arcilitei34
Don Juan
Here's the situation, a few days ago i was at the mall with some friends, and I saw one of my gf's friends, for now lets just call him Mr. A to avoid confusion, I wouldnt exactly say that she was good friends with him but apparently he had recognized me and gave me dirty looks as we walked past each other, obviously there was some bad vibes.
It was only later on that day I found out who he was, and one of my friends at the mall knew who he was. Later that day my friend that knew Mr. A IM'ed him and they got into a discussion about myself, he recognized me and wanted to talk to him about me.
During that conversation my friend had told me Mr.A was "not very fond of me" because of the fact that I was dating his younger godsister or some shiit like that, my friend stood up for me and just told him off.
About a week after I went to my Gf's house to spend time with her, the basic movie make out session, on my arrival I find her on MSN IM'ing her friends, this wasn't a problem at the time, however when she was IM'ing to Mr.A he had been talking shiitt about me.
The funny thing is, I was there to see what he had been saying about me and he had no idea that i was at my Gf's house at the time. Mr.A was saying things like
Mr.A: Ok go see your fag bf
My GF: He's not a fag.
Mr.A: Yeah he's a fag.
I of course didnt lose my cool when i saw this, i just brushed it off my shoulders but in my mind i was telling myself "WTF. why is he saying shiitt about me and i've never even met him before".
My Gf told me that she had no idea what was up with Mr.A and she looked just as confused. I didnt come off as weak and let it bother me when it happened, but it really is bothering me =p.
My best assumption is that Mr.A once had feelings for my GF until i came into the picture, but I can't assume anything. How would a DJ best handle this situation? Mr. A is about 18 or 19 and both me and my gf are both 17.
It was only later on that day I found out who he was, and one of my friends at the mall knew who he was. Later that day my friend that knew Mr. A IM'ed him and they got into a discussion about myself, he recognized me and wanted to talk to him about me.
During that conversation my friend had told me Mr.A was "not very fond of me" because of the fact that I was dating his younger godsister or some shiit like that, my friend stood up for me and just told him off.
About a week after I went to my Gf's house to spend time with her, the basic movie make out session, on my arrival I find her on MSN IM'ing her friends, this wasn't a problem at the time, however when she was IM'ing to Mr.A he had been talking shiitt about me.
The funny thing is, I was there to see what he had been saying about me and he had no idea that i was at my Gf's house at the time. Mr.A was saying things like
Mr.A: Ok go see your fag bf
My GF: He's not a fag.
Mr.A: Yeah he's a fag.
I of course didnt lose my cool when i saw this, i just brushed it off my shoulders but in my mind i was telling myself "WTF. why is he saying shiitt about me and i've never even met him before".
My Gf told me that she had no idea what was up with Mr.A and she looked just as confused. I didnt come off as weak and let it bother me when it happened, but it really is bothering me =p.
My best assumption is that Mr.A once had feelings for my GF until i came into the picture, but I can't assume anything. How would a DJ best handle this situation? Mr. A is about 18 or 19 and both me and my gf are both 17.