How to stop being such a loser.

noodle

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heres what i think you need to do:

1) Write down all the things that you have a problem with yourself. Let it be your body, friends, dating...etc.

2) Find a solution to your problems.

3) Stick to your solutions and soon you will be a changed person.
 

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MrC ive posted on ur threads before and u pretty much ignore mebut i refuse to give up so here it is

1) look for things ppl are doing in class (besides work lol)
ex. i was reading in class (Ric Flair book; WWE)
through this u can start convo

2)for wrestling go up to ppl u think u could get along w/ and complement them on a match and just be friendly

3) pretty much look for anything to start conversation
Like I said, for class, I pretty much know everybody, not a huge grade. As for wrestling, there are some hot girls from other schools that come to the meets, but other than that, I can't think of anyone I'd really want to compliment.
Michele said:
Darn it! Shucks! I forgot to state... that YOU are the loser... and anything that you aren't answers your question on how to stop being a loser... as in what my earlier post was: change everything about yourself, and you wont be a loser.

Even if you imitate all of the "cool" kids... copying what to do and style... you will not be cool... i mean... OTHER people may be "cool" if they copy... but you will NEVER fit in... if you can't even fit in at a forum, and you stick out even with a new username... what do you think happens in real life when you walk around with poser styles? you might as well end it all for yourself, you're a waste of life.

i hope you weren't a troll, so you can see how much of a waste you life is... and even being a troll... you still have no life.



You are a ****ing waste of life... just had to get it out again. but anyways... his advice was the same thing as whatever advice you were looking for you ****ing retard... popularity is the same as having friends... quit making excuses to reject ALMOST EVERYTHING people tell you.

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i'd love to see you trying to be like everyone else... i dare you to walk up to some black kid and be like "what up nigga?"... theyll look at you like youre a white kid or something saying that to them.
Flattered you would waste 5 minutes of your life typing this.
 

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MrConfidence said:
Like I said, for class, I pretty much know everybody, not a huge grade. As for wrestling, there are some hot girls from other schools that come to the meets, but other than that, I can't think of anyone I'd really want to compliment.
Wow, you have no social skills. I don't say that to be insulting, but it's true.

You don't talk to people just for the sake of banging them or getting in with them. You talk to people for the sake of talking to people. You're a human being. We're social creatures, we communicate. Stop having an answer to everything that everyone says and just do it. I don't care if you don't agree with it, just do it. We know more than you do, so listen, please!
 

CORVETTE06

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dude ur not a loser.

ive graduated high school in 2004 and all the 'cool kids' are LOSERS now.

ive always studied hard and did my best in school, i never cared about being a 'cool kid'.

all you need is 1 or 2 good friends.

get good grades.

go to a good college

and all the chicks will be yours.

thats what i did, and it worked. now i get more girls than the 'cool kids' from highschool who now turned into losers.

its always important to be social. dont be a hermit but dont focus all ur attention on trying to be cool. be yourself, and make friends wit nice kids. yeah it sounds gay, but when u look back on highschool you will see that i am right.
 

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win friends

Hi! Try to organize an event for your schoolmates or become a volunteer in any activity you like doing. Sometimes individual fighting sports like wrestling have lot of people who don't want new friends. I was doing thaiboxing and Systema, but most of the people there were interested in spending their free time with their tasks and not to find new friends in the training. Try various sports or activities. Find what you like to talk about and then find other friends who like to talk about what you like.

MrConfidence said:
Well alright, even though I have several hobbies, I've pretty much always been a loser. Basically what I mean by loser, is not that I don't have any hobbies or anything, but it's that I don't have any friends. Let's start with my hobbies, band, jazz band, and wrestling. They take up a lot of my time, but I don't have any friends from any of the 3. With jazz band and band I just don't know what to talk to people about, it might feel awkward discussing the music. For wrestling, I just don't get along with a lot of people on the team. As far as classes go, my classes are small, and I pretty much already know I don't get along with everyone in my classes. It's not that I don't like most of the people, it's just that they don't seem like the kind of people I would like to chill with, however, there are some people I just don't like. There was this group of girls I use to sit with, and talk to at lunch, but they got sort of boring, so I had to let em' go. I figure maybe if I get a friend or two to hang out with, and become more social, that'll help me become more social with woman.
 

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BPH said:
What a d***...
right?

that guys attitude completely eclipsed the whole 6 year old thread thing in my mind.
 
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