how to respond to b1tches

[Zerotwoonenine]

i just left a college which had an all girls high school attached to it. untill then i been to mix schools, but when i got in i encountered a problem, and i need to know how to deal with it. often girls will let bichy comments fly around and talk to me rudely(e.g a girl next 2 me was browsing dresses for prom and i made a comment on one, she shouted at me"get back to your work"), i just don't know how to respond to them. if its guys i'll b like f-off or start being aggressive. but are there any other ways to respond? especially to girls? also what happen if you are in class, you can't just tell them to f-off, so what then? also if you ignore them, you get rated as a wimp. lose-lose situation, what do i do?

 

[WC2]

Stop being such a wuss.

People will get away with whatever they know they can until proven otherwise. Obviously these girls think you're a pushover so they have no hesitation calling you one.

Gather your balls up and speak up next time someone (yes especially a woman) says something to you. It's obvious these girls are borderline trash and need a reality check, but it doesn't mean you shouldn't stand up for yourself.

Trust me, you'd much rather be labeled a jerk than a chump who has no respect.

And you don't even have to be a jerk. There's ways to tell people to f-off politely.

 

[slickaz]

oh thats real brilliant brian!
tell the kid, no dont talk to random people unless you're spoken to.
MAN! do you actually read the rest of this site?
we're talking about stuff like approaching random girls and starting a conversation with women we dont know...and now you're telling him to not to voice his opinion...we're all humans dude we live on the same planet with as much right to the same air and have the right to speak..

ZERO:
yo stand up to girls like this man..i cant give you different come backs but dont worry about voicing your opinion to shut them down.
coz ill tell you what, you shoot one b!tch down, the rest of them will not voice there issues at you in fear of being laughed at by the class..
even smtn like your situation:
You: Hey thats a nice dress.
She: GET BACK TO YOUR WORK
You: Woaah! dont get yo panties in a bunch girl...what like you got tampons in the wrong whole this month?
She: SHUT UP A55HOL3!!
You: Oh, you're hot when you're a b!tch..gimme more baby!
She: either **shuts up** , Cries, Walks away or tells the teacher about you.
You: So WHAT! you're a bada55 man..you dont take sh!t from nobody..

but dont raise your voice though..act like you're playing a joke on her, have a cheeky smile when you're doin it, that way everyone knows you're doing it for fun coz ur too effin cool..

you never know, some girls take a man that can stand up to drama from another b!tch as a very s3xy attribute..

OR:
you could even just say:
WELL! thats it, im dumpin you, im not takin you to the prom nomore if you keep running your mouth like that..n then put your fingers in your ears n say i cant hear you!..lol..itll piss her off..

either way dude..
dont take sh!t from nobody..especially girls that think they are Gods gift to man...

 

[bud_2005]

What might be good if shes a hot, tanned *****:

Start saying something and then soon cut yourself off and say: "Holy **** did you fall asleep in a tanning bed"?

 

[Upside]

If you are on the job while you made that comment and she told you to get back to work, just brush it off and don't say anything. If you talk back she might just report you to a supervisor or whatever. Although, if you say it while just browsing for clothes yourself all bets are off. Don't let one stupid comment make you lose your job.

 

[Jeffst1980]

When a girl acts rude to me, I like to talk to them as if they're 2 years old. You wouldn't get all in a huff if a two year old said those things to you--you'd probably chuckle at it. The best way to handle *****y girls is to not even register a reaction. Just say "Shh...it's ok...we all have bad days sometimes..." and immediately stack forward with something else. That youtube video of Mystery doing this is actually a really good example.

Calling a girl out and putting her down isn't going to make you alpha; it's just gonna to make you look insecure. Likewise, apologizing or walking away with your tail between your legs is just as bad. If you act as though the comment didn't even REGISTER to you as a genuine insult, they will be curious about your unshakable confidence, even if they're not attracted to you.

 

[Nutz]

double post

 

[Nutz]

When a girl acts rude to me, I like to talk to them as if they're 2 years old. You wouldn't get all in a huff if a two year old said those things to you--you'd probably chuckle at it. The best way to handle *****y girls is to not even register a reaction. Just say "Shh...it's ok...we all have bad days sometimes..." and immediately stack forward with something else. That youtube video of Mystery doing this is actually a really good example.

Calling a girl out and putting her down isn't going to make you alpha; it's just gonna to make you look insecure. Likewise, apologizing or walking away with your tail between your legs is just as bad. If you act as though the comment didn't even REGISTER to you as a genuine insult, they will be curious about your unshakable confidence, even if they're not attracted to you.

^^^ What he said. Just treat her like you would a 5 year old that didn't use their manners and you're correcting them:

What's the magic word?
Use your indoor voice.
Remember what mommy taught you, if you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all.


Stuff along those lines. You're basically talking down to the ***** like she's a child, because that's exactly how she deserves to be treated.