mr interesting
Don Juan
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OK so Ive been involved with this girl from my work for about 7 or 8 months now. (its weird we kiss and say we love each other but she doesnt wanna be "official") At first she really liked me, we hung out/texted all the time, had sex a few times, but now shes acting really cold and distant. At work she'll act friendly and what not, but i can see she doesn't really wanna kiss/hug me at times when before it was so natural. It just feels like i have to try really hard to talk or hang out with her, which she usually gives me some lame excuse as to why she can't. She used to tell me she loved me all the time, now when i say it she answers kinda reluctantly it seems.. She has also recently (in the past month or so) been giving me a type of "i dont give a f***" attitude which i dont like at all.
So i realized (after lurking the DJ forum for a while) that i dont need to put up with this. Like Pook said, Im a man. I want your guys' opinion on how to next this girl. I mean, alot of guys try to hit on her, and Im at work to witness all this :/ and i know i can get a little jelsous b/c we've been through so much.. But I know that im not happy talking to her anymore, and its best to move on.
So how should i do it? Should i officially tell her that we should just be friends? Or should i just act normal but pay her alot less attention? I dont wanna NC because we work together and come in contact alot.. What do you guys think??
So i realized (after lurking the DJ forum for a while) that i dont need to put up with this. Like Pook said, Im a man. I want your guys' opinion on how to next this girl. I mean, alot of guys try to hit on her, and Im at work to witness all this :/ and i know i can get a little jelsous b/c we've been through so much.. But I know that im not happy talking to her anymore, and its best to move on.
So how should i do it? Should i officially tell her that we should just be friends? Or should i just act normal but pay her alot less attention? I dont wanna NC because we work together and come in contact alot.. What do you guys think??