuave? or older then that?). I probably picked it up off TV, lol.
 

Peace and Quiet

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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