HOW would you make a move if you're at her place?

[DJ Logic]

Smooth Moves

I gotta hand it to you Blitz, not only do you consistently provide impeccable wisdom, but you manage to get girls excited just by the way you type! You bastard!

Well, all I can say is I hope I will get there some day. If only I could get over this stupid one-itis sh*t...argh. Little by little though right? As far as this thread, I am clueless. Last time I was at a girl's house, we watched a movie and she fell asleep!

(sigh) much 2 learn! But Thanks for the killler advice (also to you tamales, I will definietly try your dishes idea!) IMHO, the music CDs is not a bad idea as long as its not obvious Barry White stuff. I like chillout CDs (triphop, acid jazz etc) But then again I am a newjack so take this advice with a mountain of salt!

 

[MDgood]

Fine fine fine fine... as long as we're all cool with each other.

It just must be something in my demeanor that allows me to use extreme cheese to my advantage. Hell, I'll take whatever I can get!

 

[xblitz44x]

DJ Logic,

What's up? Thanks for your compliments. You're too sweet : ) Nah seriously, what's with your one-itis, give me a PM sometime or IM me at blitzz045 on AIM. I'll try to talk to you about it.. Maybe we'll figured out why you're still into her.

Tamales,

"Don't get your hopes up but hey, great post." -Tamales

Hey all I did was post advice. You are the one who is leaking : ) . Just imagine what it would be like in person. lol. Just teasing ya, and seriously thanks for the props. It does need to be smooth for it to really work...but if the girl likes the guy then it doesn't matter too much. I've done this 3 or 4 times with success, and I really like it because it feels natural.

And you did give good advice. I think that if you get her standing up, and behind her she won't feel quite as uncomfortable and awkward as getting right up her face, or the cliche 'couch kiss' because you're both looking at the screen and you need to turn and face her. I'll call you soon to finalize our dinner date....BTW: I like pasta.

-Blitz

 

[Mr. Fingers]

WTF???! I was gonna post here but Blitz stole my moves!

Whenever I am unsure about how to proceed at the girl's house, I always default to my stellar massage skills, hence the nickname Blitz is spot on when he says you should ask for a massage first, it is less creepy when you reciprocate than when you offer one out of the blue..plus she feels like she earned it

This approach has only failed me once, when I overdid the massage and ended up knocking her out! Taught me an important lesson though. ALways escalate the physical stuff, tease her until she is dripping with anticipation, and dont be afraid to show her you want to ravage her! Just keep your pace easy, breathe deep and enjoy every delectable curve of her flesh. Get in touch with the gradual climbing rhythm of your sensuality and it will rub off on her (pun intended) If I lack courage sometimes, I like to smell her neck, right behind the ears and there is something about the scent right in that spot (pheremones?) that drives my wild and I simply can't help myself and all my fears go out the window.

You can read about my personal experience at girl's houses here:

http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=29398

It is a long read but shows a few successes as well as Crash & Burn stories for ideas of what NOT to do when you end up at her crib.

Hope this helps!

 

[Bonhomme]

Yes, massage is great.

I personally like to do it without asking, per se. Often just caressing and smelling her works better than massage, per se. There's something about it "just happening" that melts the anti-slut shield as if it is butter.

There is no one approach or technique. Everybody's into something different, and every time is different. Her neck is a good "hot spot" that should not be neglected. Explore her body, and see what she likes. She won't mind, as long as you take your time getting to the real hot spots. The important thing is to just be in the flow of things, and test the waters. You might just be surprised.

Excellent thread.

 

[digitalrat]

Originally posted by MDgood
What I do in these cases is bring some CDs of some romantic music with me (Tupac don't count), some wine (tipsy is a good way of overcoming shyness), and after dinner and talking, start the music, invite her to slow dance with me, stare her in the eyes, lock eye contact, very LIGHTLY and GENTLY run my fingers across her cheek and then through her hair a few times - preferably opposite side of the hand she writes with... it's the more sensitive side in a person... trust me, it works - and if she let's me stroke her face and hair more than once, I know I'm in. Then I kiss the girl. Very simple to do.

Tupac doesnt count? I was thinking Tupac - How do you want it

 

[suavedave]

well

I take the advice of a woman i once knew to heart: if she invites u over she wants u.

 

[MDgood]

Actually, yeah, you're right, there is some rap and hip hop out there that is awesome for this.

However, I've been flamed so much for that post, I'm surprised people haven't called for me to change my screenname to Cheez Whiz.

However, I still stand by what I said. Setting a girl up to be kiss while listening to music gets them pretty hot. It beats having to say, errr... gotta stop, baby... i'm gonna put on some music here for the mood.

 

[Don Ronny]

suavedave is right. and if i ever encounter resistance, i usually resort to the tried and true chloroform method. works everytime and cuts through all the guff.

 

[Eternal]

Does this mean that "Discovery Channel" by Bloodhound Gang and "Baby Got Back" by Sir-Mix-A-Lot is out?

 

[MDgood]

Sometimes I strip down to a thong and sing along to Snoop, "when i met you last night baaaaby.... before you opened up yo gap.... I had respect for you laaaady.... but now I take it all back... cuz you gave me all yo *****.... and you even licked my balls... just leave yo number on the cabinet... and i promise baby, i'll give you a call..."

If they stick around to the part where I'm singing about getting my balls licked, I know I'm in.

 

[One on One]

Originally posted by xblitz44x
I posted this in tips:

Take her back to your house, sit her on the couch/bed, whatever. Take off YOUR shoes so that she knows it's ok to take off hers. Ask her what she wants to drink. ALCHOHOL. When a woman drinks 2 glasses of wine, her body is much more sensative to physical touch. Something as simple as rubbing the back of her neck could send chills all over her body. Make sure you get her liquored up.

Halfway into the movie, she should be into her "buzz", which is time for you to make a move. Tell her to give you a massage. Lift your shirt up for her to rub your back. After about 5 minutes of this...tell her that you want to give HER one now, it would only be fair.

Have her lay on her stomach, flip her shirt up so that you can touch the skin directly. Start by tracing your fingers lightly against her back. Then start adding pressure with your fingers against her muscles. Work your way up and down her back, including the very lower back where women tend to hold a lot of stress. AFter a minute or so she'll make noises or seem 'very relaxed'. At this time ask her: "Have you ever had the back of your neck kissed?" She will give you an answer, the answer isn't important.

Lean over, and gently kiss the very back of her neck, right above the spine, below the hairline. Start to suck on that part of her neck...use your tongue and run up and down it...breath on it. Do this while continuing to massage her with your hands.

After 2 minutes of this she will be humping the couch like a dog in heat. Grind your pelvis against her ass...let her know that you're horney. Move from the back of her neck to the side of her neck, to her cheek. Turn her around and kiss close her. Continue to rub your d!ck against her croch area, and feel her. You can fvck her right then and there, guaranteed.

I have to bump this **** man. I am doing this on Saturday, man. I should send you money if I get laid.

 

[isotope]

can someone point me to BLitz's original post about this from TIps?

i couldnt find it

 

[Cyledehysp]

Damn, this thread is SO money and it doesn`t even know it! lol, that does it! I`ll have to finally get laid

 

[WillieSacks]

I noticed that doing the massage thing that xblitz44x was talking about is really hard to transition into when you 2 are sitting on a small couch next to each other. I was on a date at my house and tried to pull it off but couldn't do it b/c it just felt awkward at the moment especially when she was already cuddled up next to me.

What I have done was cuddle up next to the girl and then start kissing on the side of her face or put my hand under the girls chin and gently pull her face in my direction and start making out. Or usually when I start kissing their cheek/neck or whatever, they turn their face towards mine and start making out with me.

I may be overanalyzing but I have also found that it's easier to go for the kiss close when YOU cuddle up next to the girl instead of having her rest on your chest/stomach during a movie b/c her face isn't next to mine and it would be more awkward just pulling her towards my face so instead I cuddle next to her and when I want to go for the kiss, I move my face onto hers and start kissing on her cheek near her lips and she makes the mext move and starts kissing.

 

[BGD]

Through convo. I try and find out about a place that she has traveled to or been at that was relaxing and she really enjoyed.

I get behind her (different ways for different situations) and talk to her (no touching) trying to recreate the feeling of when she was there (but using now as the timeframe) trying to use some of her own descriptions. (make sure she is isolated in the story) Then I slowly introduce myself into the story making it more romantic and sexual. Then slowly get quieter and quieter until I have to wisper and I am close to her ear. I gently grap her her hips or start to message her lower back and then have her take over the story by asking more open ended questions. While she is talking start to kiss her neck or below her ear, but don't let her stop talking (if she stops talking, stop kissing and ask another question)

They usally turn around and then get really agressive. Just make sure you don't have anything that could hurt behind you. Door knobs, pointy ends of tables, etc....

 

[THA REALNESS]

I'm good with the jokes with girls .Not a funny person in general .I just like making fun of girls for some reason .
I usually take her to the couch or push up on her while she's taking the plates and then make them laugh hard by making some light hearted sexual coments/advance then just kiss her on the neck an pull on her hips firmly and upper azz region like i'm inspecting her child bearing capabalities like i'm a caveman or something.

If she pulls away i grab her by the back put my **** to her azz start whispering soothing "i'm not that type of guy to fukkk you and dump "crap keep on making her laugh and rub on her azz kiss on her neck and playfully bite her . Give it a couple of minutes if she keeps on bull****ting and if nothing pops off hey a least you got free food.

 

[OzzyBoy]

it sounds okay