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How to Make a Woman Fall in Love with You and Find Your Happily Ever After
“The secret to a happy and content life is to partner for life with a woman who loves you and you love her, and where you are both loyal to each other’s trust; then you cooperate and work together in providing a valuable service to society in exchange for your prosperity in providing for your family!”
“The secret to a happy and content life is to partner for life with a woman who loves you and you love her, and where you are both loyal to each other’s trust; then you cooperate and work together in providing a valuable service to society in exchange for your prosperity in providing for your family!”
This is a loaded statement, but it begs this question:
How do you make a woman fall in love with you, so that you can also receive all the aforementioned blessings?
The truth is you cannot “make” a woman fall in love with you; but what you can do is “induce” her too. You can lead her down the path that ultimately results in it.
This is what this post is all about.
What I will reveal to you here will be counter-intuitive to the central tenets of this forum and spit in the face of many of the star posters’ revered advice (and they’ll probably be outraged and start arguing with me).
But how many of them live and embody the conditions set forth in my opening claim?
I would wager none.
What I want to share with you is the result of personal experience and the observation and countless interviews I have conducted with the exceedingly wealthy and successful men in my city who also have outstanding, unshakeable marriages that have endured for decades without infidelity or divorce. And yes, the wives are all physically attractive too.
If this is what you want in your life, harken your ear to my words!
The Dual Motives of Nature
We all know Nature has endowed us with two driving motives when it comes to “romance”: love and sex. How we handle these emotions, and how we guide our actions as a result of their influence upon us will determine whether we succeed in achieving our aim:
To induce a woman to fall madly in love with us, for the purpose of establishing and maintaining a committed relationship wherein iron-clad loyalty abides.
The first thing you must understand and know is that if you have sex with a woman before she loves you, you are, in all likelihood, sabotaging and destroying the very foundation upon which her love for you, and its degree of depth and strength, would have been later elicited and established.
By seeking to close the deal as quickly as possible, you are shooting yourself in the foot if what you want is for her to love you deeply later.
Failing to create a bond and connection through numerous interactions with a woman before you consummate your love for each other with sex is like digging up the seeds in a garden before they have sprouted, then wondering in bewilderment why it’s not bearing any fruit.
How to Create “the Bond”
I will keep this section short, as it entails an entire instructional in itself. But the secret to creating “the Bond” is to develop familiarity. When this familiarity has been put into place, it naturally leads to arousing the emotion of love in a woman (and in a man). It becomes mutual.
How do you do this?
You seek to establish one single condition:
It is where she knows who you are and what your life is all about, and she likes it; and likewise, you know the same about her, and you like it. When you know a woman and she knows you know, and she also knows you and you know she knows, something magical happens:
A strong connection is formed that becomes almost unbreakable!
Putting this process into operation to attain the desired result requires a specific communication skillset. For brevity sake, this will not be covered here.
But this “Bond” must be established before you sleep with a woman if you want to almost guarantee she will fall madly in love with you.
There are also two obstacles that interfere with creating “the Bond” which must be mastered alongside; I give you:
The Two Enemies of Love
Love has two destructive enemies that tarnish and repel it; they are: lust and jealousy.
Where one is found, so is the other; the lusty man tends to be insane with jealousy, and the jealous man is often also consumed with lust.
But to those who want to find True Love in life, they must prepare their minds to attract it by conquering and controlling these two evil adversaries.
To do this, you must exercise self-control over your sexual urges and only indulge them in their proper place and time rather than making it open season, like the brute who is as lowly as the animal and can barely be called a man.
You must also control your infatuation and any feelings you may develop for a woman, and reach a point where you are completely detached from any desired outcome you may have with a specific woman, which would otherwise make you jealous, insecure and clingy, which will only repel her and sabotage setting the foundation of love.
You must also fear no competition from other men, and be unmoved when faced with any “threat”.
But stated flatly: love and romance, and lust and jealousy make very poor bedfellows.
These evils must be conquered to find True Love! It cannot be found while they are habitual emotions and actions with you.
The Loyal Woman
All this would be useless to you if you can’t find a loyal woman, but know this:
Loyal women already understand everything I have been saying here, and because of this, they are not only the ones you want (because they’re the only ones who can give you what your heart truly craves), but they are also the ones who will recognize what you have to offer if you abide by the admonitions set forth here.
In short, they will be interested in you too!
The Philanderer, so obsessed with sex and getting his next fix like a dope fiend, pushes for sex as fast as he can. He escalates very quickly. This serves as a red flag to the loyal women, because they know he is incapable of True Love (he doesn’t understand what that even means) – which is what she is after too. Thus, he repels the loyal women; then he wonders why all the women he dates are wh0res who can’t even give him what he really wants and he complains about their high notch count.
We attract the kind of women who we are; thus, to attract a loyal woman, you must first be a loyal man. And you must demonstrate this to her beyond a shadow of a doubt.
Happiness: The End Game
The definition of happiness was illustrated in my opening. Thus, let me close by talking a little bit about it.
In addition to a loyal and loving committed relationship, something must be the outgrown of it, as is almost always the case with True Love.
This is where Sex Transmutation comes into play. Man’s greatest desire is to please the woman of his choice. She provides the motive and incentive for him to seek to climb to great heights of achievement.
Sex where there is no love or affection involved devitalizes the mind and drains it, turning the man into a dud, as far as his true ability to excel is concerned. But sex coming from the woman he has singled out and committed to will drive him to succeed in ways he may never have imagined. And if she is also an encouraging and supportive woman, who takes an active interest in his pursuits, he will soar like an eagle!
Thus, to you who seek True Love, want to raise a family and excel and be successful in life and in the world, you would be wise to heed these admonitions!
