How to make high school girls go CRAZY over you! - Part 1

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Girls go for guys who have status and are "cool" at highschool. Lets not worry about WHY lets just accept the fact that thats the way it is.

There will be no style tips in this post, you know whats cool so wear it if you want to make your job easier. But if you feel strongly about your clothes, then wear what you want.

Have as many friends as possible
Try to be friends with as many people as possible, personally, i am in the sporty group but often talk to guys in the other groups. If you know everyone and are friends with them then you get invited to all the partys that are goin down. Be friendly to the ugly girls too, it gives you confidence in talking to girls and they ussually have hot friends (trust me, i know ;) ). If your friendly to people that get picked on then you can make their day just by being nice.

Around your mate's
When your around your friends(you should have alot of them by now), have a good time, talk about what you guys are going to do on the weekend. Guys(not as much as girls) are insecure too, use this insecurity to make them your friends, compliment them every now and then. It will make them feel great! If they give you some **** and people laugh, then dont worry about it just laugh it off but make sure you get them back later ;) or else they might make a habit of it. Talk about sports, pu$$y, party's, funny stories, etc. Talk about GOOD TIMES!!! Have alot of fun. When in a group of guys make sure your the center of the convo.

Around the ladies
when your around the ladies do all your regular DJ stuff(especially kino, it drives high school girls wild), make sure you dont give them to much time, say hi and talk to them for awhile, kino them, make them laugh, then cut it off when its hot and go talk to another girl.

In a group of girls and guys
These are the times you have to take advantage of, make yourself the center of the convo and make everyone listen to you. Tell a funny story, make everyone laugh. This is the best way to gain status, in a group. Make sure everyone see's you as being funny and popular, and they will start treating you like gold. This is where it all comes from, i cant stress it enough.

A few other tips
- Do something that will get you known, like a sport. I play soccer, im not the best but im good. Practise the sport so you can stand out.

- Develop a sense of humour, this will help you more then anything else in gaining status. Tell jokes, improve your wit. There are a few posts on humour so go look them up

- Get good at conversations, and being the center of conversations for that matter. This will help you ALOT.

- Always be the one that says whats happening on the weekend, this makes you look more alpha.

- Hug the girls that feel comfortable with you doing so.

- Start going to the gym, and improving your looks.

Do the things ive said here and i promise you that the highschool experience will be a good one for you.

Part 2 will be about partys and what to do once you have the status and found a target.
 

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This post looks WAY too similar to a few posts in the bible combined...Time for some investigating...
 

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Girls go for guys who have status and are "cool" at highschool. Lets not worry about WHY lets just accept the fact that thats the way it is
So guys, what Sammo's trying to say is: Screw your own personal goals and personality, and throw your own happiness on the railroad tracks just to be someone you're not, in order to be popular.

Sammo, I'm rooting for you, I really am. I think you've got some good ideas, but I don't agree with your mindset, but each mindset is everyone's own personal thing - I can't change yours, you can't change mine, nobody has that right. However, I just don't agree with the fact that you advocate sacrificing alot of who you are in order to be popular, or get women. It doesn't have to be that way!

Let me tell you a little story. I just graduated from HS, and my last year, I was one of the most well-known and liked people...but really, I couldn't have cared less. You see, in the earlier HS grades, I tried to be someone I wasn't, to be friends with people I didn't really like. I got nowhere - so I started just to be who I really was - and people SAW that in me. I was seen as someone to be around not because I was a typical 'cool' person, but because I was comfortable in my own shoes and wasn't afraid to speak my mind, even if it went against those around me.

Once you accept yourself for who you are, the confidence - guys, it's something I can't describe. You radiate something extremely positive and attracting when you can be yourself, and not be ashamed of that.

Just my two cents.
 

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Originally posted by Luscious
So guys, what Sammo's trying to say is: Screw your own personal goals and personality, and throw your own happiness on the railroad tracks just to be someone you're not, in order to be popular.

Sammo, I'm rooting for you, I really am. I think you've got some good ideas, but I don't agree with your mindset, but each mindset is everyone's own personal thing - I can't change yours, you can't change mine, nobody has that right. However, I just don't agree with the fact that you advocate sacrificing alot of who you are in order to be popular, or get women. It doesn't have to be that way!

Let me tell you a little story. I just graduated from HS, and my last year, I was one of the most well-known and liked people...but really, I couldn't have cared less. You see, in the earlier HS grades, I tried to be someone I wasn't, to be friends with people I didn't really like. I got nowhere - so I started just to be who I really was - and people SAW that in me. I was seen as someone to be around not because I was a typical 'cool' person, but because I was comfortable in my own shoes and wasn't afraid to speak my mind, even if it went against those around me.

Once you accept yourself for who you are, the confidence - guys, it's something I can't describe. You radiate something extremely positive and attracting when you can be yourself, and not be ashamed of that.

Just my two cents.
sounds similar to me.
 

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good thoughts lushious

i seem to sense on this board that being "popular" is of great importance. not just that but also wanting to be with the "in" people.

for the last 2 years i stopped caring about who had what status, i just decided that i was going to be friends with the people I liked and that people I thought were cool. It no longer mattered to me, to hang with who everyone else thought was "cool."

i have since met some really cool and awsome people. they were attracted to me, my persona, my confidence, and the way that i just didnt give a damn what others percieved of me.

yes, some of these people were "popular", some were not. Yes, i did find myself going to some of the "In" parties but i didnt care, as long as the people were cool and the girls hot.

it was funny the 1st couple of times, these people lookin at me, like, "who the hell brought him here?" i jus laughed it off, and went to meet some new people. one of the kids that said that bout me, i found out recently was "kicked out" of the so-called "popular group."

Hell some parties i went to this year had some people that i may have considered not as cool, but one of those parties in perticular was so much fun.

if i would have come in with the attitude that i was "too cool" or some BS like that then i wouldnt of had so much fun.

since changing my perspective i have had some of the best times of my life.

Popularity lasts for a very short time. dont waste your time with it.
 

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Originally posted by crazykid
This post looks WAY too similar to a few posts in the bible combined...Time for some investigating...
Find anything?
 

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Originally posted by Luscious
So guys, what Sammo's trying to say is: Screw your own personal goals and personality, and throw your own happiness on the railroad tracks just to be someone you're not, in order to be popular.

Sammo, I'm rooting for you, I really am. I think you've got some good ideas, but I don't agree with your mindset, but each mindset is everyone's own personal thing - I can't change yours, you can't change mine, nobody has that right. However, I just don't agree with the fact that you advocate sacrificing alot of who you are in order to be popular, or get women. It doesn't have to be that way!

Let me tell you a little story. I just graduated from HS, and my last year, I was one of the most well-known and liked people...but really, I couldn't have cared less. You see, in the earlier HS grades, I tried to be someone I wasn't, to be friends with people I didn't really like. I got nowhere - so I started just to be who I really was - and people SAW that in me. I was seen as someone to be around not because I was a typical 'cool' person, but because I was comfortable in my own shoes and wasn't afraid to speak my mind, even if it went against those around me.

Once you accept yourself for who you are, the confidence - guys, it's something I can't describe. You radiate something extremely positive and attracting when you can be yourself, and not be ashamed of that.

Just my two cents.
I have a poor writing style and have trouble passing my ideas on to the reader, believe it or not it took me over an hour just to make that post readable and im finding it very difficult now as well. Maybe because of my writing style you didnt quite catch me right, let me clarify myself.

Girls like guys who are popular, actually they LOVE guys who are popular. I was saying dont worry about WHY they like guys who are popular i was just saying take advantage of the fact that they do. It will help you ALOT in high school but its not the only way, do as you will, by no means am i saying to change your individuality.
 

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Originally posted by drixsa
good thoughts lushious

i seem to sense on this board that being "popular" is of great importance. not just that but also wanting to be with the "in" people.


Its because, as i said, girls love being popular and people have decided to take advantage of that fact, its not a necessity but it helps. As long as your comfortable with being popular...

for the last 2 years i stopped caring about who had what status, i just decided that i was going to be friends with the people I liked and that people I thought were cool. It no longer mattered to me, to hang with who everyone else thought was "cool."

Thats a good point, I took a different approach to you, i wasnt just friendly to the "cool" people, I was friendly to all my normal friends but i was nice to EVERYONE i was friends with everyone, its a great feeling when your nice to someone who always gets picked on.

i have since met some really cool and awsome people. they were attracted to me, my persona, my confidence, and the way that i just didnt give a damn what others percieved of me.

I have friends like this too, but i am still nice to everyone.

yes, some of these people were "popular", some were not. Yes, i did find myself going to some of the "In" parties but i didnt care, as long as the people were cool and the girls hot.

I get invited to every party anyone has heard of at my school, i dont go to all of them i only go to the ones i want to.

it was funny the 1st couple of times, these people lookin at me, like, "who the hell brought him here?" i jus laughed it off, and went to meet some new people. one of the kids that said that bout me, i found out recently was "kicked out" of the so-called "popular group."

Hell some parties i went to this year had some people that i may have considered not as cool, but one of those parties in perticular was so much fun.


Nice story, yeah i got those looks when i first started changing.

if i would have come in with the attitude that i was "too cool" or some BS like that then i wouldnt of had so much fun.

I didnt say to have an attitude like that.

since changing my perspective i have had some of the best times of my life.

Popularity lasts for a very short time. dont waste your time with it.

This isnt true.
 

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It seems this thread has turned into this massive popularity debate. The bottom line is, do what you want, i chose popularity because it means more confidence, more girls, and a better time at high school. If you dont want to be popular, if its not the kind of person you want to be THEN DONT BE IT.
 

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Luscious, Sammo is not saying to be a follower. It's not all about being popular, it's about being the best person you can strive to be. Someone tell me why it's bad to want to be strong, intelligent, liked, and looked up to, etc. If we don't want to improve ourselves, the battle is already lost.

No one said to put aside your goals and assimilate with everyone else. That's just stupid, if you feel the need to mold yourself into society's "perfect image" then you have no right trying to become a Don Juan. Don Juan's make their own place in the world, they are leaders of their own destiny and everyone around them knows and respects it. However, it doesn't hurt to have a lot of friends and people who know you're a strong, independent individual.

If a person only does what they want to do, is completely anti-social, doesn't have any friends, and obsesses over hobbies do you honestly think that's healthy? Sure, he's following his goals and being himself, but is he enjoying it? NO! On the other end of the spectrum we have the guy who always looks to kiss ass. He is so busy trying to be accepted he has no personality that he never goes for anything he wants. He is also miserable because he feels that no one likes him for himself. Sure he's popular and a lot of people like him, but is he enjoying it? NO!

There are two ends of the spectrum to anything in life. You yourself have to find the healthy medium, the place where you are happiest. Then everything else will fall into place. Being on either end of the spectrum is bad, but somewhere in the middle you'll be doing yourself a lot of good.
 

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Originally posted by ShizamDaMan
Luscious, Sammo is not saying to be a follower. It's not all about being popular, it's about being the best person you can strive to be. Someone tell me why it's bad to want to be strong, intelligent, liked, and looked up to, etc. If we don't want to improve ourselves, the battle is already lost.

No one said to put aside your goals and assimilate with everyone else. That's just stupid, if you feel the need to mold yourself into society's "perfect image" then you have no right trying to become a Don Juan. Don Juan's make their own place in the world, they are leaders of their own destiny and everyone around them knows and respects it. However, it doesn't hurt to have a lot of friends and people who know you're a strong, independent individual.

If a person only does what they want to do, is completely anti-social, doesn't have any friends, and obsesses over hobbies do you honestly think that's healthy? Sure, he's following his goals and being himself, but is he enjoying it? NO! On the other end of the spectrum we have the guy who always looks to kiss ass. He is so busy trying to be accepted he has no personality that he never goes for anything he wants. He is also miserable because he feels that no one likes him for himself. Sure he's popular and a lot of people like him, but is he enjoying it? NO!

There are two ends of the spectrum to anything in life. You yourself have to find the healthy medium, the place where you are happiest. Then everything else will fall into place. Being on either end of the spectrum is bad, but somewhere in the middle you'll be doing yourself a lot of good.
Wow, nice post, very thought provoking.
 

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I agree with both Luscious and ShizamDaMan , you can never give up on your beliefs. Never do something becuase other's are doing it. i Know it sounds obvious, but i also know how many people out there get insecure in groups of friends. When somone asks you to smoke, say no if u dont want to smoke. s
Someone asks you to do something, and if you dont feel like doing it, dont do it, but be nice time from time, and do some good stuff for people so you dont come off as some arrogant jackass who doesnt do anything good for anyone.


yesterday i had a chance to meet one of the coolest guys in my life. THe guy is gorgeous, girls flee to him when he walks in the room. I met him yesterday, thinking how arrogant he might be becuase of his looks, but the guys just kicked ass! He was really cool with everyone, he was nice to me and other guys around him, he teased girls a bit but generally tried to find common things with them and just enjoyed his life. I finally saw a true alpha male , who is all natural. Im proud of my new friend.
 

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Originally posted by Sammo
Find anything?
A few things...once I'm done, I'll post it...
 

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just an observation. everybody uses the bible as their guide. but crazykid is trying to point out that alot of this is from the bible. plagiarized. its like if its in the all mighty bible you just go with it, but if somebody else decides to say it you jump on him about it.
 

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Yeah, everything in that post is from my own experiences, if you think i get my jollies out of plagerizing the bible then your wrong.
 

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Sammo... as always, you're heart is in the right place... but you may just want to take two steps back Sammo:

Girls go for guys who have status and are "cool" at highschool.
Before... I would make a sweeping generalization such as that one... however, now I will not agree with that statement. Women are much like guys in the fact that if we like someone... we like them. Granted, some girls will go for a guy just because he is "cool" but question... why would you want to pursue a dame that is that shallow anyway?

Lets not worry about WHY lets just accept the fact that thats the way it is.
It is not the way it is...

Try to be friends with as many people as possible, personally, i am in the sporty group but often talk to guys in the other groups.
I notice that people toss that friend word around too much. Get into some real ****... and then you will see who you're "friends" are. This is something that I learned during 10th grade... granted I had a lot of people that smiled in my face and laughed at my jokes... then when I got into some real ****... no one was to be found. Have a couple of "friends" get many "acquaintances."

Be friendly to the ugly girls too, it gives you confidence in talking to girls and they ussually have hot friends (trust me, i know ). If your friendly to people that get picked on then you can make their day just by being nice.
This... I agree with.

Guys(not as much as girls) are insecure too, use this insecurity to make them your friends, compliment them every now and then.
This I also agree with...

Okay... I'll get down to the good stuff. My problem with this post Sammo is that it is encouraging people to do things for the sake of other people... this is something I cannot condone. If you want to be a humorous person... be so because you like making people laugh, not because it will make you "cool." You do not always have to be the "center" of attention to get girls... in fact, if you always try to be the center of attention... people (not that you should care) will think that you are trying too hard. Like I have said and will say again... if you want to do something in life... do it for you. I do not like working out personally... staying in shape is important... having four biceps is not in my opinion. Therefore, if you catch me in the gym... I'm on the treadmill... not bench pressing. I stay in shape because I personally like my slender figure... not because chicks dig it.

Remember: Do things for you guys... not other people.

Sammo... again, your heart is in the right place... you just have to work on your mindset.

The Matrix: Revolution™
 

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Good thread i must say,

The only problem is that you left out b and went from a to c. You say be funny and be the center of conversations,
but obviously if we were sheltered, we have no very intiguiging stories, plus you have to be able to have a quick
point to the strory and make it something that can relate to, etc etc.

The art of conversations is a very complex thing, and the only way to get better at it is to live life to the fullest.
This can be very hard with protective parents, but it can be done. Instead of sitting on the computer or
watching tv, get a fun job, or go hang out with friends. If you can't go out, watch stand up on comedy central,
learn how they make jokes, and work this into your own personality.

Humor is a great thing, but inside jokes suck! Me and my brother are very big into family guy, and we joke around
with it a lot, but when i'm around with other people i never quote it, because they never get it. A joke is worthless
unless the most intelligent and the stupidest can understand it.

Humor can get you everwhere and no where, use it wisely and at the right time, and vary your types of jokes.
A person can be incredibly funny verbally and someone can be incredibly funny in actions. The funniest person
can do both. Here is my view on B.
 

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Originally posted by The Matrix: Reloaded
Before... I would make a sweeping generalization such as that one... however, now I will not agree with that statement. Women are much like guys in the fact that if we like someone... we like them. Granted, some girls will go for a guy just because he is "cool" but question... why would you want to pursue a dame that is that shallow anyway?

Well in my experiences, most if not all girls are shallow and insecure, that is the whole reason they go for the popular guys anyway.

I notice that people toss that friend word around too much. Get into some real ****... and then you will see who you're "friends" are. This is something that I learned during 10th grade... granted I had a lot of people that smiled in my face and laughed at my jokes... then when I got into some real ****... no one was to be found. Have a couple of "friends" get many "acquaintances."

Okay, have many acquaintances, either way be friendly to everyone (unless they give you ****).

Okay... I'll get down to the good stuff. My problem with this post Sammo is that it is encouraging people to do things for the sake of other people... this is something I cannot condone. If you want to be a humorous person... be so because you like making people laugh, not because it will make you "cool." You do not always have to be the "center" of attention to get girls... in fact, if you always try to be the center of attention... people (not that you should care) will think that you are trying too hard. Like I have said and will say again... if you want to do something in life... do it for you. I do not like working out personally... staying in shape is important... having four biceps is not in my opinion. Therefore, if you catch me in the gym... I'm on the treadmill... not bench pressing. I stay in shape because I personally like my slender figure... not because chicks dig it.

Fair enough, do it for yourself. Why are people at this site reading this post? Because they want to become a DJ or they want girls, but in the end they are doing it for themselves. They are doing it for girls, or power, or dominance, who knows why there doing it but ultimately they are doing it for themselves.[/B]
 
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