How we can improve the game/pickup community.

[Jesse Pinkman]

This is a very good post @Jesse Pinkman and I agree with most of the stuff you said. It seems to me you basically established three categories:

1.- Blackpillers AKA The Whiners / Cry me a river. Basically guys who are not serious about improving. They just want to complain and waste our time.
B.- Guys who are not succesfull at pulling girls but are serious about improving and they dont complain or waste our time.
3.- Guys who are succesfull at pulling girls and spinning plates.

If I may, I think you forgot about those of us currently in LTRs.

Yeah, more or less but there are middle grounds too. There are guys out there who "take action" but don't learn at all from the action they take so they make the same mistakes week after week, never get better, and then quickly turn to the black pill. I know he is not popular here but John Anthony had a really good video on how the Black Pill ruins lives:

 

[SargeMaximus]

If what you say is true, this is a tragedy. This is why I really want the team to work out a way for a private forum for members who are serious about taking action. It is hidden from Google and you have to make an account on here to really access it. If we did that, then guys like you, me, and @LucianoM could share so much more of our receipts and proof. We could show newer guys how it is done and we could bring back some of the magic of places like the Good Looking Loser forum.

Obviously we would have rules like you cannot post her face or her name.

Yeah I’d be down in theory, but is t that how this forum started? GLL was a cool place but I got no love their either because I am different

 

[Serenity]

1. I think we need a field reports and lay reports section on this site, if only we can get the take of the admins on here such as @Serenity. It will take the site to the next level and truly lay a foundation for newbies to head to.

Not an admin, but I can discuss it with the admin and the other moderators. Might be able to try it and If people end up actively using such a section it will be worth it.

Btw, just tagging me gave me a notification, I always check out what I'm tagged in. You could also just shoot me a PM if you're wondering about something.

 

[Ricky]

Do it man, in fact, I encourage you to start your own field reports journal thread. If I can get at least 10 members to start a field reports thread on the forum where they are constantly highlighting the action they take while welcoming feedback from the pros here, I think that would do wonders for solidifying us as the best community on the web for game. IMO, I think we really are the best.

You got it. I may need to censor some things on my end for various reasons but i'm up for it.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

Not an admin, but I can discuss it with the admin and the other moderators. Might be able to try it and If people end up actively using such a section it will be worth it.

Btw, just tagging me gave me a notification, I always check out what I'm tagged in. You could also just shoot me a PM if you're wondering about something.

I appreciate that boss and yes, I will be sure to shoot you a PM if I have anything I need help with.

I think it would help make the case stronger if other users are onboard with it too and would want to contribute. I am more than down for something like this. My only request is that the field reports section is visible to just members themselves so some random person cannot Google and come across it, you have to be an active So Suave member to see it.

I think it would also help the team here trying to help out newbies to tell them to start a field report and post there first if they are serious about getting good. They can post actions they are taking in order to improve with women rather than just proposing theory.

I'd like to ask:

@LucianoM
@nicksaiz65
@Ricky
@SW15
@SargeMaximus
@mikedee (despite our differences in the past)
@In2theGame
@NorwegianDJ (who has a phenomenal journal going that we could move to that section along with my approach report)
@Velasco
@We_ArE_VeNOM
@Rainman4707
@Bingo-Player
@Chowdah
@Young OG
@EyeBRollin

I have called all of you guys out because you have either posted field reports on here or talked in great lengths about your personal interactions with women. If Serenity was to make the effort to get such a section going, would you all be open to becoming the first class that makes the most of it and shares what are sure to be your success stories with game in the coming months?

If so, just say "Im in!".

 

[Ricky]

count me in!

 

[CornbreadFed]

Cold approaching is great and when done right, arguably one of the best things you can do for your dating life outside of building a really good online dating profile. Social circles break apart and dating apps can ban you for whatever but you never know when the girl you approach is going to be your next girlfriend. I have seen many men build successful relationships from cold approach and some even get high lay counts off of it.

I have been banned from a dating app before and I am lucky my second account didn’t get banned too.

 

[SargeMaximus]

I appreciate that boss and yes, I will be sure to shoot you a PM if I have anything I need help with.

I think it would help make the case stronger if other users are onboard with it too and would want to contribute. I am more than down for something like this. My only request is that the field reports section is visible to just members themselves so some random person cannot Google and come across it, you have to be an active So Suave member to see it.

I think it would also help the team here trying to help out newbies to tell them to start a field report and post there first if they are serious about getting good. They can post actions they are taking in order to improve with women rather than just proposing theory.

I'd like to ask:

@LucianoM
@nicksaiz65
@Ricky
@SW15
@SargeMaximus
@mikedee (despite our differences in the past)
@In2theGame
@NorwegianDJ (who has a phenomenal journal going that we could move to that section along with my approach report)
@Velasco
@We_ArE_VeNOM
@Rainman4707
@Bingo-Player
@Chowdah
@Young OG
@EyeBRollin

I have called all of you guys out because you have either posted field reports on here or talked in great lengths about your personal interactions with women. If Serenity was to make the effort to get such a section going, would you all be open to becoming the first class that makes the most of it and shares what are sure to be your success stories with game in the coming months?

If so, just say "Im in!".

I mean I’m still not getting as much as I was last year. This year has been quite dry. Only had sex 12 times this year. But I’d be open to drop in when I have something to post yeah

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

I have been banned from a dating app before and I am lucky my second account didn’t get banned too.

That and the algorithms can change as well as the dating apps. I remember when I first got on Tinder how easy it was to get matches but now all you get are bots. The apps screw with your profile randomly and your matches can fluctuate, you are leaving too much in the hands of the creators. Anti-vax? Shadow banned. Republican? Shadow banned. With cold approach, you have full say.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

That and the algorithms can change as well as the dating apps. I remember when I first got on Tinder how easy it was to get matches but now all you get are bots. The apps screw with your profile randomly and your matches can fluctuate, you are leaving too much in the hands of the creators. Anti-vax? Shadow banned. Republican? Shadow banned. With cold approach, you have full say.

Alex Jones game is the best. Be loud, be proud.

What's in your bullhorn, Jesse?

 

[BillyPilgrim]

For real man, get a camera crew going and say you're playing Alex Jones for Bang Bros. Rent a cheap suv with lots of room, them Miami girls can be thicc.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Anti-vax? Shadow banned. Republican? Shadow banned. With cold approach, you have full say.

I was banned because of my Russian heritage was displayed on my profile during the time the Russian Ukrainian war started. I honestly didn’t think my city of birth would get me banned. I recreated a new one and put my birth city as Miami lol. I know better to talk about politics on a dating app and dating in general though.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

I was banned because of my Russian heritage was displayed on my profile during the time the Russian Ukrainian war started. I honestly didn’t think my city of birth would get me banned. I recreated a new one and put my birth city as Miami lol. I know better to talk about politics on a dating app and dating in general though.

This whole time I thought you were a black dude who likes thick girls.

 

[Ricky]

I went out tonight.

i will write about it when i am not buzzed.
Id prefer not to drink period but sometimes it happens too easily that drinks get poured and being the social animal i am, i slam them

 

[CornbreadFed]

This whole time I thought you were a black dude who likes thick girls.

Why on earth would think that lol? Also define thick because I don’t like fat chicks but I do like mom bods

 

[Epicwinguy]

I say focus on figuring out what works and make that the norm in the community. Running around in front of girls on the sidewalk doesn't work. Make more resources for guys to get better at flirting and bantering.

 

[Plinco]

I'm all for trying something different.

As far as me contributing, I'm nowhere near where I'd like to be, but I do have some experience

 

[xavier_2000]

I say focus on figuring out what works and make that the norm in the community. Running around in front of girls on the sidewalk doesn't work. Make more resources for guys to get better at flirting and bantering.

It does work when you're just going about your day and you see a cutie

What doesn't work is "Daygaming".

Environment and lifestyle imho trumps everything

 

[CornbreadFed]

It does work when you're just going about your day and you see a cutie

What doesn't work is "Daygaming".

Environment and lifestyle imho trumps everything

but the chances are extremely low approaching two girls in one day unless you are a Giga Chad with clout.

 

[xavier_2000]

but the chances are extremely low approaching two girls in one day unless you are a Chad

I am a chad lmao

The solution is legit become a Chad.

But being a chad also sucks

I can't get a 7 if my life depended on it, but 9s and 10s are easy and instant.

Its like in business...

It's much easier to charge 10K than charging 1K.

Better clients, less headache.

And dude. I don't worry about the chances, I'm more worried about meeting girls I like tbh cause im busy as hell and I work like crazy.