How to tell if your wife/girlfriend is cheating you
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3 years ago, she used to repeat the name of her boss too often when we were together. Then one day I saw his name written by her inside her underpants. When I asked her, she told me it was just I kind of whitch so he could be a better boss to her in the job and that she had never had sexual relation with him.
What can you guys comment about that ?
What can you guys comment about that ?
good_man said:
I dont like the sound of this at all tbh, sorry man but i dont think anyone would be happy with that.
Thing is ask yourself these questions:
Why would she write about your boss name in her knickers?
The answer she 'wants him to be a better boss'? wtf answer is that it means nothing! thats not an answer its a cop out, you need todrill it more.
Ask her again!
Ever heard the saying, i want him to get in my knickers?
I know your thinking the same thing.
I would calm down relax and confront her again.
Say something like, i want to talk to you about your boss, i want you to be honest with me and dont lie, is there anything going on, when she says no, bring up the pants again, ask her why she wrote that, when she says for him to be a better boss, ask her to explain what she means cos you cant understan the connection between his name in her pants.
The important thing is to try to be cool, relaxed and not freak out, try to be cool calm and judgemental, your emotions can screw this up, so try to put them on the back burner.
Think:
'hey some-thing is not right here, its not going to upset me, i can handle anything she says and picture the worst case and get it out of your system away from her, then when she comes back to false stuff or skits around the subject your will be more prepared mentally and be able to approcah it with a more critical eye.
It does not mean she is screwing him, but it is very dodgy ground, this is not normal behaviour, you need to drill her and find out, but not get angry ok.
GloriouslyInsane
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Dude i got cheated on ONCE,and i could smell it by a mile,just trust your gut.The ****ing moment she mentions another guy it means a)she's not attracted to you and/or b)she's cheating on you and/or c)she's **** testing you.Think of it logically, if a girl came and said she had your name on her panties what would you think she thinks of you? Don't be a fool use your fvcking head(the north one).
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Totally all bad for a marriage or any LTR for that matter. Unless you swing. Even then its not the best thing for LTR...
foomee
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well if you've been with her for this long, she's obviously not testing you.
you're gonna find out sooner or later, and you're gonna be hurt.
move on. if you feel she cheated on you, than most likely she has. next her. sorry.
you're gonna find out sooner or later, and you're gonna be hurt.
move on. if you feel she cheated on you, than most likely she has. next her. sorry.