Totally agree.Lars Porsenna said:"The man goes after the woman", "makes the first step", "that has been natures way forever?"
Guys, that is pretty delusional. Read more closely. Females chose you. That is exactly what is happening when she is "fiddling with her shoe laces", "sitting on the bench beside you" etc. pp. This principle of "Female Choice" can be found in every higher mammal (!!). Females pick you and are very skilled to offer you a situation to approach her. And giving you the illusion of having done your own chosing.
Its all been described here. We just have to be correct about the "first step" and the "chosing".