How to tell if her orgasm is real

[Tortendieb]

So I fingered this girl to orgasm. But I'm not sure it was real. How can I tell?
Buildup was good, she's flooding wet, breathing harder, rocking against me, holding me so tight I'm almost suffocating, and suddenly nothing. No contracting, no shaking. I'm not sure if she was faking it... how can I tell for sure?

Maybe it's a little paranoid of me... but the thought she's faking orgasms is just so emasculating.

I've been perpetually confused by this and simply can't understand how girls will grind against you, pant hard and then be happy without orgasm.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

Girls lie about orgasms all the time. I had a girlfriend after a year admitted that she never orgasmed from a guy ever. Ever since then I don't ask girls sh!t. I guess if they didn't like the sex they just wouldn't have sex with me again. If she keeps going back for more just assume you handled business.

 

[Single4Life]

I've no idea how to tell. Simply because not ALL girls go crazy with convulsions of the stomach.....

I just don't worry about it. For instance, if the sheets under you are soaking wet and basically feel like someone grabbed a big bucket of liquid and dumped the thing under us, then I just assume I did fine. I remember the first time I had sex, this shocked the hell out of me. I was like WTF happened? I am not even sweating and the sheets feel like they were out in the rain or something..... she was moaning really loud the whole time though, she told me she orgasmed, so ever since then, I just assume I did my job. I don't worry about it.

 

[betheman]

Love and hate these 'debates' !

how do I tel is she has had or is having an orgasm?
do you think she worries about you? damn right yes she does, next time you are balls deep, dont c um, roll over and say nothing, head in a total tailspin!
you cant fake it, either you do, or you dont!

now, has she faked it? if she has, she is lying to you, get it? being dishonest, if she isnt faking, she has enjoyed it and wants more, amyb enot that night, but will want it again.

you cant really tell most times, women are such good actors, anyway, why do you care? is she responsible for your orgasm? no, you arent responsible for hers, if she wants one, she will get one, stop buying into the p0rn bullsh!t.

 

[Mike32ct]

It's too hard to tell and not worth worrying about. Yes, sometimes you are pretty sure it's real. I fingered a girl's gspot and she started shaking violently. I'm 90 percent sure she went "over the edge" but you never know 100 percent. Did she enjoy herself? HELL YEAH.

That is all that matters. You want your girl to enjoy herself. If she's soaking wet, moaning, flush red chest, shaking or any known sign that's she's getting into it, you probably did fine.

She doesn't have to orgasm to have fun. I know men are different so I hate to make this comparison... But I don't even remember the last time I could "finish" wearing a condom, but is sex still fun? Sure.

Plus plenty of female orgasms are more subtle and only SHE would know if it happened. But you can't ask because it's tacky. Plus you end up putting pressure on her to climax, which is never good.

So just keep it fun and hot don't worry about it.

 

[DJDamage]

Always look at a woman's actions.

If she comes back for 'the nasty' again then you know you did a good job on the previous fvck.

 

[Leporello]

If she likes it, she'll want you to do it again. That's all.

 

[PapiChulo]

What Mike said. Even if you cant *** it is still fun for a guy, probably even more so. If she cant orgasm, there may be something wrong with the woman.

 

[Machina29]

If they are cumming, their buttholes will be winking at you! Or if you are rubbing on it, you'll feel the muscles on it contracting etc.

If that isn't happening, she isn't cumming, and I doubt that fakers would fake that part of it.

 

[SgtSplacker]

Kinda weird but I don't really look for a woman to bust because I know they are a little more complicated than men. When i'm bangin i'll go till I bust then roll over and relax for a bit. If I see that she's still horny i'll keep going but that's all on her. So there is kinda no reason for a girl to lie to me about that.

 

[Halcyonique]

If they are cumming, their buttholes will be winking at you! Or if you are rubbing on it, you'll feel the muscles on it contracting etc.

If that isn't happening, she isn't cumming, and I doubt that fakers would fake that part of it.

It's entirely possible for a woman to contract her vaginal or anal muscles at will.

IMO the real give-away is if you gently put your fingers at the sides (or one side) above her *****, just inside of the hip bones. An orgasm seems to trigger involuntary internal "pulses" at these points which certainly cannot be faked.

 

[Zarky]

there is no way to tell. And you really shouldn't care.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Vaginas tighten upon orgasm. It's to draw up and hold semen, to better the chance of pregnancy. That's why her orgasm increases the chance of conception.

 

[PapiChulo]

Give her a polygraph test.

 

[Down Low]

Some women do the "uh...uh...uh" thing just like men. Others can barely get started on an orgasm, and have to try over and over just to get the first one and a half "uhs." Fact is, women have mental issues that cause them to repress their own orgasms. Others have physical issues, such as very low libido, and can't orgasm more than once every few weeks no matter how much candy and flowers they get.

Vaginas tighten upon orgasm. It's to draw up and hold semen, to better the chance of pregnancy. That's why her orgasm increases the chance of conception.

Watch the movie. The roof of the vagina raises to get out of the way of strong active penile thrusting. The vag gets looser before orgasm. Just before orgasm, and after, ****s get very sensitive. Don't touch them directly. Lick around the hood but avoid the glans.

The orgasm is said to increase the chance of conception because the opening to the uterus goes into spasm too. It spasms open a little. However, during estrus, the mouth of the uterus stays open for days. It is sealed by a semipermeable mucus that sperm can survive in and transit through. This differs from the usual tough mucus plug that sperm can't swim through. The viscosity of the mucus plug is an important factor in fertilization. High levels of estrogen make the mucus temporarily thinner while making the vagina and uterus thicker, wetter, and more capable of sexual reproduction.
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I am not her man. She can't stand the thought of me touching her. She's dripping with other men's semen. She is ashamed to be seen with me. She never misses an opportunity to disrespect me. Everything I do is wrong. I am the problem. She got what she wanted from me. She says "I hate you so much I could kill you." Going away forever will make her happy again. So I'm leaving her to her pumped-and-dumped lifestyle and leaving her bastard child fatherless. I'd be better off with no woman at all than wasting another second thinking about her. I learned from my mistakes and the next relationship will be done with planning for my happiness.

 

[bigneil]

You know her orgasm is real if she becomes your slave for the next 30 days or so.

 

[Down Low]

Dunno. They're a whole lot nicer for the rest of the night. But I find that the day after an orgasm, both women and men want to be left alone more and have lower tolerance for irritation. It's like "I got what I wanted beat it."

Myself, I have to make a conscious effort to be nice the next day.

Of course women aren't self-aware and can't be expected to notice changes in their own moods -- much less give a damn.

 

[Packers2010]

sometimes it's OBVS she didn't ***. the last girl i was with was like " ok sex is over now" and that was that. i didn't really care cos i still came. though the times she did ***. he whole body convulsed on my **** and she nearly passed out on me.

 

[5string]

I honestly don't care if she orgasms, but for some reason they like to announce it anyways when they do (assuming they aren't lying, but I honestly don't give a fvk).

Having said that, I can only be certain about one particular time, because as I fingered her, she squirted all over my finger and hand. It was like somebody put on a faucet all of a sudden and I felt the force of it hit my finger. I remember it so vividly that I even recall that the "gush" came from two sides hitting against my finger, so I assume it came from two distinct sources. They don't teach you THAT in health class.

This is true. The only way to know for sure is if she squirts.

On CSI, this is called "physical evidence."

 

[don't]

If you guys would wise up and use a vibrator, and maybe a little coke, you'd KNOW what her cums sound, feel and sound like. If she doesn't care if YOU care about her cums, she's definitely not into a long term thing with you. If you do care enough to use a vibrator and SEE TO IT that she orgasms, she'll appreciate the hell out of you, or you should dump her immediately, cause she's a twit.