How to Politely Decline?

dannycc

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We all encounter situations where we want or have to decline a social invitation or a girl who is not quite who we want.

The more I go out, the more social I am, the more this becomes a real issue.

Saturday night, there was a gal who, while not horrible looking, was just not my type. She approached me many times and invited me to a specific club. At first, she simply said she was going there. Then, she came back and told me she was going, and waited for me. Then, she came back and told me she was going, waited, invited me, and kept asking even though I said I said I was staying at this first spot.

The next day, I ran into a woman who has repeatedly invited me out and wants to meet up. She is engaged, so I really don't feel like it. She made a bit of a scene, even though I told her politely several times my schedule doesn't allow it.

How do you handle women who keep begging you to come with them?
 

Masculinity

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I think you handled it pretty well. There will always be a person or two who are persistent and will not take not for an answer. Sometimes, you have to be ambiguous as to why you're rejecting them so that bridges aren't burned.
 

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Pook has a specific section on this, called "W0manese."
 

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Well, I wish I had that many opportunities. I did have 7 or 8 women approach me on saturday so I have plenty of opportunities.
 

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Tell them no.
 
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