how would you approach women at the beach?

IKO69

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Like any other place. You wait for choosing signals and then approach.

If you are feeling more bold, wait for a situation in which you can start up a friendly conversation and then gauge her interest. For example say there is a food/drink stand nearby and you both are in line, start a convo.
 

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what about out in the water? what if they're with other guys as well?

heres a typical scenario:

me and my friends throw a football around in the ocean and my friend is a terrible thrower, so he throws it wildly and it hits next to a group of girls only. how could i have a convo with them?
 

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Just forget about them. Dude...
You're busy having fun with your mates, their loss. ;)
 

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This has happened a few times accidently. Once the woman was sitting at the waters edge and I just ploped down and started talking to her about bull****, ended up finding out she was down with her gf and her husband didn't come (green light), and I was able to meet up with her later on. Another time, some guy came up and said the girl liked me lol, so I went over and talked to her. She had a great body but the face wasn't too good, o well it was an easy one so what the hell. Women are definitely open to meeting a guy on the beach and you don't need any fancy story for this. Maybe I should go to the beach more often come to think of it
 

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Foot In The Door

have u heard of th FOOT IN THE DOOR tchni?
you ask her to look after your bag while u go for a dip

you come bacK HOPEFULLY thank her and get a convo going

check out FREEDMAN FRAZER " THE FOOT IN THE DOOR TECHNI "GOOGLE

you ask for a small favor she ll be much more enclined to be friendly after that ( CHECK OUT cognitive dissonance LEON FEISTINGER
 

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Havent posted here since march!
But, I made improvement, been learning alot, and improved in the game, so my posts here are more than time-wasting and keyboard jockeying. I can actually give advice now.

Like IKO said, wait for choosing signs.. But, don't just wait, be aware of your surroundings, have your mind and eyes where they should be. If you do that, you will give off a good vibe as wel as pick up choosing signals.
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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Also,

What kind of a body do you have? Cuz you know - its the beach.

dont cold approach groups with guys.
 

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DJVladdy said:
Also,

What kind of a body do you have? Cuz you know - its the beach.

dont cold approach groups with guys.

Im an asian dude, so im pretty short. Im not lean or cut, i have a good balance of muscle and "fat", so i dont look like a stick, nor do i look like a cake.
although i am trying to slim up so i can have some abs.
 
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