How well did i handle this?

blackwolf

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i msg'd her on a dating website cause her profile sounded nice even though she barely shows her face in her pics and by the looks of it she's prolly not that hot. it did say she was looking for long term dating, but i guess not with someone like me.

so when she said this to me i was a little shocked by her smart ass comments.

her: i feel i should point out that i have no desire what so ever to be more then just friends with you
me: is that what you put on your profile ?
her: that i dont find you attractive?
her: no never mentioned you, that'd be weird :p
me: fair enough. well i have enough friends :p take it easy


i might of sounded immature to her but it's true. i dont need girl FRIENDS and i hate having girls as friends so i just straight up deleted her.

what do you guys think about this?

her pic: http://i55.tinypic.com/b6r7kw.jpg
 

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by the way.. on the website you can put on the part "what i'm looking for" and many girls infact choose casual sex together with long term dating, short term dating..quite a combination mm? just wondering if i should add casual sex too? i fear it might come off as perverted and scare away potential long term girls.
 

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I'm not going to say you handled it well, because you're wasting your time on this kind of internet dating. Honestly it's not an achievement breaking off contact with a girl who is not interested online. Just get out there into the real world.
 

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Yes you did the right thing, exactly what I would have said (though I avoid online dating)

Oh, and the girl in that pic is not attractive at all.

Cheers!
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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Tesl said:
Yes you did the right thing, exactly what I would have said (though I avoid online dating)

Oh, and the girl in that pic is not attractive at all.

Cheers!
There is no way in hell Id ever message a ugly ***** like that
 

joe henny

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As soon as she would have wrote that first comment I would have said bye
 

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Tesl said:
Yes you did the right thing, exactly what I would have said (though I avoid online dating)

Oh, and the girl in that pic is not attractive at all.

Cheers!
There is no way in hell Id ever message a ugly ***** like that
 

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To me, it's certenally a posibility that she was just bull****ting you by saying that. IMO she was just trying to see your reaction, to see if you are a real man or not. I think your answer was suspicious... You pulled off too soon imo, I think it showed a little weakness... Or maybe not I am not sure. But she was *UGLY AS ***** IMO so I wouldn't bother, if she were hot I'd deffinitly keep on talking to her despite what she said, not taking what she said seriously... I don't think she was even talking seriously.
 

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These 5s and 6s with these arrogant, "I'm too good for you" attitudes never cease to amaze me. This chick looks like a goddam penguin in glasses.

Send this artist a painting of a big middle finger
 

Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

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i wouldnt touch that thing with a 10 foot pole. It paints cats for christ sake
 

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Just from looking at that pic, she IS ugly. She IS messy. And she is an artist which means she's probably bat-**** crazy.

You either have poor taste in women or you are blind either way get your standards up and go for the 9's.
 

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these days i'm willing to give girls with a good personality a chance. she was maybe a 5/6 yes but when i read her profile on the dating site it didnt sound so bad until she said that smart ass comment to me. which is why i fuked her off so fast cause she wasnt hot. the average girls are the best for long terms anyway. everytime i meet a hot girl they usually all the same and im sick of them which is why i have lowered my standards a little.
 
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