I wouldn't be surprised if this issue has been addressed, but I would like to put my own spin on things.
What I would consider the most basic and perhaps the most important aspect of success with women would be the way all you Don's, and Don's-to-be, feel at any given moment.
What I mean by this is essentially, what makes you feel sexy? Girls are always wearing their tight and skandalouz outfits, and they basically force confidence and sex into their minds. Think about it, when you see some HB wearing solo's or mini-shorts you know your only thinking about sex when checking her out ,and chances are, either directly or indirectly, the girl is thinking the same thing. Because even if she's feeling insecure and not directly thinking aobut sex, she's only feeling insecure because someone might be judging her sexually. I'm not telling you to wear tight clothes. What I am telling you is, honestly, what type of appearance would make you feel best about yourself? I think this is where it all starts. Cause if you're walking around feeling like a million bucks and mirrors only confirm that belief, then playa, you're gonna get your ladies. But of course things go beyond looks. You have to objectively assess your insecurities. One of the best ways to find out what you're insecure about is to put yourself in daring situations. All week in school or in the office sitting at some table pounding down snacks you may not care about the growing gut concealed by a shirt slowly tightening each day. But when you're about to get intimate with a woman and your hooking up, and she's feeling on your body, and feeling your flab, and you feel like you're fat, I bet you'll be motivated to get skinny then.
Another example would be, say you meet a girl that you're geniunely impressesed by, and you happen to be esspecially taken by her witty sense of humour and intelligence. Problem is, you never cared much about learning, or reading, and your sense of humor seems to only amuse yourself. You realize you can't hold a witty conversation with that girl. You could go through life and not change, and accept some woman that will always in a way, be your second choice. Or, instead of accepting things for being like that, you could take it upon yourself to educate your mind, and improve your comedic qaulities.
All this basically relates to one thing: You can't hold a girl to a standard that you don't hold yourself to.
Want to avoid trouble, confusion, even a lot of doubt, and maybe find true happiness? Follow those words. Don't hold a girl to a standard that you don't hold yourself to. If you don't want your lady to cheat, then you don't cheat. That way if she cheats, she's gone, and you know that's the way it should be. If you were going behind her back too, is it really right to drop a girl for that reason? You could, but bad karma would develop and only come back to bite you in the ass. It's a natural weeding process. If you want a girl with a nice ass. One of the easiest ways to make that happen is to exercise and get yourself a better looking gluteus maximus. That way you confidently feel like you deserve only the finest ladies who do a lot to make themselves sexy, cause hey, you do the same thing.
Along the path of self-improvement you will attract a lot of ladies that aren't as proficient in all the standards that you hold yourself to. At that point it is up to as to how you want to act. But if you still aren't satisifed, keep working till you've got so many good things going for you that any girl who turns you down is truly stupid. That is confidence. Real confidence. Earned confidence. You're the ****ing man, you know you're the man, and the ladies, they can't help but realize you're the man too.
What I would consider the most basic and perhaps the most important aspect of success with women would be the way all you Don's, and Don's-to-be, feel at any given moment.
What I mean by this is essentially, what makes you feel sexy? Girls are always wearing their tight and skandalouz outfits, and they basically force confidence and sex into their minds. Think about it, when you see some HB wearing solo's or mini-shorts you know your only thinking about sex when checking her out ,and chances are, either directly or indirectly, the girl is thinking the same thing. Because even if she's feeling insecure and not directly thinking aobut sex, she's only feeling insecure because someone might be judging her sexually. I'm not telling you to wear tight clothes. What I am telling you is, honestly, what type of appearance would make you feel best about yourself? I think this is where it all starts. Cause if you're walking around feeling like a million bucks and mirrors only confirm that belief, then playa, you're gonna get your ladies. But of course things go beyond looks. You have to objectively assess your insecurities. One of the best ways to find out what you're insecure about is to put yourself in daring situations. All week in school or in the office sitting at some table pounding down snacks you may not care about the growing gut concealed by a shirt slowly tightening each day. But when you're about to get intimate with a woman and your hooking up, and she's feeling on your body, and feeling your flab, and you feel like you're fat, I bet you'll be motivated to get skinny then.
Another example would be, say you meet a girl that you're geniunely impressesed by, and you happen to be esspecially taken by her witty sense of humour and intelligence. Problem is, you never cared much about learning, or reading, and your sense of humor seems to only amuse yourself. You realize you can't hold a witty conversation with that girl. You could go through life and not change, and accept some woman that will always in a way, be your second choice. Or, instead of accepting things for being like that, you could take it upon yourself to educate your mind, and improve your comedic qaulities.
All this basically relates to one thing: You can't hold a girl to a standard that you don't hold yourself to.
Want to avoid trouble, confusion, even a lot of doubt, and maybe find true happiness? Follow those words. Don't hold a girl to a standard that you don't hold yourself to. If you don't want your lady to cheat, then you don't cheat. That way if she cheats, she's gone, and you know that's the way it should be. If you were going behind her back too, is it really right to drop a girl for that reason? You could, but bad karma would develop and only come back to bite you in the ass. It's a natural weeding process. If you want a girl with a nice ass. One of the easiest ways to make that happen is to exercise and get yourself a better looking gluteus maximus. That way you confidently feel like you deserve only the finest ladies who do a lot to make themselves sexy, cause hey, you do the same thing.
Along the path of self-improvement you will attract a lot of ladies that aren't as proficient in all the standards that you hold yourself to. At that point it is up to as to how you want to act. But if you still aren't satisifed, keep working till you've got so many good things going for you that any girl who turns you down is truly stupid. That is confidence. Real confidence. Earned confidence. You're the ****ing man, you know you're the man, and the ladies, they can't help but realize you're the man too.
