How to Recover from Drunk phone Calls?

godjwood

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So i called this chick that things ended up working out for i got a lot of good advice from u guys thanx and it worked out...and i dunno so i called her drunk at 4am b/c i'm slick like that....not.... we talked for like a min. or 2 then she said something trivial like i'm going for a walk and i was like that's dumb it's 4am ur gonna get hit by a car, then just hungup the phone ...so ehhh.. how to recover from drunk phone calls in general and specifically on this one? I didn't really get her reaction btw b/c i just hungup.
 

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I would claim to not remember it but say "I think I called you..and I think I was being an ass."

She'll either blow the call off or confirm that.

If che confirms it say:

"Strange things happen when people get drunk. They call people at and say things they probably shouldn't say." Then leave it at that.

Move on as if it never happened. She'll remember it though..DON'T DO IT AGAIN.
 

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Damn this is hilarious.

godjwood, don't ever fvcking do that again. Let this be a lesson to you. It's one of the most self-defeating moves you can make if you're really interested in a chick.

I made a drunken phone call back in May and I turned a budding LTR with an HB into a pathetic LJBF exercise in futility :mad:

Next time you talk to her just tell what happened, don't apologize, just tell her you feel dumb for doing that and just act like whatever, what's next on the agenda. I'm not on of those people who feels you should not mention it and try to play it off like it never happened. Show her you got the balls to take responsibility for what you did but don't get all sappy sorry on her.
 

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Say You dont remember that You were on party and maybe phone called itsself. Or that it was loud and You douldnt hear. or that You were really drunk and cant remember but wanted to hear her. All this stuff works. Depends on the situation.
 

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My best friend of almost 6 years (male) calls me when he's all messed up all the time. He's said some pretty bizarre things, said some incredibly sappy things too. The bottom line is this...if the girl genuinely likes you no amount of drunk dialing is going to change that. If she isn't all that into you, then drunk dialing will just speed up her losing interest in you...which is going to happen if she doesn't much like you anyhow.

A girl who is really into you won't be chased off by your mistakes. Only girls who don't really like you are easily chased off.
 

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Originally posted by Wyldfire


A girl who is really into you won't be chased off by your mistakes. Only girls who don't really like you are easily chased off.
WOW, good advice from wyldfire
WTF? :confused: :eek:
 

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Been there, done that.

Don't make drunk phone calls, just don't ever bring it up again.

If it's brought up, just say you were drunk, being stupid and it was a mistake phoning her.
 

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That be funny if she told YOu to go for a walk (since you said you weren't too sure of what she said) and you replied with that. Just play it off like you don't remember saying that.
 

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Oh good God.

I almost pissed my pants laughing, bro.

Ah, the old drunk dialing thing. Funny as hell in retrospect.

Don't worry about it.

Seriously, what is it about alcohol that makes things seem like such a good idea at the time?
 

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Originally posted by godjwood
So i called this chick that things ended up working out for i got a lot of good advice from u guys thanx and it worked out...and i dunno so i called her drunk at 4am b/c i'm slick like that....not.... we talked for like a min. or 2 then she said something trivial like i'm going for a walk and i was like that's dumb it's 4am ur gonna get hit by a car, then just hungup the phone ...so ehhh.. how to recover from drunk phone calls in general and specifically on this one? I didn't really get her reaction btw b/c i just hungup.
The probability of getting hit by a car at 4am isn't greater then any other time of the day.
 
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