happyman2012
Don Juan
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Me and my girlfriend have been going out for about a year and a half.
Long story short we have spent alot of time together (probably an issue), and she is the type of girl who always wants to see me. Always! Gives off big signs of still being interested plenty of sex, sex drive, ringing me straight after work texting me, everything.
HOWEVER
Both me and her have kinda realised and said that the "spark" has gone out of the relationship a little and I told her that my attraction for her has gone down because she dosent make an effort with herself as much anymore. Also told her that she intrudes on my personal space and dosent respect my boundaries when it comes to having time to myself. Said we should have a few days apart to take care of our own business.
I did no contact for a few days to see how she reacted after our convo and she must of called me 30 times and text and still wants to go on a trip we planned (not on holiday or anything) and says she is going to make more of an effort with her apperance, respect my boundaries and just wants to sort it e.t.c.
She still claims to be attracted to me and the signs show she is - she says that she wants to spend quality time together and do stuff, as opposed to our current relationship lul and not doing much.
Am I right in thinking that this is a common part of LTR and is fixable if both of us shape up and break out of it?
And if so, how? By limiting contact and not seeing as much of each other and by doing more fun things?
Long story short we have spent alot of time together (probably an issue), and she is the type of girl who always wants to see me. Always! Gives off big signs of still being interested plenty of sex, sex drive, ringing me straight after work texting me, everything.
HOWEVER
Both me and her have kinda realised and said that the "spark" has gone out of the relationship a little and I told her that my attraction for her has gone down because she dosent make an effort with herself as much anymore. Also told her that she intrudes on my personal space and dosent respect my boundaries when it comes to having time to myself. Said we should have a few days apart to take care of our own business.
I did no contact for a few days to see how she reacted after our convo and she must of called me 30 times and text and still wants to go on a trip we planned (not on holiday or anything) and says she is going to make more of an effort with her apperance, respect my boundaries and just wants to sort it e.t.c.
She still claims to be attracted to me and the signs show she is - she says that she wants to spend quality time together and do stuff, as opposed to our current relationship lul and not doing much.
Am I right in thinking that this is a common part of LTR and is fixable if both of us shape up and break out of it?
And if so, how? By limiting contact and not seeing as much of each other and by doing more fun things?