how to respond (is this a sh*t test or just random)

[cloneofstenyhoyer]

This girl in my class called me an jacka** when I busted on her for playing solitaire during class. she said "it was freecell jacka**. I just did a sarcastic laugh like "ha".

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

Why you gotta look everything like a sh1t test ?

It wasnt . You busted her , she busted you .

Sh1t test is when someone pushes you to see how far he/she can go .

 

[cloneofstenyhoyer]

you're right - I gotta get out of this 'mental chess game' mode - where I see my interactions with women as some battle to be won and always have the upper hand in.

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

you're right - I gotta get out of this 'mental chess game' mode - where I see my interactions with women as some battle to be won and always have the upper hand in.

Good that you noticed you have to change . Whats screwing you and most of the guys here up is micro analization of every situation . Just let it flaw .
Dont look anything . Just let the conversation flaw . Be positive but not a wuss and thats all you need .

 

[Lust]

you're right - I gotta get out of this 'mental chess game' mode - where I see my interactions with women as some battle to be won and always have the upper hand in.

Remember, she loves sex too.

You're both on the same team, not against each other.