How to meet girls at a community college

[RoeCyris]

Ladies and Gents, i present the reason for Cas's ignorance.

Originally posted by Casino
alot of girls (from my experience) that attend CC

Just an idea, but don't try and give advice on something in which you have LITTLE to NO experience/knowledge.

 

[blue17]

Originally posted by RoeCyris
Ladies and Gents, i present the reason for Cas's ignorance.




Just an idea, but don't try and give advice on something in which you have LITTLE to NO experience/knowledge.

Are you accusing Casino of being a keyboard jockey?

 

[RoeCyris]

Originally posted by blue17
Are you accusing Casino of being a keyboard jockey?

im accusing nothing. Im flat out saying that in this case he has admited that he knows nothing but is gonna give his advice anyways which I always considered stupid.



I too am in CC and have had good success (a few dates, quite a few numbers) where as i didnt have as much success in HS but I can't really pinpoint a way to describe how to do it but i can give a few points. While none of these points are revolutionairy, and in fact I think i got at least 2 or 3 from this site, I will give a few pointers for what works FOR ME.

- on the first day try to sit next to, behind, NEAR a cute girl (or two if ur good at puzzles, lol). Nothing wrong with it, you gotta sit SOMEWHERE. better to sit next to than behind, IMO. but both are good. say hi but dont be all conversationall. on the first day, be there for the class (even if your really scoping for girls) and unless your assigned seats, dont be afraid to try out some different spots around the room. no one will say anything if you sit in "their" seat the first week. but after week 1 people tend to get attached to their spots. no idea why.

- don't be afraid to be friendly. the quicker you make nice the quicker you can do this...

- swap numbers! don't just ask for hers, swap numbers on the basis of helping each other (unless its like an insanley easy class). don't worry about using false pretense or whatever. she gives you the number and that gives you the right to call it (DONT SAY THAT TO HER.)


- Most people in CC are kids just out of HS who arn't ready for a 4 year school for WHATEVER reason. Don't be judgmental. Judgmental people are asses and don't last long.
- Once you get a date, this point can be a great peice of conversation." Why arn't you at a 4 year school, from what I can tell, you could have gotten into a good school" and then let her ramble on and on and on about whatever reason prevented her. don't be afraid to pry A LITTLE, thats why your with her, to extract information which you can use to move on to higher levels of relationship. Also, try and relate here. Obviously you have a reason your at CC too. Maybe your only there for a certain corse and you already know what profession you want to go into, this can be good - shows motivation and consideration of the future. Maybe she didnt do well in HS and, if your like me, you HATED HS and this can be a point of commonality. GREAT!

- Disregaurd age. Only be concerned with common interest and legality.

- Don't be afraid to answer questions in class. At my CC alot of people just sit quietly and it makes the class SLOW and BORING. It's not hard to be seen as livley in a CC classroom. i have been told often i make a class interesting cuz i talk and it makes other people comfortable to do the same. Again, kids just out of HS are mostly sheep (no offense). its a defense mechanism learned in HS. But your college students now, time to grow up. Show how grown up you are and dont be afraid to talk.

thats all i can really think of. Use the area to your advantage. you'd be surprised how connected you really are. Most people there are gonna be local so if you ever worked anywhere within 10 miles or went to HS within 10 miles, odds are you know someone by way of someone else. If you think there is a REMOTE chance they may know someone you know FIND OUT, "did you know soandso? you did? oh yea.... i know..... great guy." unless the guy was an ass, don't put him down. You want to make the thing that connects you seem like a positive thing for reasons i dont think i have to expand on.




Thats pretty much what I can come up with. Everyday I try some new ****. It really can become a game if you let it. If you are in multiple classes you can try multiple approaches. and try as best as you can to at least get into regular conversation with at least one cute girl per class.

 

[BigLebowski1]

Originally posted by RoeCyris
im accusing nothing. Im flat out saying that in this case he has admited that he knows nothing but is gonna give his advice anyways which I always considered stupid.



I too am in CC and have had good success (a few dates, quite a few numbers) where as i didnt have as much success in HS but I can't really pinpoint a way to describe how to do it but i can give a few points. While none of these points are revolutionairy, and in fact I think i got at least 2 or 3 from this site, I will give a few pointers for what works FOR ME.

- on the first day try to sit next to, behind, NEAR a cute girl (or two if ur good at puzzles, lol). Nothing wrong with it, you gotta sit SOMEWHERE. better to sit next to than behind, IMO. but both are good. say hi but dont be all conversationall. on the first day, be there for the class (even if your really scoping for girls) and unless your assigned seats, dont be afraid to try out some different spots around the room. no one will say anything if you sit in "their" seat the first week. but after week 1 people tend to get attached to their spots. no idea why.

- don't be afraid to be friendly. the quicker you make nice the quicker you can do this...

- swap numbers! don't just ask for hers, swap numbers on the basis of helping each other (unless its like an insanley easy class). don't worry about using false pretense or whatever. she gives you the number and that gives you the right to call it (DONT SAY THAT TO HER.)


- Most people in CC are kids just out of HS who arn't ready for a 4 year school for WHATEVER reason. Don't be judgmental. Judgmental people are asses and don't last long.
- Once you get a date, this point can be a great peice of conversation." Why arn't you at a 4 year school, from what I can tell, you could have gotten into a good school" and then let her ramble on and on and on about whatever reason prevented her. don't be afraid to pry A LITTLE, thats why your with her, to extract information which you can use to move on to higher levels of relationship. Also, try and relate here. Obviously you have a reason your at CC too. Maybe your only there for a certain corse and you already know what profession you want to go into, this can be good - shows motivation and consideration of the future. Maybe she didnt do well in HS and, if your like me, you HATED HS and this can be a point of commonality. GREAT!

- Disregaurd age. Only be concerned with common interest and legality.

- Don't be afraid to answer questions in class. At my CC alot of people just sit quietly and it makes the class SLOW and BORING. It's not hard to be seen as livley in a CC classroom. i have been told often i make a class interesting cuz i talk and it makes other people comfortable to do the same. Again, kids just out of HS are mostly sheep (no offense). its a defense mechanism learned in HS. But your college students now, time to grow up. Show how grown up you are and dont be afraid to talk.

thats all i can really think of. Use the area to your advantage. you'd be surprised how connected you really are. Most people there are gonna be local so if you ever worked anywhere within 10 miles or went to HS within 10 miles, odds are you know someone by way of someone else. If you think there is a REMOTE chance they may know someone you know FIND OUT, "did you know soandso? you did? oh yea.... i know..... great guy." unless the guy was an ass, don't put him down. You want to make the thing that connects you seem like a positive thing for reasons i dont think i have to expand on.




Thats pretty much what I can come up with. Everyday I try some new ****. It really can become a game if you let it. If you are in multiple classes you can try multiple approaches. and try as best as you can to at least get into regular conversation with at least one cute girl per class.

Great post, thanks man. I will def use these.

 

[blue17]

Originally posted by RoeCyris


- Don't be afraid to answer questions in class. At my CC alot of people just sit quietly and it makes the class SLOW and BORING. It's not hard to be seen as livley in a CC classroom. i have been told often i make a class interesting cuz i talk and it makes other people comfortable to do the same. Again, kids just out of HS are mostly sheep (no offense). its a defense mechanism learned in HS. But your college students now, time to grow up. Show how grown up you are and dont be afraid to talk.

Good point, never really thought of that. Actually it had an effect on me sub-consciously. These two girls that answer questions often and give their opinion on matters in class and it gave the perception that they were really easy-going friendly people who I'd like to meet. Both of them had boyfriends, but it didn't matter to me because they seemed like people I could just talk to and get to know better.

 

[valentine2013]

When It Comes To Girls You Have To Approach Man, Its Tough At First, But Got To Do It. Honestly Its Worth It, Don't Make It Big In Your Head Have Fun With It And Don't Give A **** About Rejection If It Even Happens. I Found It That Most Guys Give You Props When They See You Doing It, Even If You Fail Because Unfortunately Most Guys Don't THE Have Balls Approaching Girls. Their Ego Gets In Their Way.

BY THE WAY IF THEY EVEN HAVE BOYFRIENDS WHO CARES IF YOUR COOL THEIR INTRODUCE YOU TO THEIR FRIENDS AND YOUR STILL IN.

 

[BigSmooth]

This is from 2005...read the damn date. The guy is long gone from community college...

 

[Down Low]

I think it's a timely topic that deserves to be revived.

Men, make your move at the start of the semester. Women want and expect you to pounce on them. If you don't, it's hard for you to break out of their mental category of "harmless."

Only one or two coeds a semester are going to really get into you, puppy dog style, and make you the object of their fantasies. And these usually aren't the best-looking ones.

Now is the time for all good men to come to the aid of their party.

The quick brown fox jumps over the lazy dog.

 

[goldengoose]

LOL school is school. I bet you get the same stuff at CC than you do at a U for way less money.

Why don't you just go up and start talking to girls? That is an easy ting to do.

 

[ArcBound]

At my college, there are few social groups and no dorms or campus activites. There are however many hot girls. For those of you who have gone or are at community colleges, what do you do to meet girls?

There are several girls in some of my classes I would love to ****, but they sit on the other side of the room and I have never got a chance to talk to them. Plus it might be weird if one day I ran up and started talking to them out of the blue.

I did well with girls in high school when everyone knew eachother, but at community college it's hard because no one knows anyone else. And I dont know any girls here.

How'd you make the first friends in your life? Your parents put you in a room with other kids and you guys started talking.

How about your main group in highschool? You started talking to them or they started talking to you one day randomly and then you guys became friends.

There might be an awkward ish period at the beginning but its all the same thing you've really been doing your whole life. Go up and talk. Even if it is awkward it will only be awkward for that initial moment. Which you guys will proceed to forget.