How to Master Cold Approaching

[Snow Plowman]

I wanted to put this out there a few weeks back but never had no time. Now that I'm sick I can...

Ever wanted to know how to get a woman walking down the street?
Ever wanted to get that hot chick who's with those 3 guys?
Ever wanted to get this handled?

Well I'm about to give you the #1 thing that will make you become real good at cold approaching. You must do the #1 rule though or else you will NEVER get good at this...

...Go out and Approach...

...There you have it. Go out and Approach. Approach everything hard sets, easy sets, scary sets, etc. The #1 rule is you can't slow down in between approaches. It should be...set, set, set, set. I guarantee you that you will get good QUICK. The main thing is not to make excuses, or pusvy out because your feeling certain emotions, do it anyway, it will get way easier.

Bonus!!! If you want to get good faster, then start doing experiments and having weekly or monthly focuses. A few examples of things I did...
- Pumping BT through the roof
- Dress very sh!tty and approach (I had to do a film where I played a bum)
- Dress to the 9s and approach (I had to do a film and a few times when I did night game I was dressed very stylish)
- Approach with no openers in my head
- Practice doing things physical in nature
- Practice Plowing until I get blown out

The list can go on and on, all I know is that this benefited me more than anything. If I could tell you how much I've improved in 2 months...
- I can see a chicks RAS accurately and I know when she is focused on me and when she's not
- I can now go in a moving group set and have each of there RAS focus on me one at a time, depending on who doesn't hook off the opener
- I can kino escalate very fast and comfortable
- 90% of my sets turn out to be great interactions
- I approach with no hesistation
- I no longer care about my verbals when in set. All I'm focused on in set is playing with the frames and sub-communication!

...That last one is key which is why I'm going more in depth. After those 2 months, I've realized the words don't matter AT ALL. Now when I'm in set for some reason I can play with the frames and sub-communication so all the right stuff is hitting the girl and my words are just flowing to keep it normal...

Honestly if you want to become a real good at cold approaching just follow what I mentioned above. It's insane as to how quick my life has changed. I still have a lot to learn, but many guys who see me infield think I'm better than I give myself credit for...

Overall
1. Go out and approach...hitting set after set, hard sets, easy sets, scary sets, etc.
2. Experiment and try things out

 

[L777]

I agree man. Its great advice.

Just out of interest....how many girls did you lay or get some sort of sexual contact with in the last two months?

 

[positivity_injection]

I agree man. Its great advice.

Just out of interest....how many girls did you lay or get some sort of sexual contact with in the last two months?

excellent question to ask

i wouldnt take advice (no matter how good it SOUNDS) from a guy who doesn't get the end results

 

[lookyoung]

I am very skeptical of what I have seen on this website on the daytime coldapproach. I am a master at approaching at bars and clubs. I have pretty much had success at every aspect of the game. Clubbing, social,work,friends,school. Recently I have had plenty of success on the internet.

The daytime approach seems like its hard to do. Even mystery says he has a 12% success rate and he is probably boasting its probably more like 2%.

When I say coldapproach I mean girls that you have never seen before... Not the girl you see at your school. I am talking about a girl that is walking down the street. That is going to be a tough pull. What do you think when someone coldapproaches you.
1. They are a bum.
2. They are looking to sell me something.
3. A woman thinks they are trying to get in my pants.

If there is anyone on this site that has success with coldapproaching than I want to hear it. Don't just say you do. Give us some examples. I am not a big fan of the coldapproach, except at bars and clubs. Maybe its because I live in a big city. Maybe in Europe its different were people are probably more friendly.

ONCE AGAIN I AM NOT TALKING ABOUT THE COLDAPPROACH WERE YOU WORK AT STARBUCKS AND SEE THE GIRL ONCE A WEEK. COLDAPPROACHING MEANING YOU NEVER SEEN THE GIRL IN YOUR LIFE.

 

[lookyoung]

I am a guy and if a woman coldapproached on the street I would think she was a hooker or a drug addict. I would find it to be very strange.

 

[positivity_injection]

looks play an amazingly big part in cold approach success

and by that, i mean you must look either hot, friendly, or a combination of the 2


ive cold approached at the mall a good number of times successfully, but trust me guys, i had a good look going for me, never like a creepy nerd disguised as a PUA

 

[DonGorgon]

Observation and timing..

make sure she notices you then Look for open signals... if there are none dont go...

 

[Jswift]

Thanks for the motivation. Lately I think my game has gotten weaker because I've been online instead of outside. I need to get off my ass and get out in the real world so that I can get control of my situation. If that means getting blown out 10 times a day, I guess that's part of the process.

 

[ready123]

excellent question to ask

i wouldnt take advice (no matter how good it SOUNDS) from a guy who doesn't get the end results

go look at his approach journal -probably the best on this board

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

Reps from daddy

Fan of cold approaches

Respect

 

[macking]

GREAT advices ...
butt plss next time when you go in cold approaches .. if you could just record some of them with mobile phone or something, and upload them.
it would be great and VERY VERY helpful. PEACE respect.

 

[Snow Plowman]

I agree man. Its great advice.

Just out of interest....how many girls did you lay or get some sort of sexual contact with in the last two months?

Lays...ZERO...I currently am not to worried about actually laying any chicks due to the lack of time I have. 80% of my time goes to acting school which is intense. I had to choose between...
A. Approach Massively
B. Go on Day2s (This is TIME CONSUMING!!!)
C. Go for the pull (The window of opportunity comes maybe once a week)

At most I push for makeouts...

...In the past 2 months, I've met 5 girls who I could lay if I meet up with them. Another 5 girls who I might have lost due to ME FLAKING on all of them TWICE.

I'll just be honest though, I'm not really trying to get laid for the next 2 years because I have to finish school and it only gets worst. I can basically experiment, calibrate, and fine tune my game.

The only chick I EVER seriously am trying to lay is this hb8. I did a lot of stuff to keep this interaction going but I had no condoms on me and fuked up a bit. This might be the only chick I actually try to fully close and maybe have a relationship just so I can have sex on the side while I practice improving my game.

The daytime approach seems like its hard to do. Even mystery says he has a 12% success rate and he is probably boasting its probably more like 2%.

Honestly Day Game is easier because there aren't so many distractions, it's just you and the girl. What makes daytime look more intimidating is because it's not socially normal and it's lower energy so it's harder for guys to go in. The illusion of scariness is more present in the daytime.

Majority of the women I've met were from daygame...I've met only 3 chicks ever in my acting school. Only recently I made the decision that I'd game any hot chicks in my school...BUT only the HOTTEST.

Daytime is fun as hell though...I like it better than Clubs...everything people usually say about pulling, kissing, kino, AMOGs, etc in the day time is wrong. You can kiss, pull and even kino in the daytime easily. The BFs will show up just as often as in night clubs.

GREAT advices ...
butt plss next time when you go in cold approaches .. if you could just record some of them with mobile phone or something, and upload them.
it would be great and VERY VERY helpful. PEACE respect.

I have footage on my cell phone of my wings...I wanted one of my other wings who I rarely see, to record me but I forgot to tell him...

...That set would've been a 2set that turns into a 3set...which I #close, but she was about a 6 in my book. Face was cute but body I didn't like at all. She couldn't even believe I was asking her for her #. Then a 3rd chick came in and I had to deal with her. It was a quick 5min interaction...

But what I do have on my phone...
- My Two wings (O10 and Upsetmidget) get blown out a set but you see O10 doing some kino.
- O10 gaming 2set seated in park
- Tickler on the street in the night...
- Tickler in book store gaming a chick on the floor...# closed

I would've upped them but quality on computer is horrible and plus I'd have to ask them for permission.

 

[schttrj]

Observation and timing..

make sure she notices you then Look for open signals... if there are none dont go...

we are talking about cold approaches, don, not about warm approaches.

 

[positivity_injection]

Lays...ZERO...I currently am not to worried about actually laying any chicks due to the lack of time I have. 80% of my time goes to acting school which is intense. I had to choose between...
A. Approach Massively
B. Go on Day2s (This is TIME CONSUMING!!!)
C. Go for the pull (The window of opportunity comes maybe once a week)

At most I push for makeouts...

...In the past 2 months, I've met 5 girls who I could lay if I meet up with them. Another 5 girls who I might have lost due to ME FLAKING on all of them TWICE.

I'll just be honest though, I'm not really trying to get laid for the next 2 years because I have to finish school and it only gets worst. I can basically experiment, calibrate, and fine tune my game.

The only chick I EVER seriously am trying to lay is this hb8. I did a lot of stuff to keep this interaction going but I had no condoms on me and fuked up a bit. This might be the only chick I actually try to fully close and maybe have a relationship just so I can have sex on the side while I practice improving my game.



Honestly Day Game is easier because there aren't so many distractions, it's just you and the girl. What makes daytime look more intimidating is because it's not socially normal and it's lower energy so it's harder for guys to go in. The illusion of scariness is more present in the daytime.

Majority of the women I've met were from daygame...I've met only 3 chicks ever in my acting school. Only recently I made the decision that I'd game any hot chicks in my school...BUT only the HOTTEST.

Daytime is fun as hell though...I like it better than Clubs...everything people usually say about pulling, kissing, kino, AMOGs, etc in the day time is wrong. You can kiss, pull and even kino in the daytime easily. The BFs will show up just as often as in night clubs.



I have footage on my cell phone of my wings...I wanted one of my other wings who I rarely see, to record me but I forgot to tell him...

...That set would've been a 2set that turns into a 3set...which I #close, but she was about a 6 in my book. Face was cute but body I didn't like at all. She couldn't even believe I was asking her for her #. Then a 3rd chick came in and I had to deal with her. It was a quick 5min interaction...

But what I do have on my phone...
- My Two wings (O10 and Upsetmidget) get blown out a set but you see O10 doing some kino.
- O10 gaming 2set seated in park
- Tickler on the street in the night...
- Tickler in book store gaming a chick on the floor...# closed

I would've upped them but quality on computer is horrible and plus I'd have to ask them for permission.

you just sealed the nail to your own coffin KEYBOARD JOCKEY

all this advice, all this wonderful sweet advice you have been giving, and you say u have no time to have sex with girls

BULLSHYT

fellas, anyone reading this, the above that i quoted is a perfect example of a total chumpaholic, with statements such as "i dont plan to have sex for the next 2 years" WTF dude are you seriously serious with this??

you DONT HAVE TIME TO HAVE SEX? you just said that, did i read that correctly?

you are either an amazingly huge AFC virgin, or just gay

EDIT: you got 0 lays from all this cold approaching? so as someone giving advice, what would you tell an aspiring don juan he should do if he actually wants to have sex? all your advice is VOID

 

[L777]

you just sealed the nail to your own coffin KEYBOARD JOCKEY

all this advice, all this wonderful sweet advice you have been giving, and you say u have no time to have sex with girls

BULLSHYT

fellas, anyone reading this, the above that i quoted is a perfect example of a total chumpaholic, with statements such as "i dont plan to have sex for the next 2 years" WTF dude are you seriously serious with this??

you DONT HAVE TIME TO HAVE SEX? you just said that, did i read that correctly?

you are either an amazingly huge AFC virgin, or just gay

EDIT: you got 0 lays from all this cold approaching? so as someone giving advice, what would you tell an aspiring don juan he should do if he actually wants to have sex? all your advice is VOID

Woah I think that's a little harsh. He is only giving advice on approaching, nothing else. I can already approach fine so I can verify that this good advice.

If he were claiming to give advice on day 2's, escelation, isolation, phone game etc etc. I would concur with your sentiments (although probably not as harshly), but as far as just approaching goes, its decent advice.

I may post something about what to do after the approach, when I have time, actually.

 

[positivity_injection]

all i know is that girls don't like to be the objects of approach practice

they like to be approached when there is actual honest interest in getting to know them and moving things along, and that includes having sex later on, otherwise there is something wrong with the approach or with the guy approaching

 

[wolf116]

Another example of the guys on this site having extremely low sex drives.
"I don't have time for sex"??? That's woman talk! Fix your T levels.

I'm a full time engineering student, have two jobs, surf and gym. But ALWAYS find time for sex. How busy can you be?

Give up TV, xbox and stop posting on sosuave. There, you now have time for sex.

I don't even understand why you guys are even on this site.

 

[ElStud]

all i know is that girls don't like to be the objects of approach practice

they like to be approached when there is actual honest interest in getting to know them and moving things along, and that includes having sex later on, otherwise there is something wrong with the approach or with the guy approaching

Dude, what does that have to be do with you? You shouldn't give a damn if girls CARE about being objects of approach practice and in the end, it sounds like an excuse to keep yourself from approaching every set. Besides, women wouldn't dress the way they do or spend an hour in the bathroom before they go out if they didn't want to be approached.

 

[ready123]

you just sealed the nail to your own coffin KEYBOARD JOCKEY

all this advice, all this wonderful sweet advice you have been giving, and you say u have no time to have sex with girls

BULLSHYT

fellas, anyone reading this, the above that i quoted is a perfect example of a total chumpaholic, with statements such as "i dont plan to have sex for the next 2 years" WTF dude are you seriously serious with this??

you DONT HAVE TIME TO HAVE SEX? you just said that, did i read that correctly?

you are either an amazingly huge AFC virgin, or just gay

EDIT: you got 0 lays from all this cold approaching? so as someone giving advice, what would you tell an aspiring don juan he should do if he actually wants to have sex? all your advice is VOID

the guy sarges with rsd and his approach journal has some of the best calibration on this board. contrary to what you believe it's OK to turn down pvssy if you have more important things to take care of. that's called coming from abundance

all I've seen from you is long ass post called why AFC's exist, and it's just a dumb rant about social conditioning you tried to reframe as something groundbreaking. it wasn't

 

[positivity_injection]

Dude, what does that have to be do with you? You shouldn't give a damn if girls CARE about being objects of approach practice and in the end, it sounds like an excuse to keep yourself from approaching every set. Besides, women wouldn't dress the way they do or spend an hour in the bathroom before they go out if they didn't want to be approached.

yes but they dont wanna be approached by a guy who is gonna waste their time

sure, a 5 minute convo is good practice for YOU, but what does the female get out of it? NOTHING, thats why she wouldnt wanna be approached unless there's a point in the approach

it helps to care about other people, then they'll start caring about you