how to stand out from the rest

njitalstalian

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i learned something huge this weekend.....ATTITUDE IS EVERYTHING!! i know you heard this a million times but if you believe (in yourself) that you'll be able to pimp the hottest chic in the place, that girls yours before u even know it!!! i was out with some friends this weekend and put to the test some of Mr. Fingers posts and let me tell ya something....IT WORKED LIKE A CHARM!!!

i had my way with a couple of chics this past weekend that i normally would of just passed by and said to myself, "yeah in my dreams.." all because i hit up that bar with the perfect attitude: I'm the prize and you girls gotta work to WIN me over!!

girls can smell, see, and feel out a AFC from mile away... u might not know it, but it shows on your face before you even spoke a single word....

but once you start to believe that you know deep down that u got what it takes to be successful with women, THAT SHOWS ON YOUR FACE TO WITH OUT U KNOWING, and women can see that as well....

this girl said to me on sat... "I'm not used to a guy NOT giving in to me so easy..."(challenge) she saw the attitude i was stepping up to the plate with and she was actually turned on by it... lets just say we went back to my car after a little while and had some fun....

If you wanna be successful with HB's, u gotta believe in yourself 1st....work on that ATTITUDE of yours and you'll be on your way!!!

i have to give a lot of credit to MR. FINGERS for inspiring me to change my ATTITUDE and the way i look at life now.... THE WORLD IS YOURS IF U WANT IT TO BE SO GET OUT THERE AND TAKE IT!!!! im out!!!
 

Gangster Of Love

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Yes, good stuff. Mr. Dedos will be the new legend around this board, and I want to be able to say I jumped on the wagon before he became mainstream. Better than bumping Pook's posts (a legend in his own right).
 

njitalstalian

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i was reading some more posts and i cant believe some of the things im reading.....

Some guys are setting themselves up for disaster!!!

confidence needs to be built. nobody is born with it! its created! and how do u think that happens? by actually gettin off your ass and makin something happen! for the past 23 yrs i was a AFC to the fullest... i had my ups and downs but always relapsed back to the AFC mentality!!!!

i said goodbye to that ishhh!!! i started saying to myself i know i so many awesome qualities to offer, and for me to just hand them over to some chic with no sort of challenge whatsoever is simply a repulsive thought.....

start to believe that these girls need to work for your attention and u aint some chump that they can piss all over and see what kind of results u get... u need start lookin in that mirror every day sayin to yourself, "damn, what girl wouldnt want to get with this???"


remember: ATTITUDE IS EVERYTHING!!! im out.......
 

njitalstalian

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i want some feedback and input from others... the more we all contribute, the more pimp we get and the more skills we learn.....so let me see some replies!!!!
 

njitalstalian

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maybe u just dont have anything positive to help others out with and your own selfishness is getting in the way.... my ego doesnt get in the way of tryin to help other dj's out!!!! play on playa!!!
 

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well...what do you want us to say...

that you have a good post?

OK...

"good post"

also...

don't bump your own posts, because that gives off the impression that you're onto nothing but an online internet forum ego stroke like that guy said.

maybe the reason why no one's replying is because we've all heard this information about a million times...so what makes you think your post is any different? :-\

sorry, maybe i'm just having a bad day...but think about it, it's true :).

~1~

oOh Nasty

OH BY THE WAY.... nice little "motivational" post you got here.
 

njitalstalian

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i feel ya nasty! i hear what ya sayin........im new to this forum stuff so im not sure how it really works technically... thats all i know its a great way to share info and improve your self concept......


peace
 
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Frank Zappa

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Originally posted by njitalstalian
i feel ya nasty! i hear what ya sayin........im new to this forum stuff so im not sure how it really works technically... thats all i know its a great way to share info and improve your self concept......


peace
great post. ~Zappa
 

stallion

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hmm, you're 23 and I'm 23 as well. Your name vaguely sounds like mine, did my posts inspire you at all or just plain coincidence? ;)
 
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