blackhatter
Don Juan
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Some nights I go out and I'm the definition of Alpha. Before I even step out my door, I know the night is going to be successful. I feel empowered and rarely stumble on my words in conversation. Many of these nights, I become the life of conversations out at the bar and I can just feel the women oozing out of their little holes.
And then on other nights, I just don't feel it. Maybe it's myself just not looking as good as I usually do one night. Maybe it's the fact that another person has more to say than I do at the moment. I just LOSE that sense of alpha because of my surroundings.
It's funny because sometimes I can go a week or two feeling alpha, and then out of no where I'm back to feeling beta.
This is what I feel is the BIGGEST problem in my game.
How do I maintain this alpha feeling all the time? I feel as if I'm affected way too easily in my surroundings.
Even my friends tells me that when I'm ontop of my game, I'm racking women up. But some nights they will ask me "what's wrong man, why aren't you acting like usual?" For this, I have no answer.
So I guess my real question is, how do I not get affected by my environment. I feel like I feed off other people's weaknesses. I'm only ALPHA when I feel like I'm better than everyone else. And while I usually do, the smallest thing can change that.
And then on other nights, I just don't feel it. Maybe it's myself just not looking as good as I usually do one night. Maybe it's the fact that another person has more to say than I do at the moment. I just LOSE that sense of alpha because of my surroundings.
It's funny because sometimes I can go a week or two feeling alpha, and then out of no where I'm back to feeling beta.
This is what I feel is the BIGGEST problem in my game.
How do I maintain this alpha feeling all the time? I feel as if I'm affected way too easily in my surroundings.
Even my friends tells me that when I'm ontop of my game, I'm racking women up. But some nights they will ask me "what's wrong man, why aren't you acting like usual?" For this, I have no answer.
So I guess my real question is, how do I not get affected by my environment. I feel like I feed off other people's weaknesses. I'm only ALPHA when I feel like I'm better than everyone else. And while I usually do, the smallest thing can change that.