How to meet girls at a community college

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At my college, there are few social groups and no dorms or campus activites. There are however many hot girls. For those of you who have gone or are at community colleges, what do you do to meet girls?

There are several girls in some of my classes I would love to ****, but they sit on the other side of the room and I have never got a chance to talk to them. Plus it might be weird if one day I ran up and started talking to them out of the blue.

I did well with girls in high school when everyone knew eachother, but at community college it's hard because no one knows anyone else. And I dont know any girls here.
 

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Have you tried searching for cold approaches? At least with this situation you've definitely got an opener...
 

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damn..you go to a community college?

just wear your McDonalds uniform to class...especially if you are a manager the chicks will be all over your.

don't mix in kino if you got fryer grease on your hands.
 

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Casino, how mean:p

see a ho, speak to a ho.
 

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Originally posted by Casino
damn..you go to a community college?

just wear your McDonalds uniform to class...especially if you are a manager the chicks will be all over your.

don't mix in kino if you got fryer grease on your hands.

Whats wrong with community colleges douche bag?



BigLebowski1, go to the lunchroom when you have some free time. The other day I approached a girl sitting by herself and asked if I could join her. I talked with her for about 15 minutes and then got the number. I have found this to be the best place to meet girls on campus. It's hard to approach females when they're on their way to class.
 

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Originally posted by TyTe`EyEs
Whats wrong with community colleges douche bag?



BigLebowski1, go to the lunchroom when you have some free time. The other day I approached a girl sitting by herself and asked if I could join her. I talked with her for about 15 minutes and then got the number. I have found this to be the best place to meet girls on campus. It's hard to approach females when they're on their way to class.
You go to community college.

Answer the question yourself.
 

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You should just go in man. You've got nothing to loose, especially at a community college. I mean it's not like you have a reputation to worry about since It's a commuter college where on on stays on campus, so who do you have to save face to?

I'd say just do it, Even if the girls sit on the other side of the class room, you could attempt to sit closer to them or even behind them. Unless there's like a seating chart for you classes, If that's the case that won't work, but still there must be several ample opportuniities for you to get in contact with these girls.
 

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Originally posted by Casino
damn..you go to a community college?

just wear your McDonalds uniform to class...especially if you are a manager the chicks will be all over your.

don't mix in kino if you got fryer grease on your hands.
Not to derail the thread, but ignorant comments really are aggravating.

You might know some of the people in this list - all of them attended community colleges:

Tom Hanks, Oscar winning actor
Chabot College, CA

Calvin Klein, fashion designer
Fashion Institute of Technology, NY

H. Ross Perot, corporate executive, 1992 Presidential Candidate
Texarkana Junior College, TX

Eileen Collins, NASA astronaut, first woman Space Shuttle Commander
Corning Community College, NY

Walt Disney, film producer
Metropolitan Junior College, MO

Clint Eastwood, actor and Oscar Award winning director
Los Angeles City College, CA

Gwendolyn Brooks, Pulitzer Prize-winning author and poet
City Colleges of Chicago, IL

Keith Gordon, NASA
Spartanburg Methodist College, SC

Billy Crystal, actor and comedian
Nassau Community College, NY

Benjamin Cayetano, Governor of Hawaii
Los Angeles Harbor College, CA

Parris Glendening, Governor of Maryland
Broward Community College

Elise Lacy, Senator from Colorado
Lamar Community College

Kweisi Mfume, President of the NAACP
Baltimore City Community College

Jack O'Connell, Senator from California
Ventura College


On and on and on...
http://www.aacc.nche.edu/Content/Na...Colleges/OutstandingAlumni/Notable_Alumni.htm




You were saying? :rolleyes:
 

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Another idea is like after an exam is over, and you are walking out of class....if there is anyone who is leaving the same time just ask "how did you do on the exam?" I did this the other week w/ 2 girls that were walking out....and it was a great conversation opener. Talk about the test for a few mins, what classes they are taking....then you're talking about other things and before you know it you got somethin goin.
 

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Originally posted by Casino
damn..you go to a community college?

just wear your McDonalds uniform to class...especially if you are a manager the chicks will be all over your.

don't mix in kino if you got fryer grease on your hands.
Where you graduate from college and how successful you are later in life are not correlated in the least bit. For example a study observed two groups of yale acceptees, one group that was accepted and attended yale university, and another group that was also accepted but did not attend. The study did not conclude that those who had recieved yale diplomas did better. The study observed that how successful the individuals were, did not depend on whether or not they graduated from yale, but that there was no difference between those who graduated and those who did not attend from the university.

Let me give you a prime example of someone everyone in the world knows that proves this fact. Bill Gates, he was accepted into and attented Harvard University, however he dropped out and we all know how he is currently doing.

People have their reasons for attending community college. I am one of them, my reason was not lack of intelligence or money, i am quite the opposite, (a smart rich mother****er), it was lack of motivation due to many factors such as depression. But after 1 semester of community college my overall gpa has improved from less than a 1.5 in high school to a 2.75. A dramatic improvement if you factor in that the change took place over the course of 1 or 2 semeters. By the way I have already been accepted to the first 4-year university I have applied to. So no matter what ill be enrolled in a 4 year business administration program at 19 by fall of 2005.

Oh and another example of someone who became a multi-millionaire without going to college and dropping out of high school is my father.

In conclusion Casino, you are an idiot dumb**** and I dont ever want to see you post again because noone should have to endure the stupid **** that comes from your mouth. Next time you get an urge to post, do us all a favor and shoot yourself in the ****ing head.
 

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lol..

why are you guys acting like some overly sensetive girls?

lets get this back on topic.

to be honest most girls in CC have an even more poor self image than girls at regular colleges. After i graduated from Northwestern I came back home and decided to take some massage therapy classes at a local CC.

As soon as I walk in to register I could tell that macking the girls there was going to be like taking candy from a baby.

just exude confidence. dress differently from the rest of your classmates and use some C&F and getting a CC girl should be easy.
 

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What school you go to has no effect on your self image. I would think it would be the other way around though.
 

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nah...don't take it at face value.

alot of girls (from my experience) that attend CC are usually F'd up in the head single mothers. so it's not that attending a CC hurts their image (doesn't help) it's the fact that most of them have more baggage than the O'hare that makes their self image deflated.

Usually you don't have to dip to far into the bag of DJ tips to seduce these chicks.
 

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Most of the girls are just out of high school and going to transfer to a 4 year next year. Thats what Im doing too. Some are insane but most of them are normal (AND HOT!!).

Thanks for the tips fellas, I appreciate it. I will just try to get over it and talk to them.

I have thought about doing this: I could talk to some other girls who I am not interested in in the class, to get experience. Then it wouldn't be weird for me to approach the hot girls because they would already see me as someone who is sociable with the class. Right now I just talk to the people next to me (all of who are guys)
 

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Originally posted by BigLebowski1
At my college, there are few social groups and no dorms or campus activites. There are however many hot girls. For those of you who have gone or are at community colleges, what do you do to meet girls?

There are several girls in some of my classes I would love to ****, but they sit on the other side of the room and I have never got a chance to talk to them. Plus it might be weird if one day I ran up and started talking to them out of the blue.

I did well with girls in high school when everyone knew eachother, but at community college it's hard because no one knows anyone else. And I dont know any girls here.
Why would things be any different there than anywhere else? Do you know all the girls when you go to a club or any place to pick up girls? It sounds to me like you are one of those guys that had alot of luck with women in high school just because you were an athlete or something. Did you have high status in high school?
 

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Re: Re: How to meet girls at a community college

Originally posted by Fatality
Why would things be any different there than anywhere else? Do you know all the girls when you go to a club or any place to pick up girls? It sounds to me like you are one of those guys that had alot of luck with women in high school just because you were an athlete or something. Did you have high status in high school?
Mostly in high school I didn't have to do any work approaching because there was a group of friends with a lot of girls in it. So it was easy to hook up. Plus most of the time the girls would introduce themselves to me. Now that never happens anymore. So I am a bit inexperienced with the cold "picking up girls" scene.
 

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Originally posted by Casino
nah...don't take it at face value.

alot of girls (from my experience) that attend CC are usually F'd up in the head single mothers. so it's not that attending a CC hurts their image (doesn't help) it's the fact that most of them have more baggage than the O'hare that makes their self image deflated.

Usually you don't have to dip to far into the bag of DJ tips to seduce these chicks.
So if a lot of the girls that attend community college are f'ed up in the head single mothers, what does that make the guys that attend them?

You talk of people who attend CC's like they are "lower" on the food chain than those who go to a 4 year, and it's disgusting to say the least.

Anyway, back on topic. I think you're just going to have to work on your cold approaching. That lunch room idea was pretty good too.
 

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