StuartScott
Banned
Here's the scenario, you see a girl, you're about to walk past her, you're thinking "whoa, this girl is fine", "What do I do". All you got is 2 minutes to get her number, No long drawn out conversations, UNLESS she leads it in that direction, if she doesn't then you don't
Here's what to do......
1.) Look at her. Most Important Tip
(Edited, you don't necessarily need to look at her and smile, in fact, it can work if she's aware of your presense, The last few cold pick-ups I've done, I didn't smile, but just got her attention or made my presense known by walking where she could see me)
2.) If she looks at you, smile, if she gives no positive reaction, leave her to be, if she smiles, or responds, then proceed (Edited, like I said, she doesn't HAVE to smile since a lot of girls, even if they may like you, won't smile at you, for example do you smile at every girl you're attracted to? Of course not, well I don't)
3.) Somehow get her attention. You can try any of the following phrases.
"Hey....What's your name".
"Excuse me, can I walk with you?"
or "can I walk with you to your car?"
"Say, do you have a minute."
"excuse me miss, can I talk to you for a second or what's your name"
"Say, you look kinda cute....(look at her reaction)What's your name."
GREAT TIP
If you happen to see a girl across the street, or a good distance from you then wave at her. There is also a right way to wave and a GAY way to wave, the right way is to smile and wave while letting your FINGERS wave, also another way is to wave by just putting your arm in the air like you're raising your hand if she looks at it, point to her then wave or tell her to come oer to you. The GAY way to wave is by raising your arm face length or below or even above, and just waving without any kind of hand movement but just waving like your hand is frozen, try it right now and see how GAY that looks (I may be overanalyzing but I'm trying to cover it all)
(If she's leaving the mall as you're going in)
Follow step 1 & 2 then say, "What's your name" or "Where you headed"
If you notice her smiling after you follow step 1 & 2, then say "you got a nice smile"/ "you got some sexy lips"
(follow her response after that)
Really good one....
Say she's in front of you by herself and you know she's cute...
"Excuse me, are you here with someone"
if no...
"What's your name"
if yes...
"are you here with your boyfriend"
if no...
"do you have a boyfriend"
if no
"what's your name"
or "where you headed"
DON'T just stare as you walk past, When you're within 5 feet of her, say something
4.)After you've gotten her attention.
"So what's your name"
Some follow up questions That work
Guys, these are really the only follow up questions you need.
"So what brought you to the mall today"
"Where you headed"
"what part of town are you from"
"that's a nice purse/hat/dress/watch, where did you get it from"
"Do you stay around here"
"What school do you go to"
"Are you here with anyone"
"What nationality are you"
"So how are you doing"
"how has your day been"
"Do you go out much?"
I have countless others but don't feel like posting cuz they ain't necessary.
5.)Ask this question, I cannot stress this enough...
"Well....Do you have a boyfriend"
"Are you single"
(If she didn't know why you were stopping her, now she knows)
If yes...(look at the way she says yes)
"Oh for real...well what school does he go to"
"How long you been going with him"
"what's his name"
"alright then, take care" (Don't sound gay when you say this, be cool with the whole response"
you can even skip the questions if you want and go to this part.
all these questions are just to see how much she likes him or what not...
6.)Getting the phone number
If no...
"oh for real/oh really"
"Well....do you go out much?"
"well, can I get your phone number"
"Let me get your phone number, and I can talk to you later
Finally, on how you talk, just read this post.
http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/008737.html
You wont SOUND nervous at all, you may be nervous, but you won't sound nervous...
Disclaimer...
This WHOLE technique works. I'm 19 years old and have pulled roughly between 40-60 phone numbers using this cold approach, But thats just me, I have friends who are players and it's like an everyday thing for one of them, who I've learned much from, he's 22 and I promise, he has a spiral notebook full of phone numbers and he bangs differnt girls on a regular basis, he also gets girls numbers in clubs also, hes' a master at the cold approach.
P.S. If it means anything to anyone, maybe it should, maybe it shouldn't but I know some of you are thinking this, if you're BUTT UGLY, this is not for you, If you look like any of these following people
http://uglypeople.com/uglymen/html/up-men-00290.htm
http://uglypeople.com/uglymen/html/up-men-00295.htm
http://uglypeople.com/uglymen/html/up-men-00311.htm
http://uglypeople.com/uglycelebs/html/up-celebs-00013.htm
Then don't try this
p.p.s. I repeat, you don't HAVE to smile at her, you can just make your presense known by walking around where she can see you. In fact you can even approach from behind.
[This message has been edited by StuartScott (edited 08-23-2002).]
Here's what to do......
1.) Look at her. Most Important Tip
(Edited, you don't necessarily need to look at her and smile, in fact, it can work if she's aware of your presense, The last few cold pick-ups I've done, I didn't smile, but just got her attention or made my presense known by walking where she could see me)
2.) If she looks at you, smile, if she gives no positive reaction, leave her to be, if she smiles, or responds, then proceed (Edited, like I said, she doesn't HAVE to smile since a lot of girls, even if they may like you, won't smile at you, for example do you smile at every girl you're attracted to? Of course not, well I don't)
3.) Somehow get her attention. You can try any of the following phrases.
"Hey....What's your name".
"Excuse me, can I walk with you?"
or "can I walk with you to your car?"
"Say, do you have a minute."
"excuse me miss, can I talk to you for a second or what's your name"
"Say, you look kinda cute....(look at her reaction)What's your name."
GREAT TIP
If you happen to see a girl across the street, or a good distance from you then wave at her. There is also a right way to wave and a GAY way to wave, the right way is to smile and wave while letting your FINGERS wave, also another way is to wave by just putting your arm in the air like you're raising your hand if she looks at it, point to her then wave or tell her to come oer to you. The GAY way to wave is by raising your arm face length or below or even above, and just waving without any kind of hand movement but just waving like your hand is frozen, try it right now and see how GAY that looks (I may be overanalyzing but I'm trying to cover it all)
(If she's leaving the mall as you're going in)
Follow step 1 & 2 then say, "What's your name" or "Where you headed"
If you notice her smiling after you follow step 1 & 2, then say "you got a nice smile"/ "you got some sexy lips"
(follow her response after that)
Really good one....
Say she's in front of you by herself and you know she's cute...
"Excuse me, are you here with someone"
if no...
"What's your name"
if yes...
"are you here with your boyfriend"
if no...
"do you have a boyfriend"
if no
"what's your name"
or "where you headed"
DON'T just stare as you walk past, When you're within 5 feet of her, say something
4.)After you've gotten her attention.
"So what's your name"
Some follow up questions That work
Guys, these are really the only follow up questions you need.
"So what brought you to the mall today"
"Where you headed"
"what part of town are you from"
"that's a nice purse/hat/dress/watch, where did you get it from"
"Do you stay around here"
"What school do you go to"
"Are you here with anyone"
"What nationality are you"
"So how are you doing"
"how has your day been"
"Do you go out much?"
I have countless others but don't feel like posting cuz they ain't necessary.
5.)Ask this question, I cannot stress this enough...
"Well....Do you have a boyfriend"
"Are you single"
(If she didn't know why you were stopping her, now she knows)
If yes...(look at the way she says yes)
"Oh for real...well what school does he go to"
"How long you been going with him"
"what's his name"
"alright then, take care" (Don't sound gay when you say this, be cool with the whole response"
you can even skip the questions if you want and go to this part.
all these questions are just to see how much she likes him or what not...
6.)Getting the phone number
If no...
"oh for real/oh really"
"Well....do you go out much?"
"well, can I get your phone number"
"Let me get your phone number, and I can talk to you later
Finally, on how you talk, just read this post.
http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/008737.html
You wont SOUND nervous at all, you may be nervous, but you won't sound nervous...
Disclaimer...
This WHOLE technique works. I'm 19 years old and have pulled roughly between 40-60 phone numbers using this cold approach, But thats just me, I have friends who are players and it's like an everyday thing for one of them, who I've learned much from, he's 22 and I promise, he has a spiral notebook full of phone numbers and he bangs differnt girls on a regular basis, he also gets girls numbers in clubs also, hes' a master at the cold approach.
P.S. If it means anything to anyone, maybe it should, maybe it shouldn't but I know some of you are thinking this, if you're BUTT UGLY, this is not for you, If you look like any of these following people
http://uglypeople.com/uglymen/html/up-men-00290.htm
http://uglypeople.com/uglymen/html/up-men-00295.htm
http://uglypeople.com/uglymen/html/up-men-00311.htm
http://uglypeople.com/uglycelebs/html/up-celebs-00013.htm
Then don't try this
p.p.s. I repeat, you don't HAVE to smile at her, you can just make your presense known by walking around where she can see you. In fact you can even approach from behind.
[This message has been edited by StuartScott (edited 08-23-2002).]
