How to use social circle game to meet and get hot girls? How to even find such social circles?

[Good Gao]

I remember having this discussion with @Solomon about how underrated social circle game can be and how it be a god send to guys who aren't top 1% man material on paper (tall, white, very wealthy, and tight game).

If done right, it can make it so much easier than having to rely on online dating or having to do 100s of cold approaches before a woman says yes.

Back in school it was as easy as being popular or joining the right frat but I want to talk about it in adulthood when you're out there in an environment which isn't a closed environment.

How do you use social circle game to get hot girls?

 

[Von]

I remember having this discussion with @Solomon about how underrated social circle game can be and how it be a god send to guys who aren't top 1% man material on paper (tall, white, very wealthy, and tight game).

If done right, it can make it so much easier than having to rely on online dating or having to do 100s of cold approaches before a woman says yes.

Back in school it was as easy as being popular or joining the right frat but I want to talk about it in adulthood when you're out there in an environment which isn't a closed environment.

How do you use social circle game to get hot girls?

You got out with the social circle, and approach the girl who interest you while always being respectful so that you keep your place in the group

While going out with the group, you might see girls outside the group that catch your eyes. Talk to her, you might even increase your social value

In short, just go out and say hi

 

[Urbanyst]

Social circle game is for low VALUE men.

 

[Good Gao]

You got out with the social circle, and approach the girl who interest you while always being respectful so that you keep your place in the group

While going out with the group, you might see girls outside the group that catch your eyes. Talk to her, you might even increase your social value

In short, just go out and say hi

how to form that group?

 

[Good Gao]

Social circle game is for low VALUE men.

Most men are low VALUE and most men are stuck there. I hate this BS on forums about how any guy can magically be high value and not have to rely on much but online dating and cold approach.

If you're not a 6'3 guy of the most preferred race with a huge net worth and a lot of charisma, you're likely low value. Here is what tells me you don't really get out much, lots of high value guys use social circle game such as from Greek Life back in their college days or meeting girls through their high value friends. I have a difficult time believing much of what you say these days.

 

[Urbanyst]

Most men are low VALUE and most men are stuck there. I hate this BS on forums about how any guy can magically be high value and not have to rely on much but online dating and cold approach.

If you're not a 6'3 guy of the most preferred race with a huge net worth and a lot of charisma, you're likely low value. Here is what tells me you don't really get out much, lots of high value guys use social circle game such as from Greek Life back in their college days or meeting girls through their high value friends. I have a difficult time believing much of what you say these days.

Did I ever say social circle game doesn't work? Point to the stuff I said that's not true if you have a hard time believing me.

If you have to RELY on social circle game to get women you are low value. Sure.. high VALUE men use social circle game all the time. But they don't rely on it exclusively and they don't NEED to.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Most men are low VALUE and most men are stuck there. I hate this BS on forums about how any guy can magically be high value and not have to rely on much but online dating and cold approach.

If you're not a 6'3 guy of the most preferred race with a huge net worth and a lot of charisma, you're likely low value. Here is what tells me you don't really get out much, lots of high value guys use social circle game such as from Greek Life back in their college days or meeting girls through their high value friends. I have a difficult time believing much of what you say these days.

I think most guys prefer to hang out by themselves after a certain age. If they don't, it's because they are forced into it like through their employment.

 

[Urbanyst]

I think most guys prefer to hang out by themselves after a certain age. If they don't, it's because they are forced into it like through their employment.

This is true.

All the silly social games and drama gets old after a certain age. Especially for men with goals.

You also have the experience and wisdom to know which relationships are worth your time. In youth, you are more concerned with fitting in to whatever group you believe to be cool. Once real life happens, you get a better sense of what is important to you and you stop trying to copy other people. At least that's been my experience.

If I wanted, I could have a much better social image and a much larger social circle. But that requires me to spend my time, energy and MONEY in a way I prefer not to.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Did I ever say social circle game doesn't work? Point to the stuff I said that's not true if you have a hard time believing me.

If you have to RELY on social circle game to get women you are low value. Sure.. high VALUE men use social circle game all the time. But they don't rely on it exclusively and they don't NEED to.

100% this.

 

[Solomon]

Social circle game is for low VALUE men.

Based on what? don't just make a blanket statement and not back up with facts or something

Enjoy

 

[Trump]

I hate this BS on forums about how any guy can magically be high value and not have to rely on much but online dating and cold approach.

I hate this BS on forums how posters use selective listening and use any vulnerability any man may have and exploit it.

If you're not a 6'3 guy of the most preferred race with a huge net worth and a lot of charisma, you're likely low value. Here is what tells me you don't really get out much, lots of high value guys use social circle game such as from Greek Life back in their college days or meeting girls through their high value friends. I have a difficult time believing much of what you say these days.

I have difficult believing much of what you say, or that you really care or want to learn. You want shame, abuse, shock, troll and provoke.

 

[Von]

Based on what? don't just make a blanket statement and not back up with facts or something

Enjoy

I always thought and so many times overread and overheard here that HIGH VALUE guys had STRONG and Numerous social circles.

We ain't talking about ''friends'', we talking about social groups options.

Also, notice how many guys who get the ''hot girl of the place'' have PACKS... a CREW

If you attract people, it means something is good between your ears and that you PROJECT IT unto others.

Nothing is pink and all ''peacefull'', everyone have issues... but don't let it get in the way of your GAME and your social value increase... work on your weakness... Alot of guys who blame the market are because they let the market dictate them.... High Value people DICTATE the MARKET... not the way around... when they have failures they don't stop... Actually you know why athlete, celebrities, musicians etc... are soooo well paid... the ''celebrities''? Because, they never let failure or a NO get in their way, they always decided that they WOULD LEAD THE MARKET and they worked on it until it actually HAPPENED. Many hear the lessons, what to do etc.... few apply it, fewer make it... so to be a 1% person... you need to do what 99% of the people don't do or fail at

People who can lead... usually have a group around them where they go

If you are loner, like me, always be at your best and learn to charm people including Group Leader who have a high value in the current set

 

[Good Gao]

Did I ever say social circle game doesn't work? Point to the stuff I said that's not true if you have a hard time believing me.

If you have to RELY on social circle game to get women you are low value. Sure.. high VALUE men use social circle game all the time. But they don't rely on it exclusively and they don't NEED to.

Once again, you are wrong.

It is great how my threads point out who doesn't know their sh-t and who does. Most high value men do not go around like awkward thirsty PUAs approaching women, they laugh at guys who do that.

SOME might be able to get 9s and 10s on Bumble and Tinder but those men are than 5% of the population.

The truth is status matters and social circle game is show of that status. Get out more, leave your home, talk to people, talk to girls, and then come give advice on here because right now you have no life experience. I was wrong when I thought you were one of the few on this board who knew what they were talking about.

 

[Good Gao]

This is true.

All the silly social games and drama gets old after a certain age. Especially for men with goals.

You also have the experience and wisdom to know which relationships are worth your time. In youth, you are more concerned with fitting in to whatever group you believe to be cool. Once real life happens, you get a better sense of what is important to you and you stop trying to copy other people. At least that's been my experience.

If I wanted, I could have a much better social image and a much larger social circle. But that requires me to spend my time, energy and MONEY in a way I prefer not to.

This is like saying if I wanted to, I could be a famous actor making millions and dating models but that would be a waste of my time, that is what this exactly sounds like.

Even the men who have "goals", they know things like getting promoted, getting laid, having a successful business, and getting power rely on what others think of you. It isn't done by sitting at home jerking it to porn as you post BS on internet forums like you would want it to be believed.

I believe that even if you tried with all of your power, you could not have a better social image or a larger social circle, you could not do it if you gave your life for it so stop lying to me and everyone on here.

You don't prefer to spend your time giving garbage advice on here, you have to do so and you hate men who have options unlike you.

 

[skinnyguy]

Stop feeding the troll guys!!!

He comes on here asking for advice, then attacks the people who give him advice????! This guy is nuts.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Once again, you are wrong.

It is great how my threads point out who doesn't know their sh-t and who does. Most high value men do not go around like awkward thirsty PUAs approaching women, they laugh at guys who do that.

SOME might be able to get 9s and 10s on Bumble and Tinder but those men are than 5% of the population.

The truth is status matters and social circle game is show of that status. Get out more, leave your home, talk to people, talk to girls, and then come give advice on here because right now you have no life experience. I was wrong when I thought you were one of the few on this board who knew what they were talking about.

But after you leave high school or college, who are the people in the world that actually matter? Are there "cool" people running around town? Do I need to socially dominate the other barflies?

I used to make an effort to get to know bartenders and other people down town, but I don't really care about that anymore.

Wouldn't a girl care about how you make her feel in your one on one time rather than how many other guys you know? (Other guys who are also just jockeying for position in some post-college social circles)

 

[Urbanyst]

This is like saying if I wanted to, I could be a famous actor making millions and dating models but that would be a waste of my time, that is what this exactly sounds like.

Even the men who have "goals", they know things like getting promoted, getting laid, having a successful business, and getting power rely on what others think of you. It isn't done by sitting at home jerking it to porn as you post BS on internet forums like you would want it to be believed.

I believe that even if you tried with all of your power, you could not have a better social image or a larger social circle, you could not do it if you gave your life for it so stop lying to me and everyone on here.

You don't prefer to spend your time giving garbage advice on here, you have to do so and you hate men who have options unlike you.

There are loads of different paths a person can take in life. Not everyone wants to be a famous actor making millions. So if someone has the ability to be a famous actor and chooses not to because they would rather try to cure cancer.. are you saying they chose that path because they CAN'T be an actor? ABSURD.

There are a lot of things I could do if I wanted, but I choose not to. For instance, I have never been to London. I can totally afford to go if I wanted. I just choose not to. By your logic, I have never been to London because I CAN'T go and even if I tried with all my power I would never make it.

You sound like someone with no concept of logic.

 

[Urbanyst]

Once again, you are wrong.

It is great how my threads point out who doesn't know their sh-t and who does. Most high value men do not go around like awkward thirsty PUAs approaching women, they laugh at guys who do that.

SOME might be able to get 9s and 10s on Bumble and Tinder but those men are than 5% of the population.

The truth is status matters and social circle game is show of that status. Get out more, leave your home, talk to people, talk to girls, and then come give advice on here because right now you have no life experience. I was wrong when I thought you were one of the few on this board who knew what they were talking about.

Based on your petty and silly arguing on this forum.. you have no status at all and are nothing close to high VALUE.

You are also wrong. A high VALUE man does whatever works for him because he has the freedom of choice.

 

[Urbanyst]

Based on what? don't just make a blanket statement and not back up with facts or something

Enjoy

You can find a YouTube video to support any position you want. If I was a feminist, I could post a YouTube video claiming everything we talk about on this forum is wrong lol.

Learn to read too. I said social circle game works and high value men use it all the time. I use it too. But if its the only way for a guy to get laid, he is low VALUE. Very low. Even losers can pull women without social circle game lol. Total LOSERS! If you need social circle game you are very low on the food chain.

 

[TheFixer14]

You can find a YouTube video to support any position you want. If I was a feminist, I could post a YouTube video claiming everything we talk about on this forum is wrong lol.

Learn to read too. I said social circle game works and high value men use it all the time. I use it too. But if its the only way for a guy to get laid, he is low VALUE. Very low. Even losers can pull women without social circle game lol. Total LOSERS! If you need social circle game you are very low on the food chain.

Reminds me of a friend of mine who I took to a bar to for the first time a few weeks ago (he is 22) and his reaction was hilarious. He said that he hated it and never wants to go to another bar. And that he gets laid already from meetups. Another friend and I tried to explain how meetups aren't even really for getting laid LOL. Though, I have gotten laid through a meetup, if that was the only way that I could get laid or even just meet women that would be sad.

I think just being free to do whatever you want is where you want to be at.