How to reply to this text?

escaleraroyal

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Me: It was nice meeting you today. John
After 7 hours....
She: I'm at home. I'm a little drunk. I wanna sleep soon >< sorry...


I hate when girls reply you with answers that do not make sense. How could I reply to her text?
 

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"I'm gonna be out next weekend. Text me if you wanna grab a drink."

Problem solved.
 

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Huh????? Why bother replying at all? What a low class response from her. You said, "nice meeting you." She replies, "i am little drunk...blah blah need sleep."
Sounds like a waste to me. Exhibit accepting better for yourself. I would not bother following up on this one. She may send you something better, but until she does, NEXT!
 

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She sounds like a retard haha

well she's a girl I suppose

send: "not relevant"
 

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evansblue said:
"I'm gonna be out next weekend. Text me if you wanna grab a drink."

Problem solved.

Dude did you read what you wrote before you decided to reply to this thread?

This woman is showing low interest and your suggestion is to ask her out informally and expect her to contact him?

Don't count on it.





PIMP
 

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Not all texts need to be replied to. This is one of them. Low interest responses don't deserve replies at all. Lay low for a week or so and try to open her up again
 

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"I'm kinda drunk too. let's fvck."
 

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I'm kind of drunk, need to sleep, sorry = Sorry, I have ZERO desire to text with you, period, ever. Thanks for playing! Next.
 

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You do not reply to the text at all. She got a few drinks in her and now she wants some attention so she texted you. Put yourself above that and show value in yourself. Go ahead and delete her number and forget about her.
 

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The chances of getting anything out of her are very low and will become even less if you reply in a way that reward her low class.

You can wait a week as suggested and try again, its up to you to decide if an other trying is worth the money of a text message.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Everyone is so damn pessimistic on this forum.

Maybe she doesn't want to talk to you or maybe she is being honest.

Who knows? So keep texting her and find out. Don't listen to the others and just give up so easily, at least give it another try or two.

If I was you, I would just dismiss the text and try talking to her the next day.
 

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Pimp-sicle said:
Dude did you read what you wrote before you decided to reply to this thread?

This woman is showing low interest and your suggestion is to ask her out informally and expect her to contact him?

Don't count on it.





PIMP
So what is he supposed to do? Tell the b!tch to fvck off? I mean, what are you stupid?
 

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Originally Posted by Pimp-sicle
Dude did you read what you wrote before you decided to reply to this thread?

This woman is showing low interest and your suggestion is to ask her out informally and expect her to contact him?

Don't count on it.





PIMP

evansblue said:
So what is he supposed to do? Tell the b!tch to fvck off? I mean, what are you stupid?
I think Pimp understands quite well what the score is!!! He is calling it exactly what it is!!! He has been a member here much longer than you. At least he can see this woman does NOT have high interest. If the op had it together, he would have NOT asked. No?


matthew98 said:
Everyone is so damn pessimistic on this forum.

Maybe she doesn't want to talk to you or maybe she is being honest.

Who knows? So keep texting her and find out. Don't listen to the others and just give up so easily, at least give it another try or two.

If I was you, I would just dismiss the text and try talking to her the next day.
You have it all wrong New Jack... We learn from experience and this poster asked for advice.. He got it. The advice given from experience!! As most of us seasoned posters pointed out...LOW INTEREST!!! Ray Charles could have seen this before dying and he was blind as a bat!

Why in the world would you waste your time with such a type of woman? He made a nice comment to her and she responded with some off the wall garbage. The older you get, the less inclined you will be to put up with nonsense. You will also be able discern from what interest she has. Pessimistic? Nope! Realist? Absolutely!
 

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SoldMySoul said:
I think Pimp understands quite well what the score is!!! He is calling it exactly what it is!!! He has been a member here much longer than you. At least he can see this woman does NOT have high interest. If the op had it together, he would have NOT asked. No?
I don't give a sh*t how long someone's been a member here. That's a completely illogical argument and has nothing to do with anything. So maybe the girl has low interest? Who cares? You act like he's footing a $150 tab. It was a text message. The chick was drunk, big deal. So she didn't reply in the exact manner you thought she should have. Man, there's a lot of little babies on this forum with feelings more sensitive than a girl.
 

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SoldMySoul said:
You have it all wrong New Jack... We learn from experience and this poster asked for advice.. He got it. The advice given from experience!! As most of us seasoned posters pointed out...LOW INTEREST!!! Ray Charles could have seen this before dying and he was blind as a bat!

Why in the world would you waste your time with such a type of woman? He made a nice comment to her and she responded with some off the wall garbage. The older you get, the less inclined you will be to put up with nonsense. You will also be able discern from what interest she has. Pessimistic? Nope! Realist? Absolutely!
I guess we'll have to agree to disagree.

I've been browsing this forum for almost over 2 years under different aliases and never really was an active poster. So I've been here long enough to know the low interest advice is the answer to practically every thread. Now, usually it is the truth, but sometimes the girl can just be in a bad mood, have had a bad day or something is going on in her life, and it is totally unrelated to the guy. We're all human, and all different so there isn't just one answer all the time.

In this case, it is most likely a case of low interest, yet there still is the possibility that the girl was actually going to bed. It's the first time he texts her anyways, so what does he have to lose to try and text her again? There's a time to throw the towel and just give up, but it shouldn't be done so quickly. Maybe she'll be more responsive tomorrow and things can change.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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evansblue said:
I don't give a sh*t how long someone's been a member here. That's a completely illogical argument and has nothing to do with anything.
Pardon me Richard Skull!!! It has to do with respecting members of our forum, something that you seem to not grasp! Now slap yourself in the face for being such a nuisance! The point I am making is Pimp... has been an established member here for a long time and you write, "are you stupid?" I can say YOU ARE BEING DISRESPECTFUL to a trusted member. Instead of being a wise a$$, do not bash members who got the real score down pat!
 

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matthew98 said:
Everyone is so damn pessimistic on this forum.

Maybe she doesn't want to talk to you or maybe she is being honest.

Who knows? So keep texting her and find out. Don't listen to the others and just give up so easily, at least give it another try or two.

If I was you, I would just dismiss the text and try talking to her the next day.

:kick:
 

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Just had a read of everyone's posts so far. Imagine if the girl in question found this page and discovered the arguments her simple text had caused, haha.

Escaleroyale, I'm interested to see who's advice you take and how this pans out. Keep us update dude.
 

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matthew98 said:
Everyone is so damn pessimistic on this forum.
True. A successful seducer does not get upset by her saying no. (Louis/Copeland). Just because a woman does not reply does not mean she has low interest. Women reply when they feel like it. 9 times out of 10 if you just wait it out they come back with a logical explanation.

As r0cky said, simply pretend it didn't happen and text again in a few days.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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