How would a Alpha Male handle this?

[white sox bill]

Hey!
I've made MUCH progress to becoming Alpha. But here's situation I need help with,

My ex-GF from many yrs ago, last week agreed to go to Summerfest, a large 2 week long drunkfest in Milwaukee this coming Saturday(tomorrow). She call this AM and tells me she has serios doubts about going because:
*Rain in the forecast--this is true, like 90% chance
*She just found out her Aunt/Uncle are arriving from Florida, and if we went, we'd have to be back @ 6PM. This nixes it since its a 2 hr drive.

She told me to get back w/her if I hear of a different forecast. I told her I'd call her in AM to confirm forecast. When her and I were dating, this seemed to come up once in a while. Anyway, does she have valid reasons, or a blow-off? Shes normally a very direct, almost Alpha female type..Shouild I let it slide, just one of those things? I could call this stripper, whos number I just got, 3 days ago, but then there goes the 'ol "Wait a week 'till you call" theory. Sugestions? Thanks,
Bill

 

[maranathaman]

If it were me...

If it were me, I'd say something to her like.
"That's cool, maybe we should hang-out some other time when you are more available". Then call-up the stripper or some other chick, or even try to hook-up with some drunk chicks at the Beer fest! Then your ex will see that you are fine without her.

 

[white sox bill]

Think I'll tell her I'll forgive her this time...but that she owes me!

 

[white sox bill]

Re: If it were me...

Originally posted by maranathaman
If it were me, I'd say something to her like.
"That's cool, maybe we should hang-out some other time when you are more available". Then call-up the stripper or some other chick, or even try to hook-up with some drunk chicks at the Beer fest! Then your ex will see that you are fine without her.

Thanks, I'll bend the rules this time for the stripper and call her

 

[DJ_Dork]

go on a killing spree

 

[Hollowpoint]

with plastic forks

 

[Player_Supreme]

First of all and you probably do not want to here this is that you shouldn't be hanging with your ex. done is done. there is a reason why your two are now ex's. I hope your not desperate trying to hang onto your memories. And forget that we are now friends bull shyt that some guys spout as a cover up.

Secondly, your happiness shouldn't depend on a females presence. If she doesn't wanna go then go without her and have a wonderful time.

Thirdly, her reasons sound valid to me. Don't sweat the little stuff.

Fourth thing I want to say is you should have some back up girls to go with if someone bales on you. Haven't you learned anything from this site?

Finally, you don't have to be something your not in order to make decisions on your own life. Being alpha doesn't mean you make the best decisions for YOU. Be who you are.


peace.

 

[RochambeauAllStar]

Player

Nice reply.

Stripper:
1) Wait a week? Do you live by rules? Do what you want.
2) Even if waiting a week raised the interest level, the stripper has been there, done that (among everything else).
3) A stripper? WTF are you thinking? WWJD? Looking for someone truly f*cked in the head are we?

 

[SageOFAllenAge]

wake up to the realisation that she has chosen to be a sex object.

 

[DJ Alejandro]

just let it pass. you'll be too busy hooking then.

why care? you can always have her on your "reserve" list.