How would you rate your appearance?
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What the fvck is this? How pretty am I? I don't really give a sh1t or want to know, as long as i dont get blown out because im ugly im cool ( of course when girls stare of flirt that helps too, but i dont know what the hell that means on a scale)
Edit- i just checked the poll. So we got like 40 hot people, 20 average, and 6 ugly. Are you kidding me? If this was the truth, most of you would not need this site.
Edit- i just checked the poll. So we got like 40 hot people, 20 average, and 6 ugly. Are you kidding me? If this was the truth, most of you would not need this site.
Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
I give myself an honest 5-6: Agverage
However With working out consistently, New Haircut, Nice skin, tan, better style. I could see myself being a 8-9. But that would probably take at least 6 months hard work to pull off.
Also carisma is not a factor of looks. Carisma is somthing different. Carisma is how you carry yourself, the way you speak to people and how you make others feel. On that I would give myself a 7-8.
However With working out consistently, New Haircut, Nice skin, tan, better style. I could see myself being a 8-9. But that would probably take at least 6 months hard work to pull off.
Also carisma is not a factor of looks. Carisma is somthing different. Carisma is how you carry yourself, the way you speak to people and how you make others feel. On that I would give myself a 7-8.
Friendly Otter
Don Juan
That's true, Brian, though looks certainly help a great deal.
I used to know this guy in the Army, let's call him Leo, and he was real ugly. He had a misshapen jaw that needed corrective surgery, but he hadn't gotten that even at the age of nineteen; perhaps you can't do it until your bones are fully grown or something. He also had slightly bulging eyes, and he was scrawny built.
A nice guy, though. Everybody liked Leo because he would never complain about anything, just go on getting the job done, helping to keep the mood up for everyone. We liked him for that.
Later I met a guy who knew Leo from high school, and said he always got chicks back then. I couldn't believe it; how did he do it? "He talks his way in," this guy said. Leo had a way with words.
Though it must be very unusual that a guy as ugly as Leo can get girls simply by being a smooth talker, apparently it can be done. So those who doubt that you can improve your game, don't lose faith!
I used to know this guy in the Army, let's call him Leo, and he was real ugly. He had a misshapen jaw that needed corrective surgery, but he hadn't gotten that even at the age of nineteen; perhaps you can't do it until your bones are fully grown or something. He also had slightly bulging eyes, and he was scrawny built.
A nice guy, though. Everybody liked Leo because he would never complain about anything, just go on getting the job done, helping to keep the mood up for everyone. We liked him for that.
Later I met a guy who knew Leo from high school, and said he always got chicks back then. I couldn't believe it; how did he do it? "He talks his way in," this guy said. Leo had a way with words.
Though it must be very unusual that a guy as ugly as Leo can get girls simply by being a smooth talker, apparently it can be done. So those who doubt that you can improve your game, don't lose faith!
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
ShizamDaMan
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Being attractive is not all about looks. Attractivity is a whole package.
Back in HS, a girl once told me that I was very attractive. I immediately proclaimed, "Yes, I am rather hot aren't I?" She told me, "No, not hot, but attractive." It took me a while to figure it out, but what she meant is that although I wasn't a male model, I had many qualities about me that made me desireable. I dress well, I'm fairly witty and can carry a conversation, and am generally interesting. I am not a hideous beast, but I'm no GQ cover boy either.
There is a difference between looking good and being attractive.
Back in HS, a girl once told me that I was very attractive. I immediately proclaimed, "Yes, I am rather hot aren't I?" She told me, "No, not hot, but attractive." It took me a while to figure it out, but what she meant is that although I wasn't a male model, I had many qualities about me that made me desireable. I dress well, I'm fairly witty and can carry a conversation, and am generally interesting. I am not a hideous beast, but I'm no GQ cover boy either.
There is a difference between looking good and being attractive.
Friendly Otter
Don Juan
More than 70 percent of those who answered the poll are attractive or very attractive hunks! Amazing!
Or maybe we have some denial going around. That's not good for your DJing, I think. You'll aim too high. (I know, as a DJ you're supposed to be able to bring down the big game no matter what you look like, but come on ... few will have the same L33T DJ skillz as my ugly friend Leo.)
I read an article once about a woman working at a matchmaker service, and she said one of the main problems with her clients were that they set their aims too high. She had this real fat guy coming in, and she hooked him up with a real fat girl. They went out for a couple of weeks, then he said she was too fat and he wanted someone more attractive and stopped seeing her. The matchmaker was frustrated.
Or maybe we have some denial going around. That's not good for your DJing, I think. You'll aim too high. (I know, as a DJ you're supposed to be able to bring down the big game no matter what you look like, but come on ... few will have the same L33T DJ skillz as my ugly friend Leo.)
I read an article once about a woman working at a matchmaker service, and she said one of the main problems with her clients were that they set their aims too high. She had this real fat guy coming in, and she hooked him up with a real fat girl. They went out for a couple of weeks, then he said she was too fat and he wanted someone more attractive and stopped seeing her. The matchmaker was frustrated.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
Above average. Somewhere almost right between options 3 & 4.
OfficeSpace
Master Don Juan
I consider myself Very Attractive because of the amount of attention I receive from both men (who don't really count) and women, the compliments I receive, and the way I perceive myself. Doesn't mean I don't have room to improve on my game though... My brother (who is a year younger than me) is better looking than me according to a lot of girls, yet he has less attractive girls on him than me because he is immature (lacks game), and he's not willing to make the first move (shy).
This site has taught me to become more confident and be more willing to take risks with women.
If you guys could see me 4 years ago... Oh ****... I was a loser! The biggest geek around... I had attention from girls but it was nothing impressive. I started idolizing guys who dressed nice and had a lot of girls on them and I found myself improving a LOT.
Anyone can improve, you just have to be willing to make a change and step out of your comfort zone by approaching those hotties.
I've talked to a lot of girls who really like this guy and they are not going out with him because "he" didn't ask her out and she won't ask him out... ever! They said if he doesn't ask them out soon, then they'll lose interest in him.
This site is a real confidence booster.. Appreciate and learn from it guys!
This site has taught me to become more confident and be more willing to take risks with women.
If you guys could see me 4 years ago... Oh ****... I was a loser! The biggest geek around... I had attention from girls but it was nothing impressive. I started idolizing guys who dressed nice and had a lot of girls on them and I found myself improving a LOT.
Anyone can improve, you just have to be willing to make a change and step out of your comfort zone by approaching those hotties.
I've talked to a lot of girls who really like this guy and they are not going out with him because "he" didn't ask her out and she won't ask him out... ever! They said if he doesn't ask them out soon, then they'll lose interest in him.
This site is a real confidence booster.. Appreciate and learn from it guys!