How Women Manipulate Men & Lead Relationships

[AureliusMaximus]

I stumbled over this video and it's quite interesting so I thought I might share it!

 

[Medina]

Women are just men with low muscle mass, a micropenis (****oris) and balls that hide on the inside instead of out (ovaries)

This is why they act the way they do

Manipulation and character assassination is preferable over direct conflict when you're obviously the weaker entity

And of course the most dominant men will just fight her battles for her

All it takes is a little make-up and a limp wrist and everyone is pretty much fooled

Women are very much in the Game too, make no mistake

In fact I would say they are better at it than men. They live longer and acquire more resources at lesser effort, and they almost always pass on their genes when they want

 

[sosousage]

Women are just men with low muscle mass, a micropenis (****oris) and balls that hide on the inside instead of out (ovaries)

This is why they act the way they do

Manipulation and character assassination is preferable over direct conflict when you're obviously the weaker entity

And of course the most dominant men will just fight her battles for her

All it takes is a little make-up and a limp wrist and everyone is pretty much fooled

Women are very much in the Game too, make no mistake

In fact I would say they are better at it than men. They live longer and acquire more resources at lesser effort, and they almost always pass on their genes when they want

but they are fugged by tons of guys and their naked pics are online!!! such life win!!!

 

[lamath]

Good Vid quite useful to remind us how we can lose frame, ive been guilty of some over-reaction as shown in the Jennifer and Vince Clip.

 

[diogenes84]

I guess what I (and Im sure many others) do wrong in these kind of "control the frame" situations is get upset, get emotional or react in an impulsive way, maybe even being disrespectful or hurtful--> thus proving she is good and you are bad and showing how you "feel guilty". Basically buying into the frame.

I guess that's also what he mentioned shortly in the weapons against nagging and judging: keep cool. discuss calmly and make your point, don't get drawn onto the emotional battlefield: they will sure as hell beat you with experience here.

phew but so difficult to do in RL ^^

 

[ubercat]

It's just like cars. Most men are idiots who think they know but haven't read the owners manual. Women troll those guys hard.

 

[ubercat]

Now not reacting at work when some psychobitch is in your face with behaviour that would get you sh1tcanned in a second. But her ass is covered by the bull dykes of HR. That is what I find tough and am working on.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

Well act like the man you are (hopefully), and show you are that counterpart that will not accept the bullsh*t by being the controlling frame that sets borders for what is acceptable behavior. Women are somewhat like children and they need to know the limits of what you as a man can accept so they act in an respectful and decent manner in the relationship. If not they will sh*t test you and attempt to domesticate you to be their beta b*tch house cat.

 

[diogenes84]

Well act like the man you are (hopefully), and show you are that counterpart that will not accept the bullsh*t by being the controlling frame that sets borders for what is acceptable behavior. Women are somewhat like children and they need to know the limits of what you as a man can accept so they act in an respectful and decent manner in the relationship. If not they will sh*t test you and attempt to domesticate you to be their beta b*tch house cat.

Its crazy but I never understood why my bosses secretary treated me so disrespectful but only now do I understand she only respects power and confidence and will shove Betas around as much as they let her. Its too late to gain her respect but I will know with my next job!

 

[EyeOnThePrize]

the content of this video is common sense but by simply existing puts too much emphasis on women having power over you. it's hard for me to believe that the men replying to this thread claiming it's very eye-opening and informative genuinely think so.

it's common sense that you shouldn't react emotionally when a person says or does something you don't enjoy.
it's common sense that people will push your buttons to get you to do something.
it's common sense that you should maintain your resolve and not let things get under your skin.
notice i say people and not just women. they are weaker qualities and so we call them feminine qualities, but either sex can have them.

what i think is happening with the creation of that video and this thread is guys are losing their OWN point of reference. simply by acknowledging and having a serious discussion about all these obvious, natural, and inconsequential traits that any feminine person will exhibit men are distracting themselves from their real pursuits in life.

let's say you want to become a top level executive or generate a billion plus dollars with a real estate venture. whatever you pick it's a very lofty goal. it will take immense discipline, focus, and determination to achieve it. we call this dragon slaying. when you are constantly slaying your dragons you're in the process of manifesting the life you want and each setback challenges you to dig deeper, to be stronger, more resourceful, more calm in the face of crisis. endless setbacks, endless challenges, the equivalent of chewing on glass. a man who is busy doing all this will not give two sheets about what his woman is trying to do. he comes to her for joy and a break from the dragon slaying. if she doesn't supply that joy and tries power grabs rather than discussing things in a healthy and open way, then he feels natural aversion and walks. he doesn't have long discussions on internet forums about it, let alone watch or make videos diving into it as if it's some intricate and extremely powerful topic.

it's only powerful if you give it power, and that's the case with everything in life.

imo this video and these discussions distract us from dragon slaying. and the mind will rationalize it any way it can because discussing these things and studying them endlessly is much much easier than going out and slaying dragons. it becomes an endless labyrinth of dissecting what women say or do in certain situations. it is a waste of your precious time and is actually weakening you. again if you are going out and doing the extremely hard things you need to do to get what you want, then anything a woman tries will pale by comparison. you will see what she is doing and will either feel natural aversion or natural attraction. hell you might even get turned on when your woman tries to be dramatic. you think to yourself 'look at my little girl, trying to be strong and mighty, how cute, how sexy'.

when a woman attempts to charm you there is no way to tell if it's genuine or a power move to try and ride your coattails. you enjoy her? great let her into your world and expect joy from her. support her endeavors if you feel like it and play with her when she tries to be dramatic or otherwise misbehaves. if the net joy becomes negative AND you haven't stopped pursuing your life passions relentlessly, then you'll naturally want to leave her because you don't come to her to slay dragons, you come to her to enjoy the fruits of your hard work. or you may not care what she does as long as she has your kids or whatever. set your precedence and if she doesn't follow then you're not compatible, simple.

i know this may come across as putting you guys down, but i'm simply trying to expose the ugly truth. that by being here and diving into intricate details endlessly we are ultimately undermining ourselves. that's why some of the wisest guys on here make few posts, because they're out slaying.

 

[lamath]

the content of this video is common sense but by simply existing puts too much emphasis on women having power over you. it's hard for me to believe that the men replying to this thread claiming it's very eye-opening and informative genuinely think so.

it's common sense that you shouldn't react emotionally when a person says or does something you don't enjoy.
it's common sense that people will push your buttons to get you to do something.
it's common sense that you should maintain your resolve and not let things get under your skin.
notice i say people and not just women. they are weaker qualities and so we call them feminine qualities, but either sex can have them.

what i think is happening with the creation of that video and this thread is guys are losing their OWN point of reference. simply by acknowledging and having a serious discussion about all these obvious, natural, and inconsequential traits that any feminine person will exhibit men are distracting themselves from their real pursuits in life.

let's say you want to become a top level executive or generate a billion plus dollars with a real estate venture. whatever you pick it's a very lofty goal. it will take immense discipline, focus, and determination to achieve it. we call this dragon slaying. when you are constantly slaying your dragons you're in the process of manifesting the life you want and each setback challenges you to dig deeper, to be stronger, more resourceful, more calm in the face of crisis. endless setbacks, endless challenges, the equivalent of chewing on glass. a man who is busy doing all this will not give two sheets about what his woman is trying to do. he comes to her for joy and a break from the dragon slaying. if she doesn't supply that joy and tries power grabs rather than discussing things in a healthy and open way, then he feels natural aversion and walks. he doesn't have long discussions on internet forums about it, let alone watch or make videos diving into it as if it's some intricate and extremely powerful topic.

it's only powerful if you give it power, and that's the case with everything in life.

imo this video and these discussions distract us from dragon slaying. and the mind will rationalize it any way it can because discussing these things and studying them endlessly is much much easier than going out and slaying dragons. it becomes an endless labyrinth of dissecting what women say or do in certain situations. it is a waste of your precious time and is actually weakening you. again if you are going out and doing the extremely hard things you need to do to get what you want, then anything a woman tries will pale by comparison. you will see what she is doing and will either feel natural aversion or natural attraction. hell you might even get turned on when your woman tries to be dramatic. you think to yourself 'look at my little girl, trying to be strong and mighty, how cute, how sexy'.

when a woman attempts to charm you there is no way to tell if it's genuine or a power move to try and ride your coattails. you enjoy her? great let her into your world and expect joy from her. support her endeavors if you feel like it and play with her when she tries to be dramatic or otherwise misbehaves. if the net joy becomes negative AND you haven't stopped pursuing your life passions relentlessly, then you'll naturally want to leave her because you don't come to her to slay dragons, you come to her to enjoy the fruits of your hard work. or you may not care what she does as long as she has your kids or whatever. set your precedence and if she doesn't follow then you're not compatible, simple.

i know this may come across as putting you guys down, but i'm simply trying to expose the ugly truth. that by being here and diving into intricate details endlessly we are ultimately undermining ourselves. that's why some of the wisest guys on here make few posts, because they're out slaying.

I agree its nothing new but a very good reminder.
Im usualy calm but i do sometime overreact very good to reminds me to keep my cool

 

[diogenes84]

i know this may come across as putting you guys down, but i'm simply trying to expose the ugly truth. that by being here and diving into intricate details endlessly we are ultimately undermining ourselves. that's why some of the wisest guys on here make few posts, because they're out slaying.

well some of us still have to learn this, I'm sure the "wisest guys" started thinking and acting different than they do now.
acknowledging whats undermining us might also be the first step to seeing how to become more unfazed.

You are completely right about this being universal to all interactions.

Also it is quite possible to be extremely successful, earn lots of money status etc. but then resort to falling for some of the "tricks" depicted before because it is what you have learned in your upbringing or what society taught you and you resort to it by default unless you realize what has been said before.