How to lock this one down

[tbstimber12]

Ok, so I'm 23 and frequent this site every couple of months. I'm pretty successful with girls and I use some DJ skills but I'm pretty much your average AFC when it comes down to it.

Anyways, there's this HB9 that I work with who I've been friends with for awhile. I was pretty attractive to her at first, but didn't really try anything with her besides some harmless flirting because she had a dumbass boyfriend. Anyways one night at the bar (we were both drunk) outta nowhere she attacks me with her tongue. This happens twice, but she says it's because she was drunk. I joked around with her about it pretending it didn't bother me but it did.

Well a few days ago we take a trip outta town with some friends, but me and her end up getting a room together. End up making out, having sex, cuddling, and holding her hand...everything was awesome...it felt like she was my gf. Now were back in town and I'm not quite sure how to go from here. I'd like to have a ltr with her but I'm not sure exactly what to do now.

Should I act like I did before the trip, like everything is back to normal? Or should I put some pressure on and let her know what I want? She's single now so how would you guys play it?

Thanks,
tbs

 

[Last Man Standing]

She is a hor - treat her like one!! LTR? What the hell are you talking about - are you on crack?? There is no such thing as a "relationship" with a hor - let along "long term"!!!!

Get your shyt together or die!!!!!!

 

[tbstimber12]

She's not a ***** I've seen her out plenty of times and she was either with me or old douchebag bf. If anyone has any REAL advice I'd appreciate it.

 

[KontrollerX]

Your situation sounds simple to me bro.

Just invite her over to your place to watch a movie.

Its good isolation and you can discuss things.

If she just tackles you and goes for some hot action hey have at it and just keep repeating this tactic.

Who knows maybe she'll be your girlfriend or just a great regular fvck buddy lol.

 

[tbstimber12]

Thanks bro I've been thinking the same thing...I'll give it a few days and we'll see what happens. FB haha yes!

 

[Last Man Standing]

TBS, my error, she is your "girl" now, right? You are delusional!!! Get your shyt together or die!!!

 

[Interceptor]

LMS, don't worry. He'll back back in a week crying "What did I do wrong? " or "How do I get her back?" or "Is she still interested in me??" or "Am I in the Friend Zone?" or "Is she really a Ho??" or "How can I keep her?" or "Why does she act this way?"or......
yada yada yada
Take your pick.

Hey, man. LMS is right. But, hey....it's your heart, not mine.
It's ok. You'll be back.
We're here to help.


:rock:



Naw, dude. We'll be here to help. Just read "the Book of Pook." and you'll make all the guys proud here. I'm serious. Read it.That way you'll go in with your eyes open ,and ready for the grinder. Seriously, do what I tell the young guys. Use this as experience for growth. Sure, it's gonna hurt like Hell. But you need this pain in your system to propel you to new heights.

 

[backbreaker]

LMS is like Timmy on south park.. you just can't get enough of him.

as outlandish as he is.. he's actually right. he's just blunt as hell saying it.

She's not a ***** I've seen her out plenty of times and she was either with me or old douchebag bf. If anyone has any REAL advice I'd appreciate it.

just because you ahen't seen her with other guys that means she hasn't been with other guys?

Just because she is showing interest doesn't mean she's an angel.

you even admit to being an"avg AFC" yet you won't listen to people when they give you solid advice

there's this HB9 that I work with who I've been friends with for awhile. I

if you want my honest opinion, which you don't, you were fvcked from the start. you don't go that long without making a move and things work out for the better unless she's hella attracted to you.

first, but didn't really try anything with her besides some harmless flirting because she had a dumbass boyfriend

the only reason you consider him a dumbass is because she is probalby given you the sterotypical my BF is a loser.. however he's got his stick in her mouth and you don't so how much of a loser can he be?

I bet he's a good guy.

This happens twice, but she says it's because she was drunk. I joked around with her about it pretending it didn't bother me but it did.

nothing amazes me anymore. a woman, puts her tounge down your throat, twice, and you want to know how to lay her.

what does she need to do? Have neon flashy light underpants with your name saying "insert cvck here" for you to get the hint? I'm being tounge in cheek of course but dude... a woman smothering you with her lips is about as good a sign as you are ever going to get"

no, your problem is that you are jsut to b!tch to act on your emotions, which is turnign her off.

Well a few days ago we take a trip outta town with some friends, but me and her end up getting a room together. End up making out, having sex, cuddling, and holding her hand...everything was awesome...it felt like she was my gf. Now were back in town and I'm not quite sure how to go from here. I'd like to have a ltr with her but I'm not sure exactly what to do now.

I'm sorry.. you actually did get laid.. my bad. So the problem isn't so much that you can't fvck her, you are having feelings for a one night stand.


why would you want a serious relationship with someone who cheated on her BF for you?

sometimes the easiest answers are the answers you are looking for. Basic things like.. you know.. a woman who works.. a woman who doesn't cheat on her man to get with you.. will save you alot of drama in the future.

it's just pvssy man. what you need to do is spin other plates

 

[Street_Fighter]

just play it cool and do what you were doing before ;teasing,messing with her jokingly etc. when the oppritunity arises (and it most likely will) isolate and hit it again It seriously sounds like you're just in it for the pink so it's not like you'll be totaly heartbroken if it only continues as a 'fling'.
How can I tell? you didn't talk about her as in how great she is as a person
or this and that about 'who' she is and how she was different or special.

 

[Don Juanito]

Sounds like a good **** buddy material. Def not LTR material.. what she did to him, she'll do to you eventually. Def don't get attached and turn this to your advantage by doing her better than her BF, and getting her to beg for more... :yes: Good luck!

 

[tbstimber12]

Thanks for the advice guys...I know she's not LTR material after reading this and I know I can do better. Thanks again