How to tell if a girl is single?

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Last night when at a club I sooo wanted to go talk to some girls but couldnt muster the balls just yet, but I am always wondering if they have a b/f, if the b/f is there and just not out danceing and I go up and talk to her I might feel like a ass.

It is a country bar so I am learning how to line dance, should be fun =)
 

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No need in your mind they should all be single. Think this to yourself if shes got a bf why is she in a club for, shes fair game. Every woman you meet is single, keep that attitude
 

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And you should care because????? She'll let you know if she isn't interested.
 

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Well here's an idea...

How about..... ASK HER?:eek: :woo:

If you are thinking "how?" then let me give you a simple answer, to a simple question...

Go up to her, introduce urself, ask her a few questions, get talking, and then ask her if she's single or wateva.

Eg:

(After talking for a min or 2)

You: So where is your bf tonight

Her: I dont have one

You: A girl like you.. doesnt have a bf? You must hang around blind people WAY too much!

Her: (flattered/blushing, blah di blah) hehe, well i duno (give some excuse)

Then u start flirting, use some kino, get her number, and if u dont have the balls to pur her at the time, then call her up in the near future and make arrangements with her.

If she says she has a bf, then make sure that she knows that its her freidnship that ur after, tell her that she seemed like a kewl girl and that she has no need to worry because you just felt like talking to her and making a freind. After that u can, if u want, get her number, otherwise say goodbye and find your next "target' or whatever you want to call it;) ... Simple enough for you?
 

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Don't ask her if she's single.

Ask her to dance/on a date/for her number. If she has a man, she'll let you know then.
 

Never try to read a woman's mind. It is a scary place. Ignore her confusing signals and mixed messages. Assume she is interested in you and act accordingly.

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Originally posted by squirrels
Don't ask her if she's single.

Ask her to dance/on a date/for her number. If she has a man, she'll let you know then.
Sometimes asking a girl if she is single is good, because u are showing her that you ARE interested in her, and not just for a chat.
 
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