First of all I'm 28 and they treat me like a kid because I was the youngest and all I have is sisters who are older. Some have kids and they treat me like I'm the same age as them FFS!
They treat me like I'm some guy of the street and stereotype me. We are mixed race family with black and white but it's one of these situations where they are ashamed of their black side which is ridiculous. They seem to think I'm on the black side just because of my appearance. I happen to look more black then they do but the fact of the matter is I don't even talk like a black person.
One especially acts as if she is embarrased of me because she has been with some snobby guy for 10 years. She acts like I should change my personality or the way I talk because he isn't comfortable with my personality or the things I talk about despite the fact I'm not someone who talks street/ebonics and they both sit there looking at me like I'm a lowlife. I could talk to them in a deeper voice, say something that sounds cool/fun and they frown like it's "too black" for them.
I work hard but I'm still at home(they have moved out) and my mum is on there side even though she knows there ignorant towards me. About four other family members have picked up on it, oh and guess what, they actually ignore me aswell because the peer presure. If I'm happy and having a good time with my family, these too look annoyed. Then I have my mum and other sister say they are NICE people. I suffer from anxiety and depression and have to deal with this aswell and they couldn't care less, infact they think I'm mental or something just because I have anxiety.
They treat me like I'm some guy of the street and stereotype me. We are mixed race family with black and white but it's one of these situations where they are ashamed of their black side which is ridiculous. They seem to think I'm on the black side just because of my appearance. I happen to look more black then they do but the fact of the matter is I don't even talk like a black person.
One especially acts as if she is embarrased of me because she has been with some snobby guy for 10 years. She acts like I should change my personality or the way I talk because he isn't comfortable with my personality or the things I talk about despite the fact I'm not someone who talks street/ebonics and they both sit there looking at me like I'm a lowlife. I could talk to them in a deeper voice, say something that sounds cool/fun and they frown like it's "too black" for them.
I work hard but I'm still at home(they have moved out) and my mum is on there side even though she knows there ignorant towards me. About four other family members have picked up on it, oh and guess what, they actually ignore me aswell because the peer presure. If I'm happy and having a good time with my family, these too look annoyed. Then I have my mum and other sister say they are NICE people. I suffer from anxiety and depression and have to deal with this aswell and they couldn't care less, infact they think I'm mental or something just because I have anxiety.
Anxiety, also. Pls more details about that. Try to avoid confrontation and stress!