Regardless of what people think - it is the truth, the less you need a woman the more women chase after you.
That's all you need... Learnt that little gem from my French grandmother, and boy does it work... BIG time !
All those attention seeking women cannot understand why you are not interested in them - what is wrong with this man, I am looking my best and he doesn't even batter an eyelid. The more you ignore them, the more they want to find why you are not validating them. Works every time.
They approach you - they open, they might ask if you are gay, but the are very interested in a man that is not needy at all.
Give it at try - it goes against anything you have been taught, but honestly how well are you doing with those daft chat up lines and approach techniques?
Let the women come to you...if they do, you know they are interested in you.