how would you handle this behavior?

[bilboteabaggins]

know this girl fairly well, flirted with her alot, she digs me big time but is kinda shy in a way(sexually I guess) but at the same time kinda feisty, smart ass attitude etc., I am mid to late 20's, she is under 20

anyway I am at my job working one night and I say to hell with it and send her a text asking her to come blow me on my break:rockon: I have told her before that I wanted to fvck her and it was received well and I don't care to come right out and ask, azzhole move some might say but in my opinion it isn't(and doesn't work most of the time anyways), I don't game girls and make them think I love them just to get fvcked or blown, i'll just ask if I want some

anyways we go back and forth after I sent this and eventually she lets me know that her and all her girlfriends were enjoying this, so now in my social circle all these girls know I sent her a txt message asking for a bj

how would you handle it? after telling her I didn't appreciate a private message being read aloud I deleted her ass from my phone and don't plan on speaking to her again

this is exactly the reason young immature broads are a problem

 

[808]

This is exactly why I don't run texting game. Assume anything and everything you send will be circulated among her social circle.

 

[Voice]

Yeah I think that was a little too direct and kinda strange coming over text. The best way to close a girl is to isolate her, not text her. I mean maybe a ho would go for this but like you said she's shy sexually so what did you expect?

I don't think a female with any self respect at any age would really go for this. Telling a girl to blow you over text is basically like telling her you think she's a ho. The only way this would work was if you were already sexual with her.

How to handle it? Idk. Right now you seem like a total ****y dbag to these girls. She could probably get you for sexual harassment. If she still has interest in you, just isolate her and do your thing.

 

[bilboteabaggins]

I am a ****y dbag sometimes LOL, girl said she was very flattered, I tried isolating by getting her to come chill with me on lunch for the past few weeks, gave up got impatient and just said fvck it and went direct, like I said chances of this working are not the best but idc, this is just one girl and her friends are all warpigs that have serious crushes on me

 

[Diaforetikos]

First off, know the risks when you send a crazy text like that. But since you sent it, and it was read aloud, I'd go with it hardcore. No need to get butt hurt about her doin something out of your control. Deleting her wasn't really necessary.

Have fun with it. Mess with girls in your social group in a playful way. What did you expect anyways?? She wasn't gonna take it seriously, so why take this situation seriously??

Lighten up man.

 

[vatoloco]

Be careful what you say... and who you say it to!

But since you sent it, and it was read aloud, I'd go with it hardcore.

I'm gonna go with this. Since you're already fucked with this particular circle so you might as well Agree & Amplify with something like "Hey, you girls are lucky! I usually don't advertise but I was digging [insert friend's name] Do you have her number?" or some other funny shit like that. Who knows, someone might actually take you up on it!

And get new friends.

 

[trrush]

yeah, agree and amplify. even though they maynot be showing it right now, you probably perked some interest in some of the other girls.

 

[sandy]

my thoughts exactly

my thoughts exactly

 

[bilboteabaggins]

I don't know all her friends but the ones I do are mostly warpigs, I know they would all blowbang me in a instant if I wanted it LMAO...one of them got me on facebook the night after this and was telling me how gay that I am...usual typical flirting I get when I know a girl wants me(starts hammering me with gay ****)

there might be friends I don't know about though, so maybe I can play this like that, thanks for the tips :rockon: