I've been getting a lot of flirts on a dating site recently. Unfortunately unless you pay for an account they only let you send 15-20 variations of a generic message so these messages I get from women don't say much.
I.E. I got a pretty cute girl sending me this the other day:
Hi, My name is *****.
Wow, you're hot!
I would love to meet you.
Tell me more about yourself
Clearly she seemed interested or at least physically attracted to me, but I'm having a tough time getting them to respond to my followup message. I've tried to keep it pretty generic by saying hello, thanks for the flirt, pointing out something we have in common between our profiles and asking her about herself (because women love talking about themselves). Well, several days later she has not responded but has logged on to the site multiple times in that period which leads me to believe she's not planning to respond. This has happened multiple times. Also, this is not one of those generic adult dating sites where they have hundreds of fake accounts sending flirts all the time. I can say with near certainty that all of these accounts are real.
Should I keep the messages simpler?
Should I ask them why they're so special to challenge them?
Should I add more detail about myself?
I.E. I got a pretty cute girl sending me this the other day:
Hi, My name is *****.
Wow, you're hot!
I would love to meet you.
Tell me more about yourself
Clearly she seemed interested or at least physically attracted to me, but I'm having a tough time getting them to respond to my followup message. I've tried to keep it pretty generic by saying hello, thanks for the flirt, pointing out something we have in common between our profiles and asking her about herself (because women love talking about themselves). Well, several days later she has not responded but has logged on to the site multiple times in that period which leads me to believe she's not planning to respond. This has happened multiple times. Also, this is not one of those generic adult dating sites where they have hundreds of fake accounts sending flirts all the time. I can say with near certainty that all of these accounts are real.
Should I keep the messages simpler?
Should I ask them why they're so special to challenge them?
Should I add more detail about myself?