How to not be caught when you're a player

[skip2mylou781]

guys, i met an awesome girl yesterday and we hit it off nicely and shyt....ill spare the details

BUT she seems to be smart, cuz she thinks i COULD be a player given the way i act (which i am, so i mean shes onto me), and i feel like the #1 way id get caught with this is if she ever checks my phone and sees texts/messages/calls from other girls

simple question - how should i tell her that i cant ever let her see my phone

ps she seems like the type that would spy if she suspects soemthin aka if we r at my house, she'll want me to log into AIM and show her my buddylist or somethin, and if i dotn shed get mad


i wanna kno wat u guys think is the best way i can hide everythin from such a girl without pissin her off....cuz i dont wanna lose that pvssy b4 i get to fvck it (shes holdin out and waitin to have a bf to have sex, and i sooo wanna hit that)

 

[The Juan and only]

Skip, why don't you ever listen to what we're telling you?

Living your life on an internet forum is no way to go.

Also, and I probably don't need to say this, but what you just wrote absolutely reeks of bullsh1t (mainly due to its many logical inconsistencies).

simple question - how should I tell her that I cant ever let her see my phone

:crackup:

"Hunny, before we do anything I have to tell you something..."
"oh..err..ok.."
"you can't EVER see my phone. That is all."

I hate to flame but really man, grow up. For your own sake as much as ours.

 

[skip2mylou781]

wtf?? im askin for advice on how to not get caught as a player.....wtf u callin it bullshyt for? if u dont like it then **** OFF

this forum kinda exists 2 post questions and give advice dumbass

 

[The Juan and only]

whoa, calm down playa.

And yes you are, but as well as asking the question, you also chose to make up a bullsh!t story - which I suspect was the entire purpose of the thread in the first place.

Ok, if I hadn't read some of your other stuff I wouldn't have commented here, but the fact of the matter is that you seem to want nothing more than to create an online ego for yourself - all while filling other peoples' minds with a load of nonsensical drivel.

It's like that guy said, what are you getting out of this?? people come here for support and to improve themselves; they don't need a bunch of trolls starting useless thread after useless thread.

nothing against you personally, but you should listen to what us guys have to say.

 

[skip2mylou781]

dude ur a JACKASS to assume im making things up, **** the **** off

flamer with nothing better to do

STOP TALKING ABOUT ME........and ****in help me if u got any advice to offer, and if u dont have advice to offer, then STOP TALKING ABOUT ME

IM A RANDOM GUY ON SOSUAVE, STOP TALKING ABOUT ME LIKE U KNOW ME THE LEAST BIT

EITHER SHUT THE **** UP OR HELP IN MY SITUATION

 

[skip2mylou781]

im havin a real situation here, cuz the girl suspects im a player and i know she'll b tryin to check my AIM sn and cell phone, but i need to somehow subtly hide it so she never finds out - u either have advice on how i should go about doing that or u SHUT THE **** UP AND DONT SAY ANYTHING

 

[Fash]

Skip,

I kinda agree with The Juan. I mean your post is very generic. "how do I avoid getting caught".... ummm the answer to that is DONT GET CAUGHT!

This includes a bunch of things, but generally, dont be stupid enough to get caught. i.e:

1. Don't keep incriminating texts in your phone
2. store chick names as guy names if you have to
3. keep your phone on silent when you are with her
4. put a passkey on it and switch it off when you go to sleep next to her. Trust me, some chicks wake up in the middle of the night and check your phone.
5. Don't be stupid enough to get caught. i.e. don't tell you cant see her because you are doing x, and then the next day talk about how doing y was so enjoyable.

Next time try to be more specific and maybe you can have more of the guys on here helping you out.

Also, the best way to deal with the whole "you cant check my phone thing" is to say...

Look, I think some things are personal and they should stay personal. I respect and trust you and don't feel the need to go down your phone and I expect nothing less of you...

but only use the above if she is pressuring you to let her see your phone. but then again, why would you want to be with a chick who is so insecure anyway???

 

[L777]

Skip, every "question" you ask is along the lines of: "I'm a player, I've f.ucked loads of chicks, I met this HB10 yesterday and...(insert unneccessary and ridiculously obvious question here)".

i.e boasting. The biggest player I know has fvcked more chicks than you claim to, and he never tells anyone unless they ask him, which I don't btw, I just know.

My point is this. Stop using these forums to boast about the number of chicks you've been with (which I seriously doubt is true anyway), and yes that includes 'advice' or 'questions'...because quite frankly, and I think I speak for the majority of people on this forum when I say this, NO ONE GIVES A F.UCK.

Mods, plz delete this pointless thread. Thanks

 

[CompleteShift]

Someone has anger issues methinks.

 

[skip2mylou781]

Skip,

I kinda agree with The Juan. I mean your post is very generic. "how do I avoid getting caught".... ummm the answer to that is DONT GET CAUGHT!

This includes a bunch of things, but generally, dont be stupid enough to get caught. i.e:

1. Don't keep incriminating texts in your phone
2. store chick names as guy names if you have to
3. keep your phone on silent when you are with her
4. put a passkey on it and switch it off when you go to sleep next to her. Trust me, some chicks wake up in the middle of the night and check your phone.
5. Don't be stupid enough to get caught. i.e. don't tell you cant see her because you are doing x, and then the next day talk about how doing y was so enjoyable.

Next time try to be more specific and maybe you can have more of the guys on here helping you out.

Also, the best way to deal with the whole "you cant check my phone thing" is to say...

Look, I think some things are personal and they should stay personal. I respect and trust you and don't feel the need to go down your phone and I expect nothing less of you...

but only use the above if she is pressuring you to let her see your phone. but then again, why would you want to be with a chick who is so insecure anyway???

hey i was specific enough cuz those 1 - 5 u just gave me sounds liek damn good advice, u deff knew what i was talkinga bout.......i dont think i have a password on my phone to lock people out, but what u said about keepin phone silent, ill just keep it OFF.....i never been caught as a player b4, but no chick has ever tried....no girl has seriously EVER went thru my phone or AIM buddylist, but this 1 has NO TRUST for guys, shes been hurt too much according to her, but Fash u kno just like i do that good ***** is good ***** no matter how psycho she is

oh btw shes 1 of those "older" girls as she is 22, actually older than me, and from wat i can see, older = emotional baggage

yo good advice tho.......she has no right to get pissed at me if i simply say "sorry its personal, i like my privacy", even tho she'll suspect im a player even further

NEWSFLASH - it just hit me....**** dealing with psycho chicks, i think the ***** isnt even worth it in this case

 

[skip2mylou781]

Someone has anger issues methinks.

lol i actually do,

false accusations = pet peeve

 

[skip2mylou781]

L777 - i only reiterate my successse to backup that my advice is due to experiences and not theories.......me and my friends always brag to each other about chicks, its even a guy thing to do really, its FUN to brag and talk about ur successes (just as its also fun to talk about ur failures)

stop flaming me, and y dont u brag a lil bout UR best/craziest experiences, lets c wat kinda player you are l777

 

[lafual]

when people saying that ur STORY is full of bull**** and that stuff.. you get kind of angery..


so "The Juan and only" eh, why do you call yourself Juan and the only?.. ahhaa BULL****, I know the game better than you, and many other people knows more than you.. you could be a fat nerd sitting infront of the computer.. eh 500posts? haheaheh NERD

 

[L777]

stop flaming me, and y dont u brag a lil bout UR best/craziest experiences, lets c wat kinda player you are l777

OK, just last night, I had 4some with 3 HB10s. One black, one white and one spanish. As soon as I finished I made them all take the bus home.

Can you prove I'm lying? No. Therefore by your reckonings, I'm a master player. lol

 

[lafual]

ehm ok so every stories are all lies in this forun?..eh.. well then this site it full of lies..so pook and mr.fingers = liers? cuz they tell also stories

 

[PRMoon]

Skip, don't beat yourself up about this one. A ton of girls I've met have told me their player radar went off right when they saw me and most of the time I don't hide that fact from them because I conduct myself as one. I can't help it it's just who I am. Often if a girl gets beyond that fact and says she wants to date me or whatever I'll let them know right of the bat;

"Dating does not equal marriage. From time to time I'll be hanging out with other girls but that doesn't mean I'm doing so with bad intentions in mind"

I told the girl I'm seeing right now something to that effect and she's fine with it. Now I'm not saying being honest will get you where you want to be every time, because there are girls out there who are very insecure about themselves and can't fathom you having a life with the opposite gender excluding themselves. Fortunately there are plenty of girls out there so dropping one or two to this isn't the worst thing in the world. If she's really that curious about your phone or you AIM then just tell her you have lots of friends who are girls. Though I do admit, I go through my cellphone monthly and get rid of at least 4 or 5 names just so nosey girls only find 50 or so total names.

 

[SamePendo]

Am I the only one that HOPES to get "caught"? The bytch has competition.

 

[rrrrr]

All I know is skip gave me some damn good advise, and he was right.

 

[wayword]

oh btw shes 1 of those "older" girls as she is 22, actually older than me, and from wat i can see, older = emotional baggage

Ha, what'd I tell ya about girls >20? It's a different ballgame son, a lil bit older and a fair bit wiser. They won't be quite the easy slvtbags you're used to.

Anyways, knowing she has some competition will keep some girls on their toes. Seeing too much might turn some off cuz they don't wanna just get played, though. So, you need to calibrate where she's at before you decide on your course of action.

But if she just grabs for it, I'd say, "What, use your own phone!"
"I just wanna see it."
*Hold it up and handmodel it for her.*

 

[skip2mylou781]

the 1 and only thing different here is this one told me shed only have sex with whoever her next bf is, and doesnt wanna too it casually (emotional baggage), so it is up to me bein the playa that i am to make her THINK shes my gf....and with that, i cant exactly make her think there r other girls, cuz she been cheated on b4 and she wouldnt put up with bull****, shes a classic italian chick lol


good advice tho PRmoon, just i cant think of a way to hide shyt if she basically forces me to hand over my cell (i want her to trust me, even tho she shouldnt lol)