How to take rejections

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There are lots of brainiacs that have this problem - they'll talk like they are some kind of living, breathing encyclopedia- they can recite all these mathematical theorems and proofs, engineer bridges and dams but put them around a woman they like and want to approach, they shut down and can't function. They'll run out of the room if they have a chance. They put the whole rejection thing on a pedestal not realizing it doesn't mean anything. Who cares if you are rejected - every guy gets rejected. Every guy who people point to and say "that guy is good with women" 100% endured a ton of rejection in the process. A guy doesn't just wake up one day and is good with women, there is a growth process involved as with everything in life. You don't just pick up a guitar and all of a sudden you play like Eddie Van Halen --- you suck for a long time in the process.

I don't fault the guys for disliking rejection - it's understandable, no one likes to be rejected - but the avoidance and unwillingness to go for it really hurts these guys in the long run. All the excuse making that comes with why they can't do it is comical as well. So smart but not smart enough to realize it's only difficult because they are VERY INEXPERIENCED. There is really nothing more that needs to be said. Life is what you make of it. Some people choose to stay on the sidelines, let them.
FECK YES!

What the hell is that shyte? Same here. Especially when I am spitting red pill stuff. They manage to go of topic in crazy ways.

I can talk about "prime halle berry" and they'll start babbling about how prime is a Roman phrase invented by Mauro Auro from Sauro yadiya.

They also refuse to learn game and remember those facts. They'll also have this hate /love relationship with Andrew tate. Today he's shyte, tomorrow he's actually kinda smart. The next week shyte again.

Its a chicken/egg story. They believe that they aint good enough, thus they wont wver put in the work or be at places where people go to have a good time.


Meanwhile that "PRIME" gets flushed down the toilet.
 
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