how would you approach a supermodel?

[dynamicallyidle]

OK, so I"m going to this party on Halloween where there are going to be a few supermodels.

I'm just a college senior right now, and I'm pretty handsome. I turn the heads of a lot of college girls.

How would you approach these supermodels? Of course it depends on the situation, but generally, what principles would you use?

And what if I wanted to get a picture with one of them, laughing/smiling.

 

[grinder]

Offer them Ipecac, makes 'em puke. They luv it. Have a reference to a good dentist that can fix the deterioration to the back of their teeth due to excessive vomiting.

You think I'm sh*tting you don't you. This is reality for them.

 

[THE_ADDMAN]

How would you approach these supermodels?

with some botox and a camera :rockon:

 

[Fash]

Ok... time for a serious reply...

Lets face it, they are SUPERMODELS. So they are used to people admiring them and wishing they looked like them. They will have egos the size of sky scrapers and bullet proof b*tch shields.

So... how would one act in this instance to be successful with them?

It is easy.

1. Don't act like every other guy they meet!

2. Don't think of them as supermodels, instead think of them as that insecure, image conscious little girls who spend their whole lives seaking validation.

3. Don't compliment them on their looks. Trust me, they are used to it. Make them work for any complimantary comment from you which should be about their "personality".

4. Neg them, tease them (not about their looks). I know there are some on here that don't believe in negs, but believe me, they work wonders on models.

5. Believe. I mean truely believe that THEY are lucky to be in your company, not the other way around.

A one more (a little more advance) technique to try is: reduce your awareness circle.

Reduce the size of your awareness circle and they will be drawn to you. They will want to be near you. Remember, these people live and breath validation, make them work for it even if it means she has to suck on your c*ck at the end of the night to get it.

Good luck, and most importantly... ENJOY IT!

 

[zerocelcius]

Find one that is Obviously a Model and start talking how you hate models 'cause they are so superficial and how they look down on other non-model girls...

Do this with a joking manner not allowing her to tell if you are joking or not. Sometimes slip in a little sly smile.

Than use the other techniques on here.

 

[Nighthawk]

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=946079#post946079

My previous gf was/is one of the UKs leading models (my new gfs hotter), so I know what I'm talking about.

Have fun with them, argue, watch out for subtle shyt-tests re balls, tease them, talk about non-model stuff, find their weaknesses, tease them some more, sexual state, play them off each other, lie and say you've dated a model before.

 

[unorthodox]

I had previous experience with a model (not supermodel), that was back when I was a KFC. I can confirm what Flash is saying is true. The only thing I'd add, don't be needy, talk to other girls too, even enjoy other girls more. Being needy is what killed me, lol. If she starts talking to other guy, start talking to other girl, and make her laugh and have good time, you'll make the bytch jelous.

If somehow conversation gets to her saying that most men she meets are only after her because of her body, tell her that you are after her because of her body....pause....then say all men are like that, you're not very experienced with men are you... change subject.

 

[Mr. Unique]

OK, so I"m going to this party on Halloween where there are going to be a few supermodels.

I'm just a college senior right now, and I'm pretty handsome. I turn the heads of a lot of college girls.

How would you approach these supermodels? Of course it depends on the situation, but generally, what principles would you use?

And what if I wanted to get a picture with one of them, laughing/smiling.

wait. Are these just fashion models or real supermodels? (adriana lima, heidi klum, gisele bundchen) LOL!

 

[flexion_]

Be fun. And don't focus on them.

 

[Kev07]

definetely a handshake and introduction, not sure where to go from there

 

[Yankee.Hotel.Foxtrot]

cream tangerine

I would treat the supermodel as if she were a smart chick.

 

[izza]

Just like everybody else, bro. You treat them just like everybody else.

Lets face it, they are SUPERMODELS. So they are used to people admiring them and wishing they looked like them. They will have egos the size of sky scrapers and bullet proof b*tch shields.

I have met 4 gorgeous models since coming to this site. Let me tell you, what Fash is saying is a stereotype - it might turn out to be true in some cases, but it's often not. The four models I met had hearts of gold, they were as sweet as can be. I, being brainwashed by this site, told myself exactly what Fash just said: they are hot, they are used to being adored, they must have enormous egos, I should neg-hit them. In reality, they were really sweet and we were getting along great until I decided I should "show them" that I wasn't intimidated.

Of course, why do you think I was neg-hitting them in the first place? Because I was intimidated and couldn't even admit it to myself! My neg-hits were relatively funny, but since they were being so sweet, were just so sadly out of context. I am still astonished at what a fool I was.

Sounds like you're pretty intimidated yourself, and are probably doubting your social skills. This may or may not be a logical feeling, but it's ok to feel that way. Fear is there to help you bring out your best.

With everybody on the planet you have to feel the vibe and respond so that you two connect. That's the only rule you should follow in talking to people - be it your mother or a supermodel. Don't be an idiot like I was and just crassly assume that all models have enormous egos. What would you say if I declared that all white people can't dance and all black people are good at basketball? So all asians are smart, and all Mexicans are crooks?

In fact, I would go so far as to say that the models I have met have been some of the most humble, unassuming, kind, welcoming, and interesting people I have met in my entire life! I have way more ego than they do, and I look like a rat.

Don't neg-hit by policy. Feel the vibe, connect. Fear means you are facing a new challenge, so welcome it to your side. It is a good sign.

If possible, please take something from my experience. Good luck!

PS Forget this "well I turn heads" attitude. You're thinking like a girl. 90% of dating success for women rides on beauty. 90% of success for men depends on character and action. Women care less about what you were born with than what you do with it. I have seen some ugly dudes with gorgeous babes, and supermodel-lookin' dudes be alone (despite effort) for a very long time.

 

[DJ_in_making]

definetely a handshake and introduction, not sure where to go from there

WRONG! I've never actually opened a supermodel before, but if she's like any other Egomaniacal girl Neg the SH*T out of her!!! Don't expect to say 1 and she magically starts drooling over you. You gotta neg her a few times, don't appear as if you're waiting for a reaction, and punish her for bad behavior (turn your back on her according to mystery).

 

[backbreaker]

just as you would approach anyone else... they are genetically blessed, good deal.. I mean, you are supposed to be going after the good looking ones anyway right?

Plus, models aren't necessarly the best looking women, they are the most photogenic women. The best looking woman I have ever seen couldn't possibly be a model becuse she is only like 5'4 and isn't under 100 pounds.

any time you have doubt approaching a good looking woman, model or not, it's becuase deep down you know you aren't of like kind. not necessarly good looking enough, but you haven't done what you were supposed to do, get what you were supposed to out of life to be on or above her level.

In my eyes, the time you approach a woman is a life lipmis test... if you have done what you are supposed to do, physically and mentally, you honestyl think she is lucky, regardless of how she looks, to be in your life.

 

[AlekNovi]

Didn't read this thread, as 90% of replies around these parts are from KJs... so I might be repeating myself.

I'm actually a part of a modelling agency (not as a model, I do something else)... And some of the best-paid models in my country can be seen there... And lemme tell you something... THE ONLY difference between a model, a supermodel, an average girl on the street is:

-the makeup
-the hairstyle
-photoshop

Seriously, coz i don't watch TV, i didn't even know I was surrounded by supermodels, I thought they were just some average girls (wannabe-models) when I first saw them... only later did I find out they were hot-shot, highly paid supermodels.

Secondly - *Some* of them are alot more insecure than the average girl (very shy, and spend 5-6 hours fixing themselves up as overcompensation for lack of social skills)

So, how do you approach them?

You don't.

It's the wrong question, as you're singling out certain girls simply by their profession (and that's all it is, they all look the same in the morning).

You should be asking "How can I become a person who can approach any girl, anywhere, so much so that it's just a part of who I am, not what I do"

Then it won't matter what their profession is.

It's like asking "how do I approach redheads who are 5'4"

The same as any other girl.

 

[diplomatic_lies]

What do you define as a "supermodel"? A buddy of mine went on a bunch of lingerie ads, and suddenly she started calling herself a supermodel, which cant be true because she's not really "super".

I mean, are you meeting Claudia Schiffer at this party? Cindy Crawford? Bill Clinton?

 

[AlekNovi]

Ok I decided to read this thread. And as I assumed... the KJs who've never actually dated a supermodel, are all spouting some stereotypical bull****... and the only ones of us who've actually had experience say the opposite.

On Negging:

I had to breach this subject. Mystery developed his model when he was a very insecure dork, and it's based on going around certain issues in his head. See we all go thru *phase number 2*, where you think everyone is after you, girls are *****es, 10s are trying to hurt you etc... etc... but that isn't reality.

The only reason you are getting worse reactions from "10s" (which btw doesn't exist as every guy's idea of a 10 is different) is because your attraction is screwing you up and you are getting more nervous, and making her feel nervous. When you are delivering negs it works on YOU, not her... You feel like you have gained power back (which was yours all the time, only you gave it away to an imagined "b1tch scenario). So you lose some of the nervousness and feel mighty and powerfull for having done it.

It's much simpler to just walk in knowing you have higher power. Rather than use 234 crutches to convince YOURSELF of it.

 

[izza]

Ok I decided to read this thread. And as I assumed... the KJs who've never actually dated a supermodel, are all spouting some stereotypical bull****... and the only ones of us who've actually had experience say the opposite.

On Negging:

I had to breach this subject. Mystery developed his model when he was a very insecure dork, and it's based on going around certain issues in his head. See we all go thru *phase number 2*, where you think everyone is after you, girls are *****es, 10s are trying to hurt you etc... etc... but that isn't reality.

The only reason you are getting worse reactions from "10s" (which btw doesn't exist as every guy's idea of a 10 is different) is because your attraction is screwing you up and you are getting more nervous, and making her feel nervous. When you are delivering negs it works on YOU, not her... You feel like you have gained power back (which was yours all the time, only you gave it away to an imagined "b1tch scenario). So you lose some of the nervousness and feel mighty and powerfull for having done it.

It's much simpler to just walk in knowing you have higher power. Rather than use 234 crutches to convince YOURSELF of it.

Can I get an amen on the stereotypical BS comment? AMMMMMEN!

I like how you're thinking. It might sound a bit crazy, but I think the real challenge in any given interaction isn't convincing them to like you, it's convincing yourself to like you. Once you like yourself, you have that natural confidence "she'll like this, if she doesn't, I do, see ya." It's not even at a rational level, it's a feeling, one that we should always seek.

For the record, I'm an enormous KJ and I've had some experience

I should have been more clear, it wasn't just me "meeting" models, one model was a friend of mine (I worked for her mom), another was my best friend's gf (she wasn't that hot), a third I went on a date with, you can check out my FR (it's really embarrassing (like I said, I'm a chump)) but at least she invited me up , a fourth was also a sweet kid I went to church with but that one rejected me (before the days of sosuave alas, I pulled what seemed to her like a stalkerish move lol, so bad).

Like I said before, the models I have known are probably humbler, kinder, smarter and more generous than your average girl. This neg-hitting crap was just so out of place.

 

[AlekNovi]

I like how you're thinking. It might sound a bit crazy, but I think the real challenge in any given interaction isn't convincing them to like you, it's convincing yourself to like you. Once you like yourself, you have that natural confidence "she'll like this, if she doesn't, I do, see ya." It's not even at a rational level, it's a feeling, one that we should always seek.

For the record, I'm an enormous KJ and I've had some experience

I should have been more clear, it wasn't just me "meeting" models, one model was a friend of mine (I worked for her mom), another was my best friend's gf (she wasn't that hot), a third I went on a date with, you can check out my FR (it's really embarrassing (like I said, I'm a chump)) but at least she invited me up , a fourth was also a sweet kid I went to church with but that one rejected me (before the days of sosuave alas, I pulled what seemed to her like a stalkerish move lol, so bad).

Like I said before, the models I have known are probably humbler, kinder, smarter and more generous than your average girl. This neg-hitting crap was just so out of place.

Lol, you're just like me then. I call myself a halfing (half-kj), I also post alot and theorize alot. But I happen to also have alot of experience too.

A shark can recognize another shark (me, seeing the quality of your posts), but it can also recognize a seaweed (a KJ)

 

[DJ_in_making]

WHAT?!?!?! Listen to yourself..

The only reason you are getting worse reactions from "10s" (which btw doesn't exist as every guy's idea of a 10 is different) is because your attraction is screwing you up and you are getting more nervous, and making her feel nervous. When you are delivering negs it works on YOU, not her... You feel like you have gained power back (which was yours all the time, only you gave it away to an imagined "b1tch scenario). So you lose some of the nervousness and feel mighty and powerfull for having done it.

KBJ? hahaha good one.....
1. Mystery was a dork BEFORE he invented MM, not after.

2. The only reason you ACTUALLY get worse reactions from "10s" is because they are hit on WAAY more often than average girls. You could be as unnervous as you want and still get a bad reaction. Its not just hair, looks, photoshop like you said, its their f*ckin EGO

3. 10's do EXIST! Guys biologically are pretty much attracted by the same things, meaning a girl (lets say Jessica Simpson) MOST straight men all find very hot!

You stated you dated a supermodel right? I'll give you the benefit of a BIG doubt.... How did you approach her and what was the result?