well heres my two cent, this is exactly why i only post advice in these forums anymore instead of asking for it, because no one ever gives any good and usefull advice anymore. Because calling someone a douchebag for something that many people do a lot and ive even had done to me before ( having my girl break up with for another guy ) and the girl is very flirty with me and im askin for advice of when and how to make the right moves at the right time so **** doesnt go wrong and instead of getting the girl i get into a fight.