Long time lurker here.
Title says it all. Been banging this girl I met in a club the for the last couple of weeks. We'll call her M.
She definitely see's me as the player type. I never tried to hide it from her and she actually knows some of the girls I was seeing at the same time as her.
How our relationship progressed was we both went to the same clubs and had a kind of cat and mouse game going on. I'd flirt relentlessly, then go dance. She'd make out with me, then go back to her friends. Eventually, I ran into her at a club and stole her away from the two guy friends she was there with. We talked and kissed til sunrise then went to her place and had some awesome sex. A couple of days later I invite her out for drinks and we bang all night. Now she's out of the country, but she's coming back next month. We've been exchanging a few emails.
Now I'm not exactly the girlfriend type, but I wouldn't mind having this girl as one. I actually enjoy hanging out with her, and the sex is great, I know the girl has to make the choice first. So I just enjoy our time together and don't try to push anything. But this girl has never had a boyfriend even though she's smoking hot. When we were out for drink I went to the bathroom twice, and both times when I get back there's some guy hitting on her. That doesn't bother me though. It's just for such a beautiful girl to never have had a boyfriend at 20, that kinda makes me think she's some sort of female player, but one with high standards.
Her attitude about sex is a lot different from most girls I've met. Not shy about it at all and apparently her dad actually encourages her to have fun and hook up with a bunch of guys while she's young... weird.
So is it even possible for this to become anything more than a fun fling? I'd like to see it go somewhere, but I'm also satisfied with how it is now. I mean we go out on dates, split the bill and just have a great time together and afterwards have sex. Can it just keep going on like this?
Title says it all. Been banging this girl I met in a club the for the last couple of weeks. We'll call her M.
She definitely see's me as the player type. I never tried to hide it from her and she actually knows some of the girls I was seeing at the same time as her.
How our relationship progressed was we both went to the same clubs and had a kind of cat and mouse game going on. I'd flirt relentlessly, then go dance. She'd make out with me, then go back to her friends. Eventually, I ran into her at a club and stole her away from the two guy friends she was there with. We talked and kissed til sunrise then went to her place and had some awesome sex. A couple of days later I invite her out for drinks and we bang all night. Now she's out of the country, but she's coming back next month. We've been exchanging a few emails.
Now I'm not exactly the girlfriend type, but I wouldn't mind having this girl as one. I actually enjoy hanging out with her, and the sex is great, I know the girl has to make the choice first. So I just enjoy our time together and don't try to push anything. But this girl has never had a boyfriend even though she's smoking hot. When we were out for drink I went to the bathroom twice, and both times when I get back there's some guy hitting on her. That doesn't bother me though. It's just for such a beautiful girl to never have had a boyfriend at 20, that kinda makes me think she's some sort of female player, but one with high standards.
Her attitude about sex is a lot different from most girls I've met. Not shy about it at all and apparently her dad actually encourages her to have fun and hook up with a bunch of guys while she's young... weird.
So is it even possible for this to become anything more than a fun fling? I'd like to see it go somewhere, but I'm also satisfied with how it is now. I mean we go out on dates, split the bill and just have a great time together and afterwards have sex. Can it just keep going on like this?